The mother fetish contradiction

[HuLust01]

Hey everyone, I’m exited to do my first Post here!
So I have for a very long time this mother son fetish where the mommy kind of takes charge and abuses her motherly power and responsibility teaching her clueless, shy son the wounders of sex.
But the thought of doing it with my actual mother revolts me terribly (just writing this text makes me feel very weird about it and makes me want to vomit).
But the thinking about a woman older than me, being very motherly accepting me as her son and then abusing her power and starts to sexualise the relationship turns me really on.
Tbh idk what to do with this, especially when I talk with other people about this and we gat things going and they start to talk about my actual mom makes me very weird and when I tell them that they run off, and it’s really annoying.
Can’t I just have a mommy without sexualising my mom?

 

[HotflixLust]

Age difference is actually hot, mature women know exactly what young guys want. Mom son dynamics makes it even arousing

 

[HuLust01]

Yes that’s so for real, I actually lost my virginity to a woman 10 years older than me and she showed my so many stuff, tbh the best thing that ever happened to me at this point and I desperately need this back!

 

[HotflixLust]

Same here bro. Older women are the best

 

[HotflixLust]

Mom can be the best sex teacher a son can ever get

 

[StrongMaster7]

This is a great point. I find the idea of a mother teaching her son about sex very hot. But not my mother.

 

[HotflixLust]

This is a great point. I find the idea of a mother teaching her son about sex very hot. But not my mother.

Yes, nobody is going to be so tender and caring like a mother

 

[SPARTAN047]

Sure. I feel the same way. And it's very much possible for a younger woman with maternal instincts to be a mommy.

 

[tristianc]

Yes, I like the mom teaches son fantasy a lot. But not with my own mom but with someone who could play that kind of role online or in the bedroom.

 

[NancyPan]

I think that both in the area of FemDom and ABDL/infantilization there is sometimes a fine line with those submissive males who crave control and Dominance from a maternal figure. In my view, there is nothing wrong with fantasy or role play between consenting adults. I’ll be honest, my Wife knows that one of my favorite rewards from her for being her “good little boy” is to be allowed to nurse from her breast.

 

[liqueur]

I have for a very long time this mother son fetish where the mommy kind of takes charge and abuses her motherly power and responsibility teaching her clueless, shy son the wounders of sex.
But the thought of doing it with my actual mother revolts me terribly

I would substitute “strong fantasy” for “fetish.” But I share this contradictory kink, very much.

Even to this day (and I'm 74) my fantasy life is largely populated by domineering mothers, older sisters or stepsisters, and other older women. Always strong women, always kinky, and the “me” in those stories, not. But being taught to be— kinky that is. Definitely not dominant.

But definitely not infantilized. Treated as a sex object, to be used, and maybe shared with boyfriends.

 

[69Explorer]

When I was young, I used to fantasize heavily about my mothers best friend who was my godmother.
She had an enormous tits.. ( thinking back probably a 40DD) and was truly motherly like women of
that generation.
I would always jo to the thought of her educating me about sex...I so wished rl was like the movies !!!

 

[NancyPan]

When I was young, I used to fantasize heavily about my mothers best friend who was my godmother.
She had an enormous tits.. ( thinking back probably a 40DD) and was truly motherly like women of
that generation.
I would always jo to the thought of her educating me about sex...I so wished rl was like the movies !!!

I can relate. As a teenager I also fantasized about the neighborhood moms. I would imagine what sort of panties they were wearing and visualize their breasts, imagine them teaching me about fucking. I have always been attracted to large-breasted, assertive women. Now here I am, pantied 24/7, in a FLR with a large breasted assertive Woman who controls my orgasms. Fate?

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Hey everyone, I’m exited to do my first Post here!
So I have for a very long time this mother son fetish where the mommy kind of takes charge and abuses her motherly power and responsibility teaching her clueless, shy son the wounders of sex.
But the thought of doing it with my actual mother revolts me terribly (just writing this text makes me feel very weird about it and makes me want to vomit).
But the thinking about a woman older than me, being very motherly accepting me as her son and then abusing her power and starts to sexualise the relationship turns me really on.
Tbh idk what to do with this, especially when I talk with other people about this and we gat things going and they start to talk about my actual mom makes me very weird and when I tell them that they run off, and it’s really annoying.
Can’t I just have a mommy without sexualising my mom?

Wow what a normal reaction. Why can't you have an older woman submission relationship/fantasy. Why does it have to be "your" mom ?

 

[dz2681]

When I was young, I used to fantasize heavily about my mothers best friend who was my godmother.
She had an enormous tits.. ( thinking back probably a 40DD) and was truly motherly like women of
that generation.
I would always jo to the thought of her educating me about sex...I so wished rl was like the movies !!!

I was the same way growing up, my godmother was the first woman I ended up crushing on. She a lot older now but still looks very sexy and no where near her age, I’d still love to make that fantasy come true and she still enjoys the flirty attention she gets from me.

 

[Carson19820]

I believe my mom/son-older woman fetish evolved from the first three women I had feelings for or relationships with were older than me. As a teenager I had a huge crush on one of my sister's college friends (I was 13 and she was 20) who lived the summer with us. I'm my later teen years I had a major crush/desire for a teacher who to this day is the gold standard I compare all other women to. When I was 19 I dated a woman ten years older than me for about a year. As far as the mother aspect, I've never had desired for her, but was intrigued by the taboo aspect.

 

[StrongMaster7]

I remember having a few sex-related conversations with one of my best friends from high school. He asked what kinky stuff I was into. I told him I found his mother to be really hot. She was a short, buxom Italian woman who was very nice to me. He laughed and said he wasn't into his mom.

I think about it now and there were several moms I recall from my teen years that I found very attractive. And there was a friend of my mom's who had these huge tits. I didn't mind the hugs from her at all.

I think 'motherly' is a special kind of attention. From breastfeeeding, to cuddling, to very kind, sweet talk, 'motherly' attention is special and different. It triggers a relaxation response like few other things. There is a feeling of safety and defenses may be let down. And this allows for full affection, unrestrained love and touch and stimulus and response. And for some of us, you can add in SEX. I can imagine endless sexual scenarios with that busty friend of my mom. I love the idea of such a woman taking my cherry and teaching me EVERYTHING.

And I don't have any issue with a mother doing so with her son. I just don't desire that from my mom. It's too radical a re-framing for my psyche.

 

[69Explorer]

I remember there wa an Australian movie w Robin Wright.. where 2 best friends basically swapped their sons and had
sex w them...
It was at a beach house.., and very erotic...
Don't remember the name of it , but I'm sure you can find it on IMDB

 

[wideboybrown]

Yes, I like the mom teaches son fantasy a lot. But not with my own mom but with someone who could play that kind of role online or in the bedroom.

I love this too! Have a similar leaning friend. She fantasizes about fucking her Son. I would play the Son..

 

[tristianc]

I love this too! Have a similar leaning friend. She fantasizes about fucking her Son. I would play the Son..

Nice when something like that works out, best of luck.

 

[wideboybrown]

Nice when something like that works out, best of luck.

It has happened

 

[tristianc]

It has happened

Awesome, how was it?

 

[desire30]

.I ca remember there wa an Australian movie w Robin Wright.. where 2 best friends basically swapped their sons and had
sex w them...
It was at a beach house.., and very erotic...
Don't remember the name of it , but I'm sure you can find it on IMDB

I saw it also and It was done so real. I cant remember the name either but it was fantastic

 

[asxymann68]

I saw it also and It was done so real. I cant remember the name either but it was fantastic

I saw it and it was amazing. As close to incest as you can get as they have all grown up with each other. Such a hot sexy fantasy played out for our enjoyment.

 

[wideboybrown]

Awesome, how was it?

Amazing holy fuck!