Ideal Cock Size

[LMWM321]

TBH I wouldn't know the size in inches/cm just by looking anyway, and they fluctuate so much minute to minute.

A great comment.. And wouldn't it be weird for a person to whip out a tape measure and say, "don't mind me.. but before we have sex, I need to measure your penis."

Still they are all different so the fun is in the reveal. it's like oh wow, didn't know it could look like that

Also a great comment. Is it fair to say LL, that If a guy has earned your invitation to reveal his penis to you, you're probably going to like it?

That is certainly how I feel about women's vagina's. ..I've never seen one I didn't like. Why? Because it belonged to someone I was very attracted to AND was sufficiently attracted to me to reveal it to me.

 

[Goldenh123456789]

I’d say about 4 inches more than my husband has would be about perfect..

 

[Sprocketman74]

I’d say about 4 inches more than my husband has would be about perfect..

So 9 inches?

 

[Goldenh123456789]

So 9 inches?

I should be so lucky ! 7-8 inches on a good day

 

[vandelayatx]

I’d say about 4 inches more than my husband has would be about perfect..

My wife feels same way

 

[Eyelevel]

I should be so lucky ! 7-8 inches on a good day

So you husband is 4 inches?

 

[Ritaraj]

I like size around 6 inch..its ideal to suck and fuck

 

[cdstefi]

Dunno if it's been mentioned but not all women's bits are equal in size either, and in my experience it's been far more about compatibility between a couple's parts than absolute size.

A perfectly average 5" (e.g. mine ) can get the job done with an averagely tight pussy of average depth; my partners have always said it's best when my cock's fully inserted so that the tip tickles their g-spot and cervix without ramming it, while my pubic bone stimulates their clit, and who am I to argue?

I've been with women who aren't size queens and who've found some previous partners' cocks too big and actually painful. I'm sure there are also plenty who'd ideally want more length and girth than average (or mine ).

 

[lil_pete]

I know my wife's answer as I have heard and seen her answer many times.
Yes she does love a BIG cock however she has never had a fixation on length.
7 to 8 inches but that can be problematic for when she's not making love but just wanting to really fuck and fulfill her need.
She LOVES doggy for those sessions but amped up, the hard male pubic bone slamming style, where he is gripping her body and slamming back as if she were a fleshlight.
Then the 7 to 8 doesn't work as it hurts hitting the cervix.
Her ideal penis is 6 and a half inches or more in girth, she absolutely loves a very wide cock filling, stretching her but they are few and far between.

 

[bondandmoneypenny]

I find girth is much more important to me than length. 6 inches is more than enough if it’s thick!

This. Every day. All day long.

MP

 

[hulmule]

I’d say about 4 inches more than my husband has would be about perfect..

Well if I'm 2x the 4" more you need . I'm in !!

 

[Michael_Keaton]

I guess I'd say that I'm on the high end of average, 6" around and 7" long. I had a long term GF who was about 5'4" and 120 lb and she said that we were a good fit for one another. She also had a female BFF whom she would go away with occasionally on a "girl's weekend" who was considerably larger than my GF and this woman tried to convince her to try "a really big one". I don't think she ever did try that big one, but I've always wondered if the side of the ladies contributed to what they consider a good size for them to have sex with.

 

[SemiAmateurWordsmith]

I won't lie, I like small.

I want a cock that's like 3.5 inches, very hard, stubby, and I can do all kinds of things to it. I could lick it, suck it, pleasure it, play with it, and easy take all of it all the way down. I love a small, thin cock.

 

[lowcollar]

Since I get mostly pegged, I buy the dicks. I really like something a good 2 1/2 inches in diameter. I want it to hurt at first. Any length over 6 inches is fine. It's mostly girth that I am after.

 

[joclfc]

I’d say about 4 inches more than my husband has would be about perfect..

How big is your husband then?

 

[gary04]

I like any size

 

[joclfc]

I like any size

Thank god for you

 

[PMarky2]

I was thinking about this last night as I was worshiping Hubby's cock, and I was in a playful mood because I had such a pleasant day yesterday. So, I decided to measure him. It was a first for us both, as I had never measured him or any other guy, and he had never measured himself.
Using the methodology given at https://calcsd.info, he measured:

NBP length: 6"
BP length: 6 1/4" (90th percentile)
Girth (circumference): 5 7/8" (99th percentile)

So, like I always thought based on my experience, a bit longer than average and a lot thicker.

Also, according to the above website, he's 99th percentile for penile volume. That's not a measure I'd thought of before. I have never thought of myself as a size queen because I didn't like long cocks, but I guess the numbers make me a volume queen...

Seriously, I've been with quite a few guys who were longer than Hubby, but that's never really done it for me because lots of reasons. But I've only been with a handful thicker, and that's out of lots of examples. So, I'm thinking the website's pretty much on point there, at least for girth.

Of course, being a man I had to go and do the math too.

NBP Length: 6.5"
BP length: 7"
Circumference: 5.75"
Volume: 8.53oz

All of which are above the 99th percentile, which surprised me because I never thought I was that big, though I did date a girl who professed to be a bit of a size queen and her eyes lit up the first time she saw it!

I can assure you having a large dick is no consolation when you are not getting laid.

 

[liqueur]

I'm always a little dubious about these sorts of stats. I always suspect they're created by smallcocked doctors trying to make themselves feel better. Perhaps I'm wrong. But according to this site, I’m in the 97th percentile*, and based on my considerable experience with other men's cocks, I just don't think that's true.

*_on the rare days when I can still get fully erect, or on my younger days, when full erections were an everyday experience.

 

[PMarky2]

I'm always a little dubious about these sorts of stats. I always suspect they're created by small-cocked doctors trying to make themselves feel better. Perhaps I'm wrong. But according to this site, I’m in the 97th percentile*, and based on my considerable experience with other men's cocks, I just don't think that's true.

*_on the rare days when I can still get fully erect, or on my younger days, when full erections were an everyday experience.

My impression from past girlfriends is that I am on the high side of average for length, but somewhat thicker than many. Mind you, it also explains why I found Johnnies really tight/uncomfortable in my dating days.

 

[liqueur]

My impression from past girlfriends is that I am on the high side of average for length, but somewhat thicker than many.

My first wife and her best friend both said I was big. But they weren't all that experienced, and I never gave it much thought. No one else has ever commented one way or the other. So based on that, as well as my close-up experience with other men's cocks, I've just figured I'm average

Mind you, it also explains why I found Johnnies really tight/uncomfortable in my dating days.

 

[LMWM321]

I'm always a little dubious about these sorts of stats. I always suspect they're created by smallcocked doctors trying to make themselves feel better. Perhaps I'm wrong. But according to this site, I’m in the 97th percentile*, and based on my considerable experience with other men's cocks, I just don't think that's true.

*_on the rare days when I can still get fully erect, or on my younger days, when full erections were an everyday experience.

Go to the SDcalc website and read about the data used in the meta analysis and percentile calculations. It's aggregated from multiple studies from around the world. ..And the averages from each of the studies are all quite close. ..So I don't find it to be so surprising, nor do I think it's part of concerted effort to mislead. Moreover, my own urologist once told me the average erect penis is under 6" - and he's seen lots of dicks. And I don't think he was understating it just to spare my feelings. Indeed, our conversations about dick size are about the challenges my big dick presents in my personal relationship.

One thing to remember is that guys with big dicks are likely to be MUCH more comfortable with letting their dicks be seen - ie., in locker rooms, by room-mates, fraternity brothers, at nude beaches, etc.. And they'll often be more confident approaching women (or men) for casual hookups if they've bought into this idiotic and debunked idea that they are sexually more desirable because of their big-dick, . ...So, all of this would highly skew the average of what you're seeing versus what the average actually is, across all men.

 

[Escierto]

Go to the SDcalc website and read about the data used in the meta analysis and percentile calculations. It's aggregated from multiple studies from around the world. ..And the averages from each of the studies are all quite close. ..So I don't find it to be so surprising, nor do I think it's part of concerted effort to mislead. Moreover, my own urologist once told me the average erect penis is under 6" - and he's seen lots of dicks. And I don't think he's apt to understate just to spare my feelings. Indeed, our conversations about dick size are about the challenges my big dick presents in my personal relationship.

One thing to remember is that guys with big dicks are likely more comfortable letting their dicks be seen - ie., in locker rooms, in front of room-mates, at nude beaches, etc.. And if they've bought into this idiotic and debunked idea that they are sexually more desirable because of their big-dick, they'll be more confident approaching girls (or guys) for casual hookups. ...So all of this would skew the average of what you're seeing versus what the average actually is across all men.

The voice of reason. Of course on Lit every guy has a 9 inch dick!

 

[PMarky2]

Go to the SDcalc website and read about the data used in the meta analysis and percentile calculations. It's aggregated from multiple studies from around the world. ..And the averages from each of the studies are all quite close. ..So I don't find it to be so surprising, nor do I think it's part of concerted effort to mislead. Moreover, my own urologist once told me the average erect penis is under 6" - and he's seen lots of dicks. And I don't think he's apt to understate just to spare my feelings. Indeed, our conversations about dick size are about the challenges my big dick presents in my personal relationship.

One thing to remember is that guys with big dicks are likely more comfortable letting their dicks be seen - ie., in locker rooms, in front of room-mates, at nude beaches, etc.. And if they've bought into this idiotic and debunked idea that they are sexually more desirable because of their big-dick, they'll be more confident approaching girls (or guys) for casual hookups. ...So all of this would skew the average of what you're seeing versus what the average actually is across all men.

That makes sense. I'm a grower not a shower, so I never had much in the way of locker room confidence, and as for that certain swagger, I probably could not pick up a woman to save my life - but that's my personality type.

Sadly, as my wife has aged, her pussy has lost a lot of its elasticity, so I am now banned for being too damn big. I used to be the perfect fit!

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

The voice of reason. Of course on Lit every guy has a 9 inch dick!

Wrong. Not all of us.