Cock Talk

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Interesting … not… weird for me or revealing in the slightest…

Okkkkkkk. So. You guys just fuck people you like and that’s that?

I mean, really, it’s a bit hard for me to understand or believe that no one’s ever gone to school, or worked with, or interacted with someone who initially rubbed them the wrong way but developed an attraction to later.

I don’t mean anything heinous like suddenly finding yourself attracted to an intolerant person and I’m really not even talking about fucking someone you don’t like and then liking them more after, although I’m curious about that too, it’s more about how you got from A-to-Z and how the dynamics shifted afterwards.

Maybe I should’ve just asked you all what you’re wearing and if you’ve touched your (metaphorical) cock today, kept it simple

I’m super judgmental. And very stubborn.

I can understand intellectually that these things happen. And that sometimes people might wanna fuck someone just for the experience or just because the moment or mood coincide or whatever other reason.

But like the reality of shutting my brain off and not worrying about tomorrow or next week or whenever because right now this person is here…not a thing I can do.

 

[lavendersilk]

Okkkkkkk. So. You guys just fuck people you like and that’s that?

I do love reading "enemies to lovers" romance novels though. And it's a great rom-com trope.

Also, I usually sarcastically mock or insult someone as a casual way of flirting... with mixed results. I think it weeds out people who take themselves too seriously.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Interesting … not… weird for me or revealing in the slightest…

Okkkkkkk. So. You guys just fuck people you like and that’s that?

I mean, really, it’s a bit hard for me to understand or believe that no one’s ever gone to school, or worked with, or interacted with someone who initially rubbed them the wrong way but developed an attraction to later.

I don’t mean anything heinous like suddenly finding yourself attracted to an intolerant person and I’m really not even talking about fucking someone you don’t like and then liking them more after, although I’m curious about that too, it’s more about how you got from A-to-Z and how the dynamics shifted afterwards.

Maybe I should’ve just asked you all what you’re wearing and if you’ve touched your (metaphorical) cock today, kept it simple

I have definitely been attracted to somebody I didn’t like originally. It might be a thing they do or say and I can think “they are worth one”. The problem is, the reason I didn’t like them originally will always be there and that would surface if I tried to get intimate with them.

I am wearing a green patterned summer dress, white bra and panties. Today ends in a Y so of course I have touched my metaphorical cock

ETA - A little story time for you. It is something that my friend did and she knows I tell people and is ok with that.

Once upon a time, a young woman named Cherry (name has been changed to protect the true identity of this amazing person) went to a house party. Cherry was a beautiful woman with a fuller figure. She oozed confidence and wasn’t short of male admirers.

At this particular party, there was a young fellow named Dick. His personality matched his name exactly.

All night, Dick kept poking fun at Cherry’s weight, making very upsetting comments. Near the end of the night, and after drinking several beers, Dick began to realise he was such a fucking knobhead that he wasn’t going to get laid with any of the women he had tried it on with. Cherry suddenly became his target. Now Cherry had really (and quite rightly) taken a dislike to the Knobhead but thought it would be fun to play along. Eventually, they left the party together and headed back to his house.

Cherry had mediocre sex (her description of it was worse) with the Knobhead and he fell straight asleep afterwards. Cherry is a very giving person and didn’t want to leave without giving him something to remember their night together. Knobhead was asleep on his back. Cherry positioned herself in a squat position over his chest. Making sure she was in the perfect place, she did a nice big shit on his chest. Climbing off him, she went to the bathroom, cleaned herself up and left his home with a big smile on her face.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Interesting … not… weird for me or revealing in the slightest…

Okkkkkkk. So. You guys just fuck people you like and that’s that?

I mean, really, it’s a bit hard for me to understand or believe that no one’s ever gone to school, or worked with, or interacted with someone who initially rubbed them the wrong way but developed an attraction to later.

I don’t mean anything heinous like suddenly finding yourself attracted to an intolerant person and I’m really not even talking about fucking someone you don’t like and then liking them more after, although I’m curious about that too, it’s more about how you got from A-to-Z and how the dynamics shifted afterwards.

Maybe I should’ve just asked you all what you’re wearing and if you’ve touched your (metaphorical) cock today, kept it simple

Lol it always goes that opposite way for me babe! idk what to tell you. I think it's bc it takes a LOT for me to officially dislike someone. Benefit of the doubt, devils advocate, etc.

But if you have stories, I'm ALL ears!

 

[LostHorizon]

Interesting … not… weird for me or revealing in the slightest…

Okkkkkkk. So. You guys just fuck people you like and that’s that?

I mean, really, it’s a bit hard for me to understand or believe that no one’s ever gone to school, or worked with, or interacted with someone who initially rubbed them the wrong way but developed an attraction to later.

I don’t mean anything heinous like suddenly finding yourself attracted to an intolerant person and I’m really not even talking about fucking someone you don’t like and then liking them more after, although I’m curious about that too, it’s more about how you got from A-to-Z and how the dynamics shifted afterwards.

Maybe I should’ve just asked you all what you’re wearing and if you’ve touched your (metaphorical) cock today, kept it simple

I am wearing black pants, a dark blue ribbed polo, black shoes, and a grey suit jacket.

And no, I haven’t touched my metaphorical cock. I am waiting for the right metaphorical woman to slide into my DMs I guess.

I also haven’t touched my real cock much today other than to pee, wash it in the shower and move it out of the way once in a while.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Well I have a few hours so I may as wellllllllll

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Not because it’s clever, but because it’s true​

We all have them, the people we feel drawn to who aren’t much of anything until, suddenly, they’re something, aren’t they?

I want to know about who you found your self into - that well, you got into, y’know, with your cocks (or metaphorical cocks for those of us lacking).

We’ve all heard of the ick, but have you ever fucked someone you didn’t even like… until afterwards? Have you ever been the ick turned intoxicating? What changed? What clicked?

Who were they to you before? Who were they to you during? Who are they to you now?

What did the experience change for ABOUT you? Your self worth, your ego, your confidence - did it take a hit or did it boost something in you? Do you approach connections differently now? If so, how?

Do you think it always burns out? Should it? Are you ever tempted to check if the fire’s still burning hotter than you remember?

Or was it never really about them at all? Was it about feeding something you were missing at the time? Are you finally satisfied? Is it even possible?!

I've got a very limited sexual history, so I can't answer most of these.

However, I'll say that I think I've often been "the ick" that became enticing, for someone else.

I have worked in a male dominated industry for decades. In this field, men that are 10-15 years older than me seem to be unable to tolerate a woman who is competent, confident, and knows more about a project, or has more/better connections than they do. It annoys them beyond words that I'm almost impossible to offend, and that my skills of turning their insults back around on them are Olympic level. It's a game to me at this point.

I've noticed that it's often the man that's the most adversarial, the most insulting, with the most "get the broad out if here and let the man-folk talk" attitude, that eventually make a pass at me.

I've never gotten the ick & moved passed it. If you're icky, you're icky.

 

[EvaLane]

The problem is, the reason I didn’t like them originally will always be there and that would surface if I tried to get intimate with them.

Oh now this is exactly the insight I was looking for! Yes! Yes! Yes.

Very true.

But if you have stories, I'm ALL ears!

Ohhhh we know I have stories and I’m always eager to share

 

[MindYaBitness]

I do love reading "enemies to lovers" romance novels though. And it's a great rom-com trope.

Also, I usually sarcastically mock or insult someone as a casual way of flirting... with mixed results. I think it weeds out people who take themselves too seriously.

I've got some books recommendations for you...

 

[velona]

Interesting … not… weird for me or revealing in the slightest…

Okkkkkkk. So. You guys just fuck people you like and that’s that?

I mean, really, it’s a bit hard for me to understand or believe that no one’s ever gone to school, or worked with, or interacted with someone who initially rubbed them the wrong way but developed an attraction to later.

I don’t mean anything heinous like suddenly finding yourself attracted to an intolerant person and I’m really not even talking about fucking someone you don’t like and then liking them more after, although I’m curious about that too, it’s more about how you got from A-to-Z and how the dynamics shifted afterwards.

Maybe I should’ve just asked you all what you’re wearing and if you’ve touched your (metaphorical) cock today, kept it simple

Ok, I think I see where you are coming from with this question now.

So yes I’ll share a story, even though it was a long time ago (college days).

There was a friend of a friend who was conventionally attractive, but kind of annoying, kind of arrogant, just not my cup of tea so I’d never felt attracted to him. BUT one time we ended up talking (probably drinking because college) and I shared about something difficult I was going through. And the annoying, arrogant guy disappeared and turned into this very safe comforting person. And *that* was incredibly attractive. And we did have some fun.

It was a one time deal but it was kind of nice to have this secret slice of someone that they don’t usually show anyone else. I’d say I kept a soft spot for him, even though we never became close.

 

[EvaLane]

What an interesting comment from my perspective. Still wondering why.

Why do you have no forum posts except for this passive aggressive shit calling me out for not responding to your PMs???

For context, we spoke for less than a week, on and off, barely. I told you politely I was busy off-site and couldn’t respond to PMs. This is literally one of the only ways you can ensure we never talk again.

 

[MindYaBitness]

What an interesting comment from my perspective. Still wondering why.

What if I told you that no one owes you their time & energy. If things fizzled out, move on. You're not owed anything.

 

[Lmizzler]

What an interesting comment from my perspective. Still wondering why.

I am by no means an expert in talking to women.
But I have learned this, starting a conversation with one should not come across as misleading or derogatory. Try better next time my guy.

 

[sammyIammy]

What an interesting comment from my perspective. Still wondering why.

Sometimes the answer is simply “because” and that has to be okay.

 

[EvaLane]

We’ve all heard of the ick, but have you ever fucked someone you didn’t even like… until afterwards? Have you ever been the ick turned intoxicating? What changed? What clicked?

So, I haven’t techhhnicalllllyy fucked someone I didn’t like buttttt I’ve absolutely let someone I didn’t trust get very close. Actually.. maybe that’s happened a few times.

For the purposes of this exercise, let’s go with him There was this oneeee, well it wasn’t supposed to go anywhere. He was way too arrogant, too guarded. He had this awful way of making everything feel like a disappointment even though we were equals (we were supposed to be )

We didn’t fuck.

But then there was this one time where he offered to drive me home and for whatever reason, I said yes. Out of the environment we were in, away from other people, things shifted and it was very charged. He drove me home a few times after that, the conversations getting further and further away from hypotheticals to real locations, real opportunities.

I was engaged and he was married. Still, I can’t help but regret deleting some of the late night texts asking if I was up for a ride tomorrow

And have I ever been the ick?! Well, maybe not in the traditional sense, but I think I’ve been an acquired taste for awhile.

Who were they to you before? Who were they to you during? Who are they to you now?

Welllllll, he was sort of a friend of a boyfriend and during… well, we were acquaintances. Now, he’s no one. Busy. Living his life, far away from the mischief we could have caused.

What did the experience change for ABOUT you? Your self worth, your ego, your confidence - did it take a hit or did it boost something in you? Do you approach connections differently now? If so, how?

Pretty par for the course, the push and pull, the confusion and the lust meeting in the middle so that I’m stagnant and safe-ish.

But of course, there’s something fun about knowing you can get someone riled up with just a few words and flicker of an eye roll also wants to fuck your brains out. Bit of a confidence boost, sure.

And now, I’m practically a saint so my connections have been a lot more manageable, for the most part.

Do you think it always burns out? Should it? Are you ever tempted to check if the fire’s still burning hotter than you remember?

I wouldn’t be me if I wasn’t tempted to poke a bruise just to see if it still hurts

But nooooo, not this one. Some dynamics have to burn out because if they don’t, well, that can be dangerous, can’t it?

Or was it never really about them at all? Was it about feeding something you were missing at the time? Are you finally satisfied? Is it even possible?!

Of course it was about meee, that’s why I’m still here picking myself apart.

He gave me attention without flattery, challenge without asking me to actually change, and blurred lines just enough to keep me curious. He offered me something I needed then. That flavour of trouble will always get my attention, for better or worse.

Am I satisfied? No, almost never, but I could be. Some of the connections I’ve found here hit in ways that are equal parts thrilling and secure, which might actually be the perfect balance.

 

[Endless_Night]

- equal parts thrilling and secure, which might actually be the perfect balance.

This is indeed the perfect balance.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Am I satisfied? No, almost never, but I could be. Some of the connections I’ve found here hit in ways that are equal parts thrilling and secure, which might actually be the perfect balance.

I couldn't have said it better myself. It's the strange alchemy of danger & safety, that make it both alluring & sustainable. You get that persistent kink itch that you just can't ignore, scratched in a way that is both satisfying, yet doesn't adversely impact your real life, (if you're careful!)

 

[FistfulOfMyHair]

yet doesn't adversely impact your real life, (if you're careful!)

Is there a manual? Afaf

 

[Apisto42]

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Or are we really just going to publicly call me out for being the only one handing out pity fucks that accidentally turn into hot memories?

Either way, yes

I could probably use a pity fuck. I’m not that proud that I’d turn down a good pity fuck.

 

[Apisto42]

I have definitely been attracted to somebody I didn’t like originally. It might be a thing they do or say and I can think “they are worth one”. The problem is, the reason I didn’t like them originally will always be there and that would surface if I tried to get intimate with them.

I am wearing a green patterned summer dress, white bra and panties. Today ends in a Y so of course I have touched my metaphorical cock

ETA - A little story time for you. It is something that my friend did and she knows I tell people and is ok with that.

Once upon a time, a young woman named Cherry (name has been changed to protect the true identity of this amazing person) went to a house party. Cherry was a beautiful woman with a fuller figure. She oozed confidence and wasn’t short of male admirers.

At this particular party, there was a young fellow named Dick. His personality matched his name exactly.

All night, Dick kept poking fun at Cherry’s weight, making very upsetting comments. Near the end of the night, and after drinking several beers, Dick began to realise he was such a fucking knobhead that he wasn’t going to get laid with any of the women he had tried it on with. Cherry suddenly became his target. Now Cherry had really (and quite rightly) taken a dislike to the Knobhead but thought it would be fun to play along. Eventually, they left the party together and headed back to his house.

Cherry had mediocre sex (her description of it was worse) with the Knobhead and he fell straight asleep afterwards. Cherry is a very giving person and didn’t want to leave without giving him something to remember their night together. Knobhead was asleep on his back. Cherry positioned herself in a squat position over his chest. Making sure she was in the perfect place, she did a nice big shit on his chest. Climbing off him, she went to the bathroom, cleaned herself up and left his home with a big smile on her face.

This is why I’m always polite to people I’m drinking with.

Also, I’d like to meet Cherry someday. She sounds fabulous.

 

[Apisto42]

This is indeed the perfect balance.

So… I can be the fulcrum to your spinning top?

 

[Apisto42]

Well I have a few hours so I may as wellllllllll

View attachment 2547709
Not because it’s clever, but because it’s true​

We all have them, the people we feel drawn to who aren’t much of anything until, suddenly, they’re something, aren’t they?

I want to know about who you found your self into - that well, you got into, y’know, with your cocks (or metaphorical cocks for those of us lacking).

We’ve all heard of the ick, but have you ever fucked someone you didn’t even like… until afterwards? Have you ever been the ick turned intoxicating? What changed? What clicked?

Nope. If someone gives me the ick that’s it. There’s too many good tacos to eat to waste my time on a shitty taco.

Who were they to you before? Who were they to you during? Who are they to you now?

What did the experience change for ABOUT you? Your self worth, your ego, your confidence - did it take a hit or did it boost something in you? Do you approach connections differently now? If so, how?

Do you think it always burns out? Should it? Are you ever tempted to check if the fire’s still burning hotter than you remember?

For a long term relationship, you have to keep having new experiences to build on. Even just something like trying the new taco joint while you’re out running errands together.

Or was it never really about them at all? Was it about feeding something you were missing at the time? Are you finally satisfied? Is it even possible?!

Satisfaction is a choice.

 

[AmberLGreen]

This is why I’m always polite to people I’m drinking with.

Also, I’d like to meet Cherry someday. She sounds fabulous.

You don’t need to meet Cherry. Pull my hair, spit in my face and call me a whore and I will quite happily shit on you

 

[MindYaBitness]

Is there a manual? Afaf

I wish! Unfortunately, its one those figure-it-out-as-I-go type of things. A manual would have been SUPER helpful. Though, I wouldn't have survived my learning curve without the friends I'd made here (I'm looking at you @Lmizzler & @Mr_bogey )

 

[Apisto42]

I wish! Unfortunately, its one those figure-it-out-as-I-go type of things. A manual would have been SUPER helpful. Though, I wouldn't have survived my learning curve without the friends I'd made here (I'm looking at you @Lmizzler & @Mr_bogey )

If you’re looking for a good curve…

 

[EvaLane]

I could probably use a pity fuck. I’m not that proud that I’d turn down a good pity fuck.

But are you right for the job? ​

Related-but-not: I was once called a “risky hire” because of my lack of experience and education. Bold of them to admit that after I’d already proven I was the best thing to happen to them. Y’know, aside from the petty theft

Anyway, let’s apply that logic to sex:

Would you be considered a risky hire, or are you a sure thing?

Do you have a solid résumé to back it up or are you more of a hands on learner?

Are you anxiously awaiting your next performance review or are you planning on a raise?

Bonus points if you’ve ever been promoted for extracurricular excellence and would like to share with the class how you achieved such excellence