The 50 Plus Cafe, Pub, All-Nite Greasy Spoon and Dive Bar

[likes2watchU]

Here we are... age old question:
Is it the end of the week or the start?
Either way...

What's everyone else up to?
Gack - struck by the 10k character limit again...
so here's Part 1:

Wow, I'm never going to catch up!

Sorry you're under the weather... hope you get a solid night's sleep and feel better soon.

Did you have to use your "wet license" for "wet work?????"

Hmm... *gets out black book... thumbs to the Ws*

Lol.. not yet

*sets down book*

we have a backhoe and enough acreage

*Picks up book again*

I'd rather be remembered as a a lover instead of a killer though

*sets down book... again*
Oh, c'mon! Make up your mind!! *taps foot impatiently*

I love your recaps, Likes!
Of course, I didn't have any lemons in the house, either.
Thanks for these! I'll bookmark them.
Good graphic visual!

Aww, thanks! I don't always have time, but when I do?

I have friend who is a "Smokejumper".... a true badass, IMHO, but one of the FINEST, most humble and kind human beings you'll ever meet.

Smokejumper - another profession I could never possibly do but am thankful every day that we have folks who can because it's so essential. Especially this time of year!! They help keep me breathing... huge fan!!

That said, do not sell yourself short!! I remember Deepwater Horizon and the 11 souls we lost that day.
In an archetypal story of Good vs Evil played out IRL... there were several heroes on the rig that day. I shudder to think how much worse this could have been without them. And you do this work every day (well, except for the your land rotation w/ your Goddess). I doubt most people think of all that goes into a "simple fill up at the pump" or any of the other items in their life that have their origin in petrochemicals. Thank you for doing this dangerous, needed work.

If you feel comfortable doing so, just stay here and hang out with us. It's a judgment-free zone.

I spend all of my time on Lit on just this thread and DMs. I just don't have time for more right now. It's the people here that keep drawing me back.

You're going into your winter. I'd rather have cold weather than hot.

Hands down agree!
I'm also heading into Summer with a dodgy A/C

She destroyed me again yesterday! As usual.
...I can see that I'm making progress. Our main focus is balance and strength.

The other day when I was grumbling, she told me about a client of hers who is 92! And uses oxygen! Well, I just had to shut up after that! I want to be that lady!

Balance and Strength - essential! I mostly do Tai Chi for these
I want to be that lady - and I'd love to have your trainer to help me with that transformation!!

I hope it helps. Just go into it knowing it may take a while for you to see results.

I agree... my take on PT? You get out of it what you put into it.

You two are the lucky ones! You have a relationship most can only dream about! ️

This is what I love about the overnight (to me) posts from @Lilianna23 - Truth Bombs like this

Pretty! What is it?

I had the same question so I asked the web:

Internet says: The image shows a flower from the Sisyrinchium genus, commonly known as Blue-Eyed Grass. Despite its name, it is not a true grass but belongs to the iris family.

So, now I have to get another one for @Boat1?

Time to ask if there's a discount on bulk purchases?

 

[likes2watchU]

and... Part 2:

Just "grey rock" them!

TIL - had to investigate this one. A bit more info here than what my mom gave me back in grade school.
Here are some resources I found helpful for anyone else thinking "what's a grey rock?"
Medical News Today: Grey Rock
Psych Central: Grey Rock Method
My Wellbeing: Grey Rock Technique

It's a right of passage

Too bad @nipplecaresser is out today

My condolences! Just the thought of doing that prep yearly!

Right? Given so many have had theirs recently or will be, any tips or hacks for the prep?
For me? I lube up before the clear out. Otherwise it's excruciatingly painful. I find this worse than the prep actually. I tolerate simple vaseline - but make sure it's not scented. Yes - there is scented vaseline these days.

That "worm" is the stuff of nightmares!

Right? I was really hoping this was an Australia Only critter, but nope

Not quite the year of the colonoscopy but I couldn't resist!

I this song!

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Reminds me of Toothless from How to Train Your Dragon... total cutie and marshmallow with a bit of snap.

Lime popsicles save me. The prep wasn’t as bad as earlier ones and I wish I knew about using straws that avoids the taste buds.

Great prep hack, B2!

Good morning all. I found a great old dog sitter. She is a freshman in college whose mother is a widow in our Meetup group. She and old dog get along great.

Even though, when I return home he wants to play which means he is a happy old dog.

Sounds like a perfect match... my heart sings to hear the words "happy old dog".

It's a nope rope

Adding this to my lexicon!!

"Wet work" means diff'runt things to diff'runt people, yanno . . . .

Does it really? Or are all those others really found under "Other meanings"?

The Bizness Partner found a backhoe (old damned thing, but all there and running) for fairly cheap and not far from the house. It's on hold for me to look at the end of the month.

*reaches for Black Book again*

Yes same focus here. Seems like they know to prepare us to survive a fall

Fall Prevention... Fall Survival looks a bit different I think... like "How to roll" and "Don't put your hands out"??

Power cycle?

Yes!! The "Toaster Test"
(aka Unplug, Plug back in or Turn off/on)

More like user error

Nah - when you have an out like this? Always throw the tech under the bus.

Music is a funny thing. I all kinds of music. I give everything a shot, but always sort of come back around to my faves.
Books/authors? Same.
Maybe I’m weird…

I think we all do the same to an extent. I do like discovering "new" be it music, authors, foods... anything really. At the same time, I do return again and again to my faves.
It's staying open to the new that I think is important.

Big enough to tackle serious tasks and small enough to get pretty much everywhere we need for it to go.

Sounds like the perfect definition right here. Hope it works out for you!

Wow, I remember the original thread for this …
I’ll be 51 in a couple of days, so well within the criteria.
Nice to see everyone who makes this place a home, and if the barkeep is listening I’ll take a nice dry martini - on the dirtier side, if you will.

Welcome back...
(cue theme song from Welcome Back, Kotter for my musically wired brain)

Happy Birthday!

We have had to add-- for all thats holy read a profile before you DM anyone.... We have biters in here and Lil and I aren't close enough to bandage the wounds.

I'm like @JesseWallace in this regard - I like looking at someone's profile when I first meet them and definitely before I send a DM

a throughly draining experience…pardon the pun

We're fans of a good pun around here, right @nipplecaresser and @Lilianna23 ?

I used to tell my patients it was no big deal

When my care team says stuff like this, I like to ask how they fared when they had the test/procedure/whatever done themselves (or their mom, wife, sister, daughter). Their response helps inform my decisions - that and my own, independent research.

Well screw them, im doing them every three years. Cause im a rebel.

Sending huge Lucky Charm vibes your way.

I am struggling with life and the bs involved

Same, girl! My A/C has been off almost all weekend. Given what it's doing and its age? I'm expecting I'll need to replace both furnace and A/C... and it's almost certain if will not be completed before some really hot and smoky weather hits. So then I also get to play the "Home or Hospital Game" with reactions.

I've put out a Princess Lea distress call to who I hope will be my Obi Wan Kenobi (aka guy who did the orig installs).

 

[likes2watchU]

Phew - that took a minute...
Now look at the time
Sweet Dreams all...
another busy day at work... will try to check in when I can

 

[Lilianna23]

Next time I will use a straw..... see if that helps

I always told my patients to use a straw. You can bypass most of the taste buds that way. I had to threaten my hubs with an NG tube! This is a tube that is inserted into the nose and ends in the stomach for you non-HCPs.

 

[Lilianna23]

"Pink organdy dress"
guess that's the nice way of saying "Pepto Bismol dress"?
Romance authors
This is why I tend to read @ 2 romance titles a decade.
Gah!
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I totally LOVE this dress!

 

[Lilianna23]

No. The Brat House thread is having a difficult time with Lits new rules.
And I have a lot of friends here with the spooners.

Lit has new rules???

 

[Lilianna23]

No offense to the Pink Ladies... More pink in the shops for y'all. But if I'm wearing pink, it usually means there was a Laundry Disaster.

If I'm wearing pink, it usually means it's a day ending in Y!

 

[Lilianna23]

Lol.. not yet, we have a backhoe and enough acreage....

Good to know. Not that the information will ever come in handy for me!

 

[Lilianna23]

.... I'd rather be remembered as a a lover instead of a killer though...
I wish MissK (and ALL of you) could've joined us for risotto, fish filets, squash and onions tonight....

That sounds like a wonderful dinner!

 

[Lilianna23]

I have friend who is a "Smokejumper".... a true badass, IMHO, but one of the FINEST, most humble and kind human beings you'll ever meet.

Dangerous work! Thank him for his service for me!

 

[likes2watchU]

I totally LOVE this dress!

I had a feeling... I'm just not a Pink or Red person... gimme a purple, blue, or green any day

Lit has new rules???

Literotica Design News, Publishing Queue, Nudity Policy & More
State of the Site post dated 4/25/2025

 

[Lilianna23]

You’re younger than me young lady!

 

[Lilianna23]

112 to 114 degrees during the day with a low of 90. Definitely work....lol

Oh, all right! I'll stop whining about our nearly 90° temps!

I'm glad you're back!

 

[Lilianna23]

I want to live that long with my mind sharp.

Same!

 

[Lilianna23]

Lime popsicles save me. The prep wasn’t as bad as earlier ones and I wish I knew about using straws that avoids the taste buds.

Let K+ or me know. We can come over and insert an NG tube! You won't taste a thing!

 

[Lilianna23]

Good morning all. I found a great old dog sitter. She is a freshman in college whose mother is a widow in our Meetup group. She and old dog get along great.

Even though, when I return home he wants to play which means he is a happy old dog.

Forecast is for some rain and then later this week more smoke from the wildfires.

I'm so glad you found someone he likes!

 

[Lilianna23]

It's a nope rope

Indeed!

 

[Lilianna23]

Apparently all i can do now is use the thumbs up..... what is up with this phone

Try restarting it.

 

[Lilianna23]

"Wet work" means diff'runt things to diff'runt people, yanno . . . .

Explain it to me like I was five...

 

[Lilianna23]

Yes same focus here. Seems like they know to prepare us to survive a fall

Yup definitely wanna be alive in these c “golden” years. Be strong my friend

Thanks, T! You, as well!

 

[Lilianna23]

Music is a funny thing. I all kinds of music. I give everything a shot, but always sort of come back around to my faves. Live music…same…love it! having said all that, there are certain groups I have given shots but they just don’t flip my switch. The Avett Bro’s are one of those. Our local hipster station has them in heavy rotation. There’s a couple of tunes…. I should love them…they’re literally from right up the road.

Books/authors? Same. There are certain authors that I’m “supposed” to love, but…no. Flannery O’Connor…yeah, I’m talking bout you! . Maybe I’m weird…

It’s hot here people…not Africa hot…yet, but It’s coming. I can feel it. It just seemed like last week I was crying about the cold. Where is that mythical place where it stays 72 year round?

Some Lamar Valley Tatanka MZ

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72° is my happy place!

 

[Lilianna23]

We have biters in here

 

[Lilianna23]

Im one of the lucky ones to have the recommendation to get them every two years based on the things they find. Well screw them, im doing them every three years. Cause im a rebel.

If you're going to wait an extra year, please make sure your doctor/clinic gives you a hemoccult test yearly. You've probably done them before but if not, it's a simple take home test used to detect the presence of blood in your stool. Follow the directions then take/mail it in.

 

[Lilianna23]

I am struggling with life and the bs involved... feeling emotionally mentally and physically exhausted... and it's all my fault.... I wantvto through my phone away sell my house and move to a commune.... but I have to be responsible ... all alone and it has me down

Wait just a little bit until Wat has the commune going. I bet he gives you pick of the houses and will paint any color you want.

 

[Lilianna23]

8pm where i am... still light out.... staring out my window at the field

It's almost 2200 here; I can still see across the lake! Headed into the longest day!