Are Cheaters Better in Bed

[Kolejdayz]

A question for both men and women. Are cheating spouses and lovers better in bed?

 

[Travler99921]

My wife says I am better in bed since I started havying gay sex

 

[Noor]

Not necessarily.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

A question for both men and women. Are cheating spouses and lovers better in bed?

Experience and variety in general make people better in bed. Blowjobs are a great indicator if someone is going to be a giving partner or its going to be all about them.
If a woman loves sucking cock and is good at it you can bet her other skills are good also.
Know a woman that was horrible at blowjobs and got me to the point I didn't even want one from her but oh boy she was demanding in bed that you were there to satisfy her repeatedly.

Honestly my spouse all of a sudden became excellent at blowjobs and handjobs. I am guessing she is practicing elsewhere or her bestie gave her lots of good tips because bestie was one of the best at it.
Also if a partner all of a sudden starts doing new things in bed check their computer history because they are either watching porn or they are going elsewhere. Elsewhere would be my first , second and third guesses

 

[marriedbigrl]

A question for both men and women. Are cheating spouses and lovers better in bed?

There is nothing about them cheating that makes them better. It's the illicit feeling of knowing you are doing something wrong, but wanting the person you are cheating with so badly. At least it always was for me.

 

[Veronica_Flora]

Most of the time I was cheating… with the exception of one affair, I made sure to give my husband “good lovin” so that he wouldn’t suspect anything. I did some nice stuff for him too. Just wanted him to think everything was ok.

 

[Bi4Older84]

I think that because they are more enthusiastic, it's easier to assume that they're better in bed-I think that an enthusiastic lover is a probably a better lover over all, regardless of whether they are cheating or not.

 

[nsa69kink]

I don’t know about better, but from what I understand cheating women will tend to go “all out” for their affair partner and do things they don’t do at all for their normal partner.

So true

 

[Garrettman]

Agree with many of the previous observations, the illicit nature, the enthusiasm. I would add that the few times I have met someone, it is also that we have explored our desires and our sexual compatibility online before we actually met. This compatibility, the trust built and the desire to explore and fulfill each other's desires made for a wonderful combustible sexual and erotic experiences for both.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Agree with many of the previous observations, the illicit nature, the enthusiasm. I would add that the few times I have met someone, it is also that we have explored our desires and our sexual compatibility online before we actually met. This compatibility, the trust built and the desire to explore and fulfill each other's desires made for a wonderful combustible sexual and erotic experiences for both.

Totally agree, if they are poor at communicating it isn't worth your time.

 

[ManOfOne]

I don’t know about better, but from what I understand cheating women will tend to go “all out” for their affair partner and do things they don’t do at all for their normal partner.

There’s an ex I used to see while she was married to someone. The thrill of cheating, extended role playing, fucking in public. Very exciting.

 

[Veronica_Flora]

Do you treat your lovers differently during sex than you do with your husband?

Yes. They treat me different than he does. I’m submissive. So I usually give them what they want.

 

[Travler99921]

I am not sure it was cheating since my wife knew and approved, but my wife said I was a better lover after j started having gay sex.

 

[AsianFusion]

The question implies one might cause the other. But if so, which way round.

 

[Veronica_Flora]

And what is it that drives you to cheat on your husband as frequently as you do? Is it the fact that everyone ends up seducing you l? Or are you looking for others to cheat with?

Not really looking. I get flattered when someone hits on me. More than usual when I’m taken and they know it.

 

[jedclampet69]

I think a cheating gf or wife is better in bed mainly as she enjoys sex more than someone who doesn't cheat . I have had a cheating gf and wife both were great in bed.. Tho present gf is great I'm bed and does not cheat

 

[CuriousJInLA]

I think a cheating gf or wife is better in bed mainly as she enjoys sex more than someone who doesn't cheat . I have had a cheating gf and wife both were far better in bed

Agreed. I’ve been the guy who has cheated with both a taken and a single woman. I’ve also been the guy in a committed relationship who has been cheated on. In my experience the cheater is always more passionate.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

So true

Yes, as I learned the hard way.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I don't think it's necessary. Most people aren't that great in bed.

Good sex is sometimes confused with a person's looks, or willingness to do something dirty which their spouse won't.

If someone is willing to lick your asshole, you might find it sexier than someone who lets you cum in her pussy bareback. It's especially true if you already came in lots of pussies bareback and knocked up a few women.

If you want to breed a woman, holding her down and cumming in her will be sexier than someone worshipping your feet, for example. So you'd probably cheat with a younger chick who wants creampies.

If your hubby doesn't give you oral but fucks you good and cums in you, you'd probably chase after a sexy looking stud who'll lick your pussy and asshole for hours altogether. You might let him fuck you to be grateful even if he doesn't fuck as well as your husband.

That's why the onus is on cheaters to control themselves. People choose to cheat with someone younger and hotter, older and more experienced, or kinkier and nastier even if they don't look that nice.

I think the married or taken guys and girls who tried to hit on me didn't do it because I was super hot. I'm quite obviously not that good looking, but since I'm gay / translesbian, the guys probably thought I'd be more willing to do anal and suck their dicks than their boring ass frigid wives, and the women felt I'd be someone to give them free attention if they fought with their husbands. They might have wanted to persuade me to eat them out or rim them without reciprocating since normally, any Trans woman who's gay/ lesbian will probably want other trans women.

 

[Live4themoments]

As others have said, not necessarily. If it's the 1st time for them cheating, they are nervous as hell. You have someone who is a little anxious, uncertain, and it's impossible for both the appreciate and enjoy the moment. With time where they trust you better then they will be relaxed. Then you can fully experience better sex and both will be equally satisfied. I've been with a woman who was doing it her first time. She was like a deer in headlights but still wanted to continue and go through with it. This same woman over time became one of my better lovers, so you can't judge a book by it's 1st chapter (or something like that).

 

[Scotchlander]

A question for both men and women. Are cheating spouses and lovers better in bed?

Good question.

A post the other day asked about the best sex you dad ever had.

Mine was with someone who was attached. Her and her older partner were always having arguments and falling out.

One of those times I saw her crying and I consoled her. I hugged her and she really appreciated my help. That lead to us getting closer than we really should have and we ended up having sex.

Soon after her and him got back together, as usual. But while with him she was always giving me the eye and smiling, because of what we had shared together. I would discretely look at her from a distance and send her private messages. Open your legs a little more so I can see what colour of panties you are wearing and she would flash me.

Anyway, we continued the affair and we would meet at least once a week. She was one horny little slut and she most certainly gave me the best sex ever.

Usually that night after our daytime session, I would see her at night with her partner and we would share knowing glances of the great fucks we had just had hours earlier.

 

[live4thebj]

I wouldn’t call it a guarantee. Why? Well I hooked up with this woman that is married and a swinger. You would think a swinger would be good at BJ’s. She wasn’t. But she did like her pussy being pounded.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife was not cheating since she had my permission to have sex with others as long as she was open about it. Our sex was more exciting in the days after she had extra-marital sex, partly because she felt so much more desirable. Her partners weren't that talented, with one exception, so there were no new techniques or anything like that. Both of us were turned on by her stories.

 

[Crownvic]

If your not getting anything at home, then going elsewhere is very exciting..IMO.