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hiker283 said:
My wife did this years ago at a tax conference in Las Vegas, except she did not call me and ask. It was several years before she confessed to me about it. But then, she did not intend to have sex with him and let things get out of control. Would I have said okay if she had asked? I do not know. I know I would say okay now.
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Why did she confess to you several years later?
 
LMWM321 said:
If my wife texts me and says, "hey... there's a guy at the conference who's asking me back to his room to fuck.. Are you ok w/ it?" I'd say "yes! of course!" and be giddy with excitement for her. ...
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Side note: A couple friends of ours, have an open, ENM relationship. Their approach for this situation is to have the third-party, text a picture of the wife and the stranger to the husband, so that a) they know what he looks like and b), they have his phone number. If someone agrees to that, then let the fun begin!
 
LMWM321 said:
For me, it's about honesty. After we'd been married for around 20 years I told my wife I was henceforth fine with her having occasional casual sex w/ other men, with a few reasonable preconditions and caveats - the most important being that she tells me beforehand.

When we were younger, just the thought of another man giving my wife an orgasm would upset and disorient me. Hence, we were 100% monogamous for over 20yrs - which is longer than most marriages last... But nowadays, thinking of my wife with another man gives me a huge rush, without the slightest bit of jealousy. Why? Because after all we've been through and all we've built together during those first 20 yrs I'm now certain no man is going to take my wife from me and our beautiful life together over something as transient as an orgasm. So why would I stand in the way of her having it?

But honesty and sticking to the rules is key...
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💯
 
TonyF862 said:
Side note: A couple friends of ours, have an open, ENM relationship. Their approach for this situation is to have the third-party, text a picture of the wife and the stranger to the husband, so that a) they know what he looks like and b), they have his phone number. If someone agrees to that, then let the fun begin!
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I think that's great.

..I've told my wife I want her to text me a picture of his driver's license. He might argue, "well, I don't want my identity stolen," to which I'd reply, "Yeah, well, I don't want my wife harmed. Knowing who you are and where you live helps assure me you'll be a gentleman and will abide by whatever rules my wife imposes while you're together.... And if you can't me with this, then maybe I shouldn't trust you with her!"

I'm totally fine with my wife occasionally having sex with another guy, but I'm not oblivious to the risks; having a picture of his license provides some degree of assurance that he will behave like a gentleman.
 
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whatahoot said:
I'm sure I'll get judged for this but, whatever. For some context, we had done a bit of swinging until he said that he wanted us to stop. I told him I would, but I continued having my own fun. At first, it was just about wanting to continue having fun with others and enjoying new experiences, but in recent months I've really started to get a thrill out of the sneaking around and coming home after being someone else's dirty slut without my husband having a clue. The last thing I want is for me not to be able to enjoy sex for the lack of the thrill of cheating, but it has truly become such an addicting feeling that I've been really pushing the boundaries. Almost like I'm trying to see how far I can take things before I get caught. And maybe it's that danger. That makes it so enticing as well. Don't know if anyone else can relate but it has been an incredibly fun year for me.
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My friend is similar. She planned to ease off once she was married - but has been with guys since marrying, some dangerously close to home
 
LMWM321 said:
For me, it's about honesty. After we'd been married for around 20 years I told my wife I was henceforth fine with her having occasional casual sex w/ other men, with a few reasonable preconditions and caveats - the most important being that she tells me beforehand.

When we were younger, just the thought of another man giving my wife an orgasm would upset and disorient me. Hence, we were 100% monogamous for over 20yrs - which is longer than most marriages last... But nowadays, thinking of my wife with another man gives me a huge rush, without the slightest bit of jealousy. Why? Because after all we've been through and all we've built together during those first 20 yrs I'm now certain no man is going to take my wife from me and our beautiful life together over something as transient as an orgasm. So why would I stand in the way of her having it?

But honesty and sticking to the rules is key...
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Suppose she came home and told you that the orgasms he gave her were beyond anything she had ever experienced. But of course her heart was still yours. Would that change how you felt? Or would you still just be happy for her, curious to have her tell you how it happened, etc?
 
whatahoot said:
I'm sure I'll get judged for this but, whatever. For some context, we had done a bit of swinging until he said that he wanted us to stop. I told him I would, but I continued having my own fun. At first, it was just about wanting to continue having fun with others and enjoying new experiences, but in recent months I've really started to get a thrill out of the sneaking around and coming home after being someone else's dirty slut without my husband having a clue. The last thing I want is for me not to be able to enjoy sex for the lack of the thrill of cheating, but it has truly become such an addicting feeling that I've been really pushing the boundaries. Almost like I'm trying to see how far I can take things before I get caught. And maybe it's that danger. That makes it so enticing as well. Don't know if anyone else can relate but it has been an incredibly fun year for me.
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For sure. It’s so addicting. Me ex wife and I got together once she was remarried over and over again on occasion. Thrill for both of us. Even fucking in her bed, shower, sofa.
 
I've never really cheated, so I can't relate to that part. If I'm completely honest, IDK how I would act in a relationship. But I can sort of relate to the thrill and excitement of doing things with multiple people and seeing just how much you can get away with. The truth is though, that humans aren't naturally monogamous. The average human gets bored with their partner after 12 years. So many people cheat, both men and women. I think a lot have the urge to cheat, but are able to control themselves or draw he line at sexting/nudes. But yeah, the thought of no longer being able to get aroused by your partner is certainly a legitimate concern. I think for me, emotional cheating is more of a big deal and worse.
 
ManOfOne said:
For sure. It’s so addicting. Me ex wife and I got together once she was remarried over and over again on occasion. Thrill for both of us. Even fucking in her bed, shower, sofa.
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Lol!! Did you divorce because she was cheating on you!?
 
RIPAphrodite said:
Cheating sex…always better then romantic sex
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I think its the thrill of actually cheating and not getting any consent from the partner. Sex seems more illicit, cheating becomes a exciting word. And committing sexual acts in carparks and motels becomes thrilling.
 
Nellie60 said:
I think it’s the thrill of actually cheating and not getting any consent from the partner. Sex seems more illicit, cheating becomes an exciting word. And committing sexual acts in carparks and motels becomes thrilling.
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Congrats on replying to a comment I made nearly 3 years ago! 🤪
 
SouthByWest said:
Suppose she came home and told you that the orgasms he gave her were beyond anything she had ever experienced. But of course her heart was still yours. Would that change how you felt? Or would you still just be happy for her, curious to have her tell you how it happened, etc?
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I would be ecstatic for her. That would be the whole idea.
 
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