Damn that sounds like funAllocate some time. Relax, put on relaxing or mellow music. give yourself at least an hour.
Get the massager inside and just relax and enjoy the sensations of it filling you. Do not touch your penis… hands off.
After you get it in and get used to the sensations, I did kegels to just get it into a rhythm. Enjoy it, you may feel some tension building or precum even if you are flaccid.
Try different speeds and kegel rhythms. You can also try rocking it a little to find good pressure on your prostate.
It took me abt 6-7 tries before I had my first prostate orgasm, but it was a game changer. My first p orgasm was earth shattering.
First one: I felt this good feeling roaming inside me in waves coming from my core and prostate. It built and built until I had a big prostate orgasm. Incense moaning out really loud. It was totally unlike any ejaculatory orgasm. And you can have many of them.
I don’t ejaculate at all from my prostate orgasms. Some good precum but that’s it.
Good luck!!