Seniors and the differences

so serious question, looking for advice: I’m 69 years old, and when I cum, most of the time, I don’t feel like I’ve experienced that “ball-draining” orgasm that I used to experience when I was younger. It’s still satisfying, but I always feel “not emptied” if that makes sense. I’m not currently with a partner, so I’m most of the time masturbating, looking at porn. I certainly realize that the porn is part of the issue, being jaded and it being my only outlet, but do any of the men here experience anything similar? If so, what have you found works as a solution? (and, yes, I know, being with a live person would certainly help. I get that, so no need to suggest it.)
Same age and for some reason the last several years I've had some mind-blowing orgasms. Don't cum as much, don't recover as fast, and it's not getting bigger but it still works.
 
i use silindafil 20mg gets hard as a rock i am 70 andd still cum a good bit that i eat regularly
My lover is your age and used ED meds when he feels he needs it. Majority of times, he has me ;). But on that health note, he’s still physical active (not just sex) and eats balanced diet, no heath issues. His doctor’s say his ED is more mental than physical. In the end, we had great times!
 
All the senior men: I’m a healthy, nearly 70 year old. I use Cialis which is awesome, love sex with my s/o it’s amazing, she’s incredibly orgasmic, and very open to really anything. The issue is, over the past few years I’ve found it more an more difficult to cum. Now, the last few times we’ve had sex, the fucking and sucking is amazing, but again, no cumming. I’ve given up watching porn, but does any other guy have this issue, and any suggestions? (please serious responses only). Thanks for the help!
 
All the senior men: I’m a healthy, nearly 70 year old. I use Cialis which is awesome, love sex with my s/o it’s amazing, she’s incredibly orgasmic, and very open to really anything. The issue is, over the past few years I’ve found it more a more difficult to cum. Now, the last few times we’ve had sex, the fucking and sucking is amazing, but again, no cumming. I’ve given up watching porn, but does any other guy have this issue, and any suggestions? (please serious responses only). Thanks for the help!
Whatever age I’ve been , confidence and relaxation have been the key . Slow build , extended foreplay , pleasing my partner first , knowing she is enjoying and totally relaxed , all feeds back . Good luck .
 
Same age and for some reason the last several years I've had some mind-blowing orgasms. Don't cum as much, don't recover as fast, and it's not getting bigger but it still works.
Late 60's here too and don't have problems with ED but I've still experimented with sildenafil. I can see why guys love using it because it makes me crazy hard very quickly. It's fun to experiment 😊
 
Late 60's here too and don't have problems with ED but I've still experimented with sildenafil. I can see why guys love using it because it makes me crazy hard very quickly. It's fun to experiment 😊
It does work. SOmetimes the little fella isn't going to stay up for the main event, getting older is so much fun
 
Wife went to our friends house for bunco she said they just got a new hot tub and all the girls jumped in naked. I got rock hard thinking about a bunch of older ladies all enjoying the bubbles.
She said it wasn’t sexual at all but stroked me to a excellent release.
 
Glad to discover this thread. 74 here, some ED, rarely cum but it's usually a mind-blowing one when i do. In some ways, reaching this stage has been good for me. It's put me more in touch with my submissive nature and my desire to serve. I love, love, love giving other people orgasms and not feeling pressure to have one myself. I'd actually like to have a partner who was into orgasm denial and might put me in a cock cage except for special occasions.
 
One of my FWBs was a post menopausal woman who was scared and disheartened at the idea of losing her libido. She began needing to use lube a lot more than she actually wanted, and began to absolutely abhor the use of condoms.

Therapy helped her though, thankfully, and over time, we were able to evolve from "fuckin" to making love, where our time together became more about us kissing and holding each other, even if I was inside her. I really loved her lust for life, and even just laying naked with her and kissing her felt so good, that being inside her began to feel secondary.
 
One of my FWBs was a post menopausal woman who was scared and disheartened at the idea of losing her libido. She began needing to use lube a lot more than she actually wanted, and began to absolutely abhor the use of condoms.

Therapy helped her though, thankfully, and over time, we were able to evolve from "fuckin" to making love, where our time together became more about us kissing and holding each other, even if I was inside her. I really loved her lust for life, and even just laying naked with her and kissing her felt so good, that being inside her began to feel secondary.
You have just described the difference between Fuck Buddies and Fwb where the "F" is capitalized on purpose to show the importance of caring for your partner over the pleasure of the benefits. Well done, sir.
 
I am 57 but can relate. It’s harder for me to cum. I can still get rock hard and we have an awesome sex life.

But my wife and I have engaged in orgasm control. I only cum 1-2x a month, but it’s worth the wait. The ejaculations are powerful like when I was younger and intense!

She is ten years older than me, and at 67 is still hot as hell.
 
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