Things your cheating wife did with her lover that she doesn't do with you . . .

Ed_Sumner

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This seems to be a hot topic (in both senses) among cheated-on husbands. It definitely adds to the humiliation that your wife not only got fucked by another man, but was so turned on by him, so turned on by her illicit affair, that she enthusiastically did things with him, or for him, or let him do things to her, that she was never turned on enough to do with you. For me there are quite a few, and each one is a huge turn-on for different reasons. At the top of my list is that my wife routinely sucked her single coworker's very big cock to completion and swallowed every drop - literally drained his balls dry. The only time I ever came in her mouth was many years ago, we were both drunk, and she choked and spit it out. She was mad at me and it never happened again. Other cheated-on husbands and bfs, what are your go-to acts in this category?
 
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This was a common theme in our severe cuckold period (the last 10 years), me being denied while her lovers got anything they asked for. Swallowing cum, cumming on her face, fucking her ass, public sex, or sharing her with friends. It was especially hot for both of us when done and boasted about in front of me.
 
This is a lifestyle boundary for me. There are sexual things that I would love to do with my wife. I’d like cum in her mouth. I’d love to cum on her face. But she refuses that. To which I’m good with that. I don’t want to do anything she doesn’t want to do. That said, if she were to do these with another man, I’d be pissed.

But if there something that another man wants to do with her, but it’s something I’m not particularly interested in, then they have my full approval.
 
When giving me a blowjob my wife always required me to let her know when I was about to spurt and she'd take my cock from her mouth. She didn't mind me cumming on her but never in her mouth. Then one day she said before starting a blowjob that she wanted to take my load in my mouth. I was very happy about that and obliged her. Turned out she had a new boyfriend, that I knew about, I'd already been in a 3'sum with them. she had decided to give him the pleasure of letting him cum in her mouth but thought it was only fair to do it first with me before offering it to others. I thought that was very considerate of her.
 
She brought her lover to a hotel with another woman. I've always wanted to try that, but she won't share me.
Wow, that would really piss me off.
Early in our cuck life my wife did things with other guys and not me.
Anal sex which was a big no no for me.
Allowing her lover to bring a male friend along and have a 3some.
These were the two that really upset me as she knew they were top of my kink list with her.
But I got over it like the good obedient cuck I am
 
My wife will give her boyfriend and other lovers blowjobs and swallow there cum . I’ve never received a blowjob from her in our entire relationship. She lets her main boyfriend have anal sex with her something she would never do with me . She is very submissive with him and definitely not with me . There are may be others things as well but I wouldn’t have it any other way .
 
Her story changed with every telling. She either gave her lover a hand job or a blowjob neither of which she will do for me. In truth, there may be a lot more she has done with him because she doesn’t want to talk about it. I’ve never even got a fingertip in her ass. I wonder if he got her butt virginity and that’s why she refuses to talk about it. I love her and I love hate fucking her too.
 
"She is very submissive with him and definitely not with me" hits the nail on the head. One important thing I've learned from discovering my wife's secret, long-term sexual relationship with her stud colleague is that she has powerful submissive urges that were never triggered, much less satisfied, by me. Her colleague's confident alpha demeanor, his masculinity, his good looks, his tall, fit body, his huge cock, instantly brought her submissive urges to the surface and sent them into overdrive. She practically melted in his presence the first time they met, and from then on she was addicted. She's a completely different woman with him, which is why she'll do all kinds of kinky, slutty things with him that she'd never do with me. I can't blame her - it's the effect he has on her, and I'm happy he allows her to experience that kind of pleasure and satisfaction.
 
Since we're in the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle it's not really cheating but they do many things together that I don't get to do. With my health issues earlier with cancer and now my low heart function along with my small size I'm completely cucked.
Things they do together that I don't get to do with my wife include.
Intercourse, anal (I've never done it), swallowing and they're much more intimate.
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On Valentines day weekend I wanted to try Intercourse to see how my heart does but was completely shut down which caused a little argument. Still haven't and it's been since August of '23. They went away over New Years for a week and now they're away again for 2 weeks coming back this Wednesday.
A big mix of emotions but I must be a glutton for punishment as it also arouses me.
 
I'm single these days. But I think the one act that would do it for me the way you're describing would be anal sex. Because that's the one act that's almost none of my partners have ever allowed me to do.
I have to add, just for posteriority’s sake, that's although very few of the women I've been involved with would allow me to fuck them anally, three of them loved to do me that way... 🤔
 
I have to add, just for posteriority’s sake, that's although very few of the women I've been involved with would allow me to fuck them anally, three of them loved to do me that way... 🤔
Years back I went through a phase between girlfriends that I was fucking married ladies I found on AFF. Out of four ladies I did for several months each, three of them asked me to take their ass cherry as they had never given it up to their respective husbands. I have no idea why me and not hubby, but I did find it strange at the time.
 
"She is very submissive with him and definitely not with me" hits the nail on the head. One important thing I've learned from discovering my wife's secret, long-term sexual relationship with her stud colleague is that she has powerful submissive urges that were never triggered, much less satisfied, by me. Her colleague's confident alpha demeanor, his masculinity, his good looks, his tall, fit body, his huge cock, instantly brought her submissive urges to the surface and sent them into overdrive. She practically melted in his presence the first time they met, and from then on she was addicted. She's a completely different woman with him, which is why she'll do all kinds of kinky, slutty things with him that she'd never do with me. I can't blame her - it's the effect he has on her, and I'm happy he allows her to experience that kind of pleasure and satisfaction.
I am a bit of a hand on cock sort of guy but straight. It's very satisfy for me to see and have done once allowing an ex girlfriend to finish off a guy that way.

Knowing what she like with me and then seeing her with another man's cock is such an intense experience. She's actually very enthusiastic when she strokes another guy when I watched on that occasion. Yeah its the illicit attraction, forbidden nature of it that brings forth that sexual lust buried deep inside her..
 
Mine had a threesome with two guys when we were dating. Never did that with me.
 
If I am going to do something with another man, then I am certainly going to be willing to do it for my husband. In fact since he is so nice about me dating other men, I would be willing to put some extra effort for his pleasure.
Love a wife that goes after what she wants
 
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