Top or bottom? Which role will be your priority? And why?

I recently had my first man to man experience and found out I love to bottom for a man, at least this guy. I have had sex with cock before this, TS and CD and I mostly bottomed, I did top when they asked for it. The guy I met recently was a top and really confirmed I am a bottom. I enjoyed sucking his cock, gagging on it and taking it up my ass. It was wonderful and I want more.
I too met a Top that clicked with me. He was local, a good guy, lived alone, had a nice cock and enjoyed me when we were able to get together. The problem was that I was married and wanted to stay with my wife. My new Top wanted kissing and cuddling. He wanted a relationship and seemed to want to possesss me. The level of interest concerned me. He had a sling and other sexual devices in his playroom that I would love to have experienced but I did not dare to let the relationship grow. I have not contacted him again but I have thought of his fat cock plowing into me often. How long will it be before my moth decides to fly into the flame of his sweet candle.
 
I too met a Top that clicked with me. He was local, a good guy, lived alone, had a nice cock and enjoyed me when we were able to get together. The problem was that I was married and wanted to stay with my wife. My new Top wanted kissing and cuddling. He wanted a relationship and seemed to want to possesss me. The level of interest concerned me. He had a sling and other sexual devices in his playroom that I would love to have experienced but I did not dare to let the relationship grow. I have not contacted him again but I have thought of his fat cock plowing into me often. How long will it be before my moth decides to fly into the flame of his sweet candle.
I would not even think about walking away from such a situation; you must be really strong-willed.
 
I too met a Top that clicked with me. He was local, a good guy, lived alone, had a nice cock and enjoyed me when we were able to get together. The problem was that I was married and wanted to stay with my wife. My new Top wanted kissing and cuddling. He wanted a relationship and seemed to want to possesss me. The level of interest concerned me. He had a sling and other sexual devices in his playroom that I would love to have experienced but I did not dare to let the relationship grow. I have not contacted him again but I have thought of his fat cock plowing into me often. How long will it be before my moth decides to fly into the flame of his sweet candle.
my new top also likes to kiss and cuddle. I have indulged him, and found I don't mind it. I would be hard pressed to walk away from your top. Of course I have permission from wife to look outside of our marriage as she doesn't want sex anymore. She even suggested I look for a guy since I loved when she pegged me.
 
Reading the last 20 or so responses, I find it lovely and fascinating that most preferred bottom because they sought to ensure their partners' pleasure as much or perhaps more than their own
Yet none of them will top as a "service" to a hungry bottom. All I'm saying is that desire to please isn't what makes someone a bottom.
 
Which role is your preference.. Top or bottom? And why?

I will go for bottom as sucking a cock and feeling a cock in ass ... slut like feelings which is really hot. What about you guys?
I feel exactly the same way. I’m now 64 and in the past few years I have become exclusively a cocksucking bottom. For me, every cock is so beautiful, I am completely addicted to sucking cock.

But the ultimate for me is, getting a skilled lovers hard cock filling up my ass is simply the best. Depending on my partner, sometime I am a power bum slamming my ass into his cock and other times I am a dirty slutty submissive faggot getting pounded by a dominated alpha male.

I’m a masculine male outside the bedroom, but in the bedroom I’m a complete gay man who loves men and their bodies!!!
 
Yet none of them will top as a "service" to a hungry bottom. All I'm saying is that desire to please isn't what makes someone a bottom.
The first trans girl I was with wanted me to top her so I did and she enjoyed it immensely. If my gf wanted me to top her, I certainly would but I don't see that happening lol
 
Switch. I want to be a bottom, but I have a hard time letting someone try to pleasure me. Idk, my last three long term girlfriends were all pillow princesses, and I’m just used to taking control and exciting them, working real hard to get them off. When someone wants to get me off, I’m like nooooo the pressuuuuure! I’m like, if you want me to lay here, can you at least sit on my face or something? Give me a job!!

Closest I got to bottoming without eventually taking over the session, I had to be cuffed to the bed. I was fucked within an inch of my life. It was amazing. I was still directing action for which I was then gagged.

I think that’s probably how it has to be. If you don’t want me to take over, you’re gonna have to tie me up.
 
Switch. I want to be a bottom, but I have a hard time letting someone try to pleasure me. Idk, my last three long term girlfriends were all pillow princesses, and I’m just used to taking control and exciting them, working real hard to get them off. When someone wants to get me off, I’m like nooooo the pressuuuuure! I’m like, if you want me to lay here, can you at least sit on my face or something? Give me a job!!

Closest I got to bottoming without eventually taking over the session, I had to be cuffed to the bed. I was fucked within an inch of my life. It was amazing. I was still directing action for which I was then gagged.

I think that’s probably how it has to be. If you don’t want me to take over, you’re gonna have to tie me up.
That was a funny post. It reminded me of Popeye, I Yam What I Yam!
 
No question, being a bottom is who I am! Taking a fat big cock up my ass gives me such great joy and pleasure! Servicing men with my mouth and ass is something I just love to do. I can’t live without it.

I am a very masculine man, but get me naked in the bedroom with another man, I become a 100 percent greedy slutty bottom whore desperate for cock! For most of my life I considered myself to be bi, but as I got closer to my 60’s, my true authenticity came through. It was with great relief I finally recognized who I was; a gay man who is a bottom. Been much happier ever since!
 
Which role is your preference.. Top or bottom? And why?

I will go for bottom as sucking a cock and feeling a cock in ass ... slut like feelings which is really hot. What about you guys?
I go for the submissive and what I mean by that is on my knees with his cock down my throat until he is holding my head in his hands and cumming in my mouth, I do not want to make love to a man, I want to suck his cock!
 
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