Cheated-on husbands who get off on it . . .

I’ve had exes cheat, the first time was in HS, when she told me about it I was incredibly turned on, and confused by that response. I’ve never been into the humiliation or cuckolding thing, but I’ve since found joy in watching or hearing about my partners enjoying themselves with others
 
I’m exactly the same! The mother of my first child fucked some guy while on vacation and we were in the midst of breaking up (but I didn’t know).

After we finally broke up, she went back there and fucked him again. When she got back, we got intimate and it was obvious that her pussy was wrecked by another guy. She finally admitted to both times and it turned me on.

I’m more of an alpha male, having been a fighter my whole youth, so I was never into the whole “humiliation” aspect, but did love the fact that another man fucked my girl.

It took over 15 years for my wife to agree to fuck another guy and it was exciting to watch every aspect of their sexual encounter. The way that they cuddled, giggled, fondled, caressed & masturbated each other, performed oral sex on each other, and eventually the sight of his cock entering (what was exclusively mine) my wife’s formally faithful pussy, was so satisfying to all parties.

The way she spoke to him, moved, moaned, and encouraged him, plus her ultimately cumming from the very satisfying fuck that he was giving her, was incredible!

Unfortunately, she only agreed to fuck him on 2 occasions, then a masseur on another occasion, before she put a halt to anymore extramarital sex (that I’m aware of).
Not into humiliation either. My wife did fuck other guys when we were dating, which I suspected anyway because of the taste of her pussy sometimes, and bruises on her thighs, but I never got to watch her in action. She admitted that I’ve licked other guy’s cum out of her pussy when we dated, but I don’t think she’s done anything since marriage, but then again I may never know. I don’t think she would admit to anything for fear of jeopardizing our marriage, but to be honest, it would probably turn me on to know other men had creamed in her pussy or mouth.

The girlfriend I had previously though was a different story. I took her to sex clubs on multiple occasions and watched her fuck and suck other guys. A real turn on.
 
During the summer before and our senior year in college, I was in Indiana. During that summer my wife lost her virginity to a guy she was seeing. There was one other guy that summer and four more during our senior year. I did not find out until we had been married several years. I honestly thought I married a virgin. Then she had an affair when she went to an income tax seminar in Las Vegas. There have been a couple of others while we have been married. It actually turns me on hearing about them and I know she will not leave me.
Does she get hit on a lot? Is she especially sexy and flirtatious?
 
Here's a confession... Every time I see these threads, I go through them and find a post I like and pretend my husband wrote it secretly. Then I Lit-stalk the person to see what else they have posted
“Lit-stalk” …. Classic! I wish somebody would Lit-stalk me ….. 😄
 
I had to go on a business trip and my computer was acting up so I grabbed my wife's and out the door and off to the airport I went. When I got to the conference, I was attending a session with my her computer out and I was taking notes, etc. when a message popped up. This was back in the days of yahoo messenger. It was a bit risqué so I scrolled up to get some context. Read the whole thread. She had been cheating for quite awhile with one of our best friends. I was mad at first, but couldn't;t get the chat thread out of mind. I read it over and over that night and finally started stroking to it. I must have cum 5 times that night to the thought of her and him together.
 
the first time was in HS, when she told me about it I was incredibly turned on, and confused by that response.
The girl I took to my senior ball took off afterward with some other guy. And just after high school I took a girl out to a dance club, and she left with a friend of mine. Both nights I went home angry (at least I knew I was supposed to be...) and confused, and masturbated wildly, imagining what they were doing with someone other than me.

In my case, though, it triggered a lifelong fetish with cuckolding and humiliation.
 
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Well thank you guys. I had a great night with one of your wives. I had a nice evening set up. Dinner reservations, reserved a nice bottle of wine, and had the room all set up nicely (Not giving up any tips).
Well we never got to go to dinner. She just wanted to go to my room. When she walked in and saw what I did, she freaking mauled me. Wow ! We were undressed in seconds right by the door. The next few hours were ..... lets say memorable. That's all your getting out of me. But to you guys. Thank you, Thank you Thank you.

Keep up the good work 😆🤣😂
 
When you step back and look at it you realize jealousy is a completely wasted and negative emotion. Personally, I don't think we are made for monogamy. It's destined to fail because it's near impossible to find everything you want in a single partner...at least for a kinky Dom like me it is. Wish I could find some playful, non flake, couples in TX to play with.
I agree with you.
I think we all practice non-monogamy with the friendships and work relationships we have. They aren’t all sexual, but I have been called a guys work wife.
 
Something very sexy about a women willing to risk it all just to get that hard dick. I love an insatiable lady that MUST have a variety and often.
For me, Sometimes the risk is an excitement, other times it is because I like my freedom and when a partner tries to contain me I wander. I do like the attention when learning about someone new and how that energy can feel.
 
Do you think that part of the reason that it turned you on and you were able to live with her indefinitely was because of your age?
Obviously, I can't answer for @Ed_Sumner but I can say for myself that I used to fantasize about my ex, who was 14 years younger than me, cheating with younger guys. coming home, telling me how much bigger or more virile or more whatever they were...

Of course, when did it finally happened, she did tell me those things— and then left me for him within a couple of weeks. Don't believe everything you read on these threads. A lot of it is just porn-inspired fantasy. I think for a marriage to thrive on cheating, it requires a very high level of maturity and communication or, failing that, a unique and fortunate pairing of personalities. The cheating happens, to be sure, but it's not all happy endings.

Having said that, I do agree that monogamy is not natural. Cheating doesn't destroy marriages— the culturally enforced (and unnatural) strictures against it do.
 
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