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What is it with younger women liking older men?

I had my first “older” man in college. Not one of my professors, but the coach of a visiting football team. It was in the evening after the midday game, and I was working as a waitress in the restaurant of the hotel where the team was staying.

A few of the players were hitting on me, mostly innocent stuff, but when a middle-aged man came over and whispered a few words, they left in an instant. I loved that power move.

He introduced himself, and we began to talk. After some time, I asked him if he wanted to join me at a party, but he couldn’t because he was well-known. I, of course, had no idea who he was.

Cut to the chase, we end up in his suite, and needless to say, when I reported for work the next day, my commute was from the 12th floor to the restaurant: same clothes, total walk of shame.

But that evening with him, I learned why the word “men” exists as opposed to “boys.” It was all about experience. Coach was methodical, gentle, and brought things to the table that I had fantasized about but never verbalized to a “boy.” He told me what he was going to do to me, making me want it all the more. Through him, I learned that time is the best tutor, and making his desires known was key. All this came to him after he had slept with an older woman in his college days.

The following year, our team played at his college, and the year after that, they were back. I made sure I was on the dinner shift. He was happy to see me, and we spent far less time on small talk and more time focusing on each other. In the two years since, I had been emboldened by his advice and expressed my needs to him. Not that he needed them, but I wanted him to see how I had grown sexually from our encounter. He satisfied every single one of my requests. Some more than once.

From that time forward, I’ve always sought out older men. My range is men about 20 years older than myself, and it’s always paid dividends. This doesn’t mean I haven’t had age-appropriate partners or younger men, but given a choice of the three, I’ll take your dad anytime.

If you are a man of 40 or more, ask yourself this. If you had a time machine and could go back and give my younger self some sexual advice, what would it be? Chances are, it’s a lot. Since time travel doesn’t exist, I’m happier with an experienced middle-aged dad as a lover over any ripped 20-something who’s all hands and no skills. Sex takes time to learn and even more time to master.
 
WendyTrilby said:
I had my first “older” man in college. Not one of my professors, but the coach of a visiting football team. It was in the evening after the midday game, and I was working as a waitress in the restaurant of the hotel where the team was staying.

A few of the players were hitting on me, mostly innocent stuff, but when a middle-aged man came over and whispered a few words, they left in an instant. I loved that power move.

He introduced himself, and we began to talk. After some time, I asked him if he wanted to join me at a party, but he couldn’t because he was well-known. I, of course, had no idea who he was.

Cut to the chase, we end up in his suite, and needless to say, when I reported for work the next day, my commute was from the 12th floor to the restaurant: same clothes, total walk of shame.

But that evening with him, I learned why the word “men” exists as opposed to “boys.” It was all about experience. Coach was methodical, gentle, and brought things to the table that I had fantasized about but never verbalized to a “boy.” He told me what he was going to do to me, making me want it all the more. Through him, I learned that time is the best tutor, and making his desires known was key. All this came to him after he had slept with an older woman in his college days.

The following year, our team played at his college, and the year after that, they were back. I made sure I was on the dinner shift. He was happy to see me, and we spent far less time on small talk and more time focusing on each other. In the two years since, I had been emboldened by his advice and expressed my needs to him. Not that he needed them, but I wanted him to see how I had grown sexually from our encounter. He satisfied every single one of my requests. Some more than once.

From that time forward, I’ve always sought out older men. My range is men about 20 years older than myself, and it’s always paid dividends. This doesn’t mean I haven’t had age-appropriate partners or younger men, but given a choice of the three, I’ll take your dad anytime.

If you are a man of 40 or more, ask yourself this. If you had a time machine and could go back and give my younger self some sexual advice, what would it be? Chances are, it’s a lot. Since time travel doesn’t exist, I’m happier with an experienced middle-aged dad as a lover over any ripped 20-something who’s all hands and no skills. Sex takes time to learn and even more time to master.
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loved reading this
 
WendyTrilby said:
I had my first “older” man in college. Not one of my professors, but the coach of a visiting football team. It was in the evening after the midday game, and I was working as a waitress in the restaurant of the hotel where the team was staying.

A few of the players were hitting on me, mostly innocent stuff, but when a middle-aged man came over and whispered a few words, they left in an instant. I loved that power move.

He introduced himself, and we began to talk. After some time, I asked him if he wanted to join me at a party, but he couldn’t because he was well-known. I, of course, had no idea who he was.

Cut to the chase, we end up in his suite, and needless to say, when I reported for work the next day, my commute was from the 12th floor to the restaurant: same clothes, total walk of shame.

But that evening with him, I learned why the word “men” exists as opposed to “boys.” It was all about experience. Coach was methodical, gentle, and brought things to the table that I had fantasized about but never verbalized to a “boy.” He told me what he was going to do to me, making me want it all the more. Through him, I learned that time is the best tutor, and making his desires known was key. All this came to him after he had slept with an older woman in his college days.

The following year, our team played at his college, and the year after that, they were back. I made sure I was on the dinner shift. He was happy to see me, and we spent far less time on small talk and more time focusing on each other. In the two years since, I had been emboldened by his advice and expressed my needs to him. Not that he needed them, but I wanted him to see how I had grown sexually from our encounter. He satisfied every single one of my requests. Some more than once.

From that time forward, I’ve always sought out older men. My range is men about 20 years older than myself, and it’s always paid dividends. This doesn’t mean I haven’t had age-appropriate partners or younger men, but given a choice of the three, I’ll take your dad anytime.

If you are a man of 40 or more, ask yourself this. If you had a time machine and could go back and give my younger self some sexual advice, what would it be? Chances are, it’s a lot. Since time travel doesn’t exist, I’m happier with an experienced middle-aged dad as a lover over any ripped 20-something who’s all hands and no skills. Sex takes time to learn and even more time to master.
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What a great - and true - story. Loved it. 😎
 
lucy_anne21 said:
You don’t, if we want to, we’ll find you. You just have to be alert to our subtle approaches.

Lucy.
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What sucks is when you think you’re picking up the vibe 
.. I just choose to be quietly & privately flattered, and allow myself the pleasure and not ruin it for both parties 
.. 😊
 
Here is my take on this.
When I reached a certain age I found myself doing and saying things with less filters. If I wanted to try something I did, maybe because subconsciously I've thus far lived my life to reflect with what others envisioned me to be, not what I might have necessarily wanted.

I think since I am older, we realize our shortcomings and what we have to compete with the younger more athletic males. Thus when we are with a younger (and even older) woman my focus and effort is 100% on her. It's about fulfilling her needs and desires FIRST as opposed to making it about me. Our time together is for me to give her the opportunity to explore her interests and desires, to treat her in a way she doesn't normally be treated when at home or with a younger guy. If I can give her those moments, orgasms to remember me by, that's 90% success in my book (of course the remaining 10% is for my orgasm!). There is no judgement in your kinks, what you say or act. Older guys are just appreciative with your interests with us.
 
Sct73 said:
My question is

How does an experienced (older) guy find a younger woman?
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Be around them.

This could be at volunteer events, community college classes, hiking clubs, all sorts of places.

But you gotta get outta the house, that is the key - you can’t just “seek younger women.” All you will find is pay for play if you don’t get outside.

But having a life which gets me outta the house and around other people results in me being there for them to notice me, and being there for me to notice their signals.

That’s what it takes, at a minimum. Whether they send signals or not depends on whether they find me attractive or not. Of course not all of them do. But being out there means that the ones who do will show me.

Now - “are they attracted to me or not” is a whole different matter. There are things we can do about that. We can get noticed and we can create attracted feelings if we’re confident, playful and have low stakes. Be out there because you actually want to be out there at those activities doing those things.

Don’t let “being around younger women” be the only, or even the main, reason you’re there. They can tell whether you have a life or not, and having a life which does not depend on them and their attention is attractive. Being there because you’re needy and seeking is very much not.
 
lucy_anne21 said:
You don’t, if we want to, we’ll find you. You just have to be alert to our subtle approaches.

Lucy.
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I agree with you here.....when I was in between marriages and going out it was always women that were 15-20 years younger that showed me attention. I look a little younger than I am and most everyone my age was in bed already so.......:)
 
Live4themoments said:
Here is my take on this.
When I reached a certain age I found myself doing and saying things with less filters. If I wanted to try something I did, maybe because subconsciously I've thus far lived my life to reflect with what others envisioned me to be, not what I might have necessarily wanted.

I think since I am older, we realize our shortcomings and what we have to compete with the younger more athletic males. Thus when we are with a younger (and even older) woman my focus and effort is 100% on her. It's about fulfilling her needs and desires FIRST as opposed to making it about me. Our time together is for me to give her the opportunity to explore her interests and desires, to treat her in a way she doesn't normally be treated when at home or with a younger guy. If I can give her those moments, orgasms to remember me by, that's 90% success in my book (of course the remaining 10% is for my orgasm!). There is no judgement in your kinks, what you say or act. Older guys are just appreciative with your interests with us.
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Very well put. For me - this sums it up completely and accurately...
 
WendyTrilby said:
I had my first “older” man in college. Not one of my professors, but the coach of a visiting football team. It was in the evening after the midday game, and I was working as a waitress in the restaurant of the hotel where the team was staying.

A few of the players were hitting on me, mostly innocent stuff, but when a middle-aged man came over and whispered a few words, they left in an instant. I loved that power move.

He introduced himself, and we began to talk. After some time, I asked him if he wanted to join me at a party, but he couldn’t because he was well-known. I, of course, had no idea who he was.

Cut to the chase, we end up in his suite, and needless to say, when I reported for work the next day, my commute was from the 12th floor to the restaurant: same clothes, total walk of shame.

But that evening with him, I learned why the word “men” exists as opposed to “boys.” It was all about experience. Coach was methodical, gentle, and brought things to the table that I had fantasized about but never verbalized to a “boy.” He told me what he was going to do to me, making me want it all the more. Through him, I learned that time is the best tutor, and making his desires known was key. All this came to him after he had slept with an older woman in his college days.

The following year, our team played at his college, and the year after that, they were back. I made sure I was on the dinner shift. He was happy to see me, and we spent far less time on small talk and more time focusing on each other. In the two years since, I had been emboldened by his advice and expressed my needs to him. Not that he needed them, but I wanted him to see how I had grown sexually from our encounter. He satisfied every single one of my requests. Some more than once.

From that time forward, I’ve always sought out older men. My range is men about 20 years older than myself, and it’s always paid dividends. This doesn’t mean I haven’t had age-appropriate partners or younger men, but given a choice of the three, I’ll take your dad anytime.

If you are a man of 40 or more, ask yourself this. If you had a time machine and could go back and give my younger self some sexual advice, what would it be? Chances are, it’s a lot. Since time travel doesn’t exist, I’m happier with an experienced middle-aged dad as a lover over any ripped 20-something who’s all hands and no skills. Sex takes time to learn and even more time to master.
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Bingo. I’d definitely give my younger self advise. 😉
 
WendyTrilby said:
I had my first “older” man in college. Not one of my professors, but the coach of a visiting football team. It was in the evening after the midday game, and I was working as a waitress in the restaurant of the hotel where the team was staying.

A few of the players were hitting on me, mostly innocent stuff, but when a middle-aged man came over and whispered a few words, they left in an instant. I loved that power move.

He introduced himself, and we began to talk. After some time, I asked him if he wanted to join me at a party, but he couldn’t because he was well-known. I, of course, had no idea who he was.

Cut to the chase, we end up in his suite, and needless to say, when I reported for work the next day, my commute was from the 12th floor to the restaurant: same clothes, total walk of shame.

But that evening with him, I learned why the word “men” exists as opposed to “boys.” It was all about experience. Coach was methodical, gentle, and brought things to the table that I had fantasized about but never verbalized to a “boy.” He told me what he was going to do to me, making me want it all the more. Through him, I learned that time is the best tutor, and making his desires known was key. All this came to him after he had slept with an older woman in his college days.

The following year, our team played at his college, and the year after that, they were back. I made sure I was on the dinner shift. He was happy to see me, and we spent far less time on small talk and more time focusing on each other. In the two years since, I had been emboldened by his advice and expressed my needs to him. Not that he needed them, but I wanted him to see how I had grown sexually from our encounter. He satisfied every single one of my requests. Some more than once.

From that time forward, I’ve always sought out older men. My range is men about 20 years older than myself, and it’s always paid dividends. This doesn’t mean I haven’t had age-appropriate partners or younger men, but given a choice of the three, I’ll take your dad anytime.

If you are a man of 40 or more, ask yourself this. If you had a time machine and could go back and give my younger self some sexual advice, what would it be? Chances are, it’s a lot. Since time travel doesn’t exist, I’m happier with an experienced middle-aged dad as a lover over any ripped 20-something who’s all hands and no skills. Sex takes time to learn and even more time to master.
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Couldn’t have said it better myself.
 
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