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Winchester3030 said:
I love a nice down blouse, I often wonder if it happens by accident or is it on purpose??? Plus does it offend a lady when I get caught looking or is that the plan
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It depends on a couple of different things.

First of all, sometimes (rarely) it's the plan and sometimes (usually) it's not. But even when it's not the plan, they still know they're going to be looked at, even if their top is not falling open.

But second: "Caught," how exactly?

Like, you can't look without being noticed. She's going to see you looking, no matter how good you think you are at looking like you're not looking.

I don't consider that quite the same as being "caught." When you say "caught," it makes it sound like you're being so obvious about it that she has no option but to react to your looking.

For better or for worse.

You have to be subtle, even when she wants to be looked at. You have to be subtle, even when that is the plan. You have to be subtle, because if you aren't, then that's creepy and even if her plan all along was to get noticed and looked at, she doesn't want to be leered at by a creepy guy.

Don't force her into acknowledging your look. If you're subtle about it, then she'll acknowledge it (by teasingly acting as if she caught you) only if she really, really wants to.

She is probably never going to want to anyway, but she is definitely not going to want to if you're too pushy, obvious and forward about it.

If you force her to acknowledge your looking down her shirt by not being subtle about it, she's almost certainly going to react negatively. Maybe just by covering up and getting the hell away from you as fast as she can. Maybe with a dirty look or the finger. Maybe by causing a scene and embarrassing you.

If you're going to look, then the gentlemanly thing to do is to go ahead and look but - even though you can't get away with looking like you aren't looking, you still have to at least act like you're trying to look like you aren't looking.

It's ironically harder to do that now that you know you're going to get caught no matter what. But by your acting "polite" about it, by pretending you aren't looking, by pretending you don't know she knows you're looking, she's at least free to do the same thing herself - if she wants to pretend like she doesn't know you're looking, she can do so because you aren't in her face.
 
Britva415 said:
It depends on a couple of different things.

First of all, sometimes (rarely) it's the plan and sometimes (usually) it's not. But even when it's not the plan, they still know they're going to be looked at, even if their top is not falling open.

But second: "Caught," how exactly?

Like, you can't look without being noticed. She's going to see you looking, no matter how good you think you are at looking like you're not looking.

I don't consider that quite the same as being "caught." When you say "caught," it makes it sound like you're being so obvious about it that she has no option but to react to your looking.

For better or for worse.

You have to be subtle, even when she wants to be looked at. You have to be subtle, even when that is the plan. You have to be subtle, because if you aren't, then that's creepy and even if her plan all along was to get noticed and looked at, she doesn't want to be leered at by a creepy guy.

Don't force her into acknowledging your look. If you're subtle about it, then she'll acknowledge it (by teasingly acting as if she caught you) only if she really, really wants to.

She is probably never going to want to anyway, but she is definitely not going to want to if you're too pushy, obvious and forward about it.

If you force her to acknowledge your looking down her shirt by not being subtle about it, she's almost certainly going to react negatively. Maybe just by covering up and getting the hell away from you as fast as she can. Maybe with a dirty look or the finger. Maybe by causing a scene and embarrassing you.

If you're going to look, then the gentlemanly thing to do is to go ahead and look but - even though you can't get away with looking like you aren't looking, you still have to at least act like you're trying to look like you aren't looking.

It's ironically harder to do that now that you know you're going to get caught no matter what. But by your acting "polite" about it, by pretending you aren't looking, by pretending you don't know she knows you're looking, she's at least free to do the same thing herself - if she wants to pretend like she doesn't know you're looking, she can do so because you aren't in her face.
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I’ve had ladies smile at me when I got “caught” looking down their tops. (no, I wasn’t leering) Whether it was intentional or not, I think they appreciated the look which made them feel attractive.
 
Britva415 said:
If you're subtle about it, then she'll acknowledge it (by teasingly acting as if she caught you) only if she really, really wants to.
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Volk359 said:
I’ve had ladies smile at me when I got “caught” looking down their tops. (no, I wasn’t leering) Whether it was intentional or not, I think they appreciated the look which made them feel attractive.
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Sure, me too.

Sometimes it's hard to know whether they were intentionally being that revealing or not.

But the right play is always to act like you believe they aren't being intentional about it. And that's if they acknowledge you at all. Usually they won't, even though they catch us every time.
 
Britva415 said:
It depends on a couple of different things.

First of all, sometimes (rarely) it's the plan and sometimes (usually) it's not. But even when it's not the plan, they still know they're going to be looked at, even if their top is not falling open.

But second: "Caught," how exactly?

Like, you can't look without being noticed. She's going to see you looking, no matter how good you think you are at looking like you're not looking.

I don't consider that quite the same as being "caught." When you say "caught," it makes it sound like you're being so obvious about it that she has no option but to react to your looking.

For better or for worse.

You have to be subtle, even when she wants to be looked at. You have to be subtle, even when that is the plan. You have to be subtle, because if you aren't, then that's creepy and even if her plan all along was to get noticed and looked at, she doesn't want to be leered at by a creepy guy.

Don't force her into acknowledging your look. If you're subtle about it, then she'll acknowledge it (by teasingly acting as if she caught you) only if she really, really wants to.

She is probably never going to want to anyway, but she is definitely not going to want to if you're too pushy, obvious and forward about it.

If you force her to acknowledge your looking down her shirt by not being subtle about it, she's almost certainly going to react negatively. Maybe just by covering up and getting the hell away from you as fast as she can. Maybe with a dirty look or the finger. Maybe by causing a scene and embarrassing you.

If you're going to look, then the gentlemanly thing to do is to go ahead and look but - even though you can't get away with looking like you aren't looking, you still have to at least act like you're trying to look like you aren't looking.

It's ironically harder to do that now that you know you're going to get caught no matter what. But by your acting "polite" about it, by pretending you aren't looking, by pretending you don't know she knows you're looking, she's at least free to do the same thing herself - if she wants to pretend like she doesn't know you're looking, she can do so because you aren't in her face.
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I love this deconstruction. The ethics are very complex..
 
I don’t want to offend, and I certainly don’t want to come across as a creep (no leering!), but as a guy it’s difficult to avoid looking. I’ve also received the “the fuck you looking at glare?” Makes me wonder if she didn’t realize she was showing more than a lady should and was embarrased at exposing herself and being seen.
 
Britva415 said:
It depends on a couple of different things.

First of all, sometimes (rarely) it's the plan and sometimes (usually) it's not. But even when it's not the plan, they still know they're going to be looked at, even if their top is not falling open.

But second: "Caught," how exactly?

Like, you can't look without being noticed. She's going to see you looking, no matter how good you think you are at looking like you're not looking.

I don't consider that quite the same as being "caught." When you say "caught," it makes it sound like you're being so obvious about it that she has no option but to react to your looking.

For better or for worse.

You have to be subtle, even when she wants to be looked at. You have to be subtle, even when that is the plan. You have to be subtle, because if you aren't, then that's creepy and even if her plan all along was to get noticed and looked at, she doesn't want to be leered at by a creepy guy.

Don't force her into acknowledging your look. If you're subtle about it, then she'll acknowledge it (by teasingly acting as if she caught you) only if she really, really wants to.

She is probably never going to want to anyway, but she is definitely not going to want to if you're too pushy, obvious and forward about it.

If you force her to acknowledge your looking down her shirt by not being subtle about it, she's almost certainly going to react negatively. Maybe just by covering up and getting the hell away from you as fast as she can. Maybe with a dirty look or the finger. Maybe by causing a scene and embarrassing you.

If you're going to look, then the gentlemanly thing to do is to go ahead and look but - even though you can't get away with looking like you aren't looking, you still have to at least act like you're trying to look like you aren't looking.

It's ironically harder to do that now that you know you're going to get caught no matter what. But by your acting "polite" about it, by pretending you aren't looking, by pretending you don't know she knows you're looking, she's at least free to do the same thing herself - if she wants to pretend like she doesn't know you're looking, she can do so because you aren't in her face.
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Thank you , your explanation is perfect and it happened many times for me. She usually raises her arm to mange her hair over her head. That's a good time to hunt her arm pits, she does many times and I could skip my eyes . So, I do not know realy she does it by perpose to be watched or not. I under!!!
 
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