Why is it so arousing to talk to strangers on Lit about masturbating?

[devakama469]

I find it exciting to be able to give details of the most intimate things of what me and my wife have done behind closed doors. To talk about fantasies or experiences that I could never disclose to a friend.

Exactly how I feel! But with the addition that, being in your shoes, with those incredible experiences that are so fun to talk about, wouldn't it actually be amazing if you had a close friend you could genuinely share all of that with, unfiltered and without any taboo, without the friendship becoming awkward in any way?

 

[devakama469]

Sorry for mispellings… i may have been one handed….. my kitty needed attention

All misspellings forgiven for a much greater cause, no kitty shall be left behind!

 

[Xxxmmmxxx47]

All misspellings forgiven for a much greater cause, no kitty shall be left behind!

Appreciated, kitty needs lots of attention

 

[calmlikeabomb]

Because we are all deviant horny fucks and it's thrilling to both get things off our chest, and have our narcissistic needs validated by people who we know will probably never come face to face with us.

 

[SteveXR]

For me i just love helping a man cum, it turns me on so much to know that they are stroking and making themselves feel hood. Then when they funny release, it must feel so good to empty their balls. I want to help them achieve that sensation and get them drained

Such a wonderful attitude

 

[mellowyellows]

Because they listen and they don’t judge.

 

[Sgts19]

I find it exciting to be able to give details of the most intimate things of what me and my wife have done behind closed doors. To talk about fantasies or experiences that I could never disclose to a friend.

100% the same. I get off talking about our real sexual adventures over the years, I suppose you can say its my kink why I come here

 

[devakama469]

Appreciated, kitty needs lots of attention

Please, do tell us what kitty likes, and we'll most assuredly give her the attention she needs!

 

[Xxxmmmxxx47]

Please, do tell us what kitty likes, and we'll most assuredly give her the attention she needs!

Well, she likes being cummed in. Warm loads are her favorite

 

[devakama469]

Well, she likes being cummed in. Warm loads are her favorite

And what does kitty do to get those warm loads that she loves so much?

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Getting this thread going again. For me, it’s just so incredibly erotic to share something so intimate and personal with someone so far away.

And them being a complete stranger. Erotic as hell!

 

[Lucien_Al]

And them being a complete stranger. Erotic as hell!

I find I tend to be far less inhibited when it’s with a stranger.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I find I tend to be far less inhibited when it’s with a stranger.

Agreed!

 

[perturbedmusic]

For me, it’s an outlet to express my deepest desires that I can’t with my wife. It’s such a turn on to chat with likeminded people about our kinks, knowing that we’re both getting gratification from it.

Also, it is so hot to me knowing that I’m getting someone off to the things I’m saying.

 

[saintcero]

For me, it’s an outlet to express my deepest desires that I can’t with my wife. It’s such a turn on to chat with likeminded people about our kinks, knowing that we’re both getting gratification from it.

Also, it is so hot to me knowing that I’m getting someone off to the things I’m saying.

Exactly. My wife has zero kink and I have a lot. Literotica and SilverDaddies has given me an outlet for expression and exploration.

 

[perturbedmusic]

Exactly. My wife has zero kink and I have a lot. Literotica and SilverDaddies has given me an outlet for expression and exploration.

Yeah, same here. I love letting out all my dirtiest desires, knowing that others are getting off to it just as much as I am to theirs.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

Love....love.....love hot dirty kinky chats with Lit strangers! Crave that hot and horny back and forth.....leading to who knows where?!?!?!?

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

And them being a complete stranger. Erotic as hell!

Oh yes isn't that so true

 

[marriedchappy]

I guess because it can heighten your fantasy. Chatting adds more realism because it is interactive. It's so much better than just looking at porn.

 

[devakama469]

I love talking about masturbation, or actually all things sexuality, to whatever level of detail all those involved would feel comfortable with (even including up to XXX pornographic detail if the situation lends itself) with anyone open-minded enough to enjoy those conversations without any shame or taboo, and there's nothing that says it has to be a stranger.

On the contrary, I'd actually *love* to do it with friends, even close friends, but needless to say opportunities for that type conversation with them hardly ever come around, if ever.

 

[devakama469]

I guess because it can heighten your fantasy. Chatting adds more realism because it is interactive. It's so much better than just looking at porn.

Wise words, indeed! Looking at porn wis at best a tiny fraction as arousing for me as a good, intense, inhibited conversation about sexual experiences!

 

[desire30]

I love talking about masturbation, or actually all things sexuality, to whatever level of detail all those involved would feel comfortable with (even including up to XXX pornographic detail if the situation lends itself) with anyone open-minded enough to enjoy those conversations without any shame or taboo, and there's nothing that says it has to be a stranger.

On the contrary, I'd actually *love* to do it with friends, even close friends, but needless to say opportunities for that type conversation with them hardly ever come around, if ever.

I love masturbating with someone and share so many different fantasies and dreams,,

 

[devakama469]

I love masturbating with someone and share so many different fantasies and dreams,,

Likewise! And that can be either in person or over a chat, as long as there are no tabus, open communication, and inhibited sharing (which doesn't necessarily mean pics or videos, sometimes you can do so much more just with the right words!)

 

[perturbedmusic]

I guess because it can heighten your fantasy. Chatting adds more realism because it is interactive. It's so much better than just looking at porn.

Yes! I totally agree. I feel like Im much more imaginative in bed when I regularly fantasize on Lit (or online in general). The fantasies get more vivid and take in a broader scope.

Also really love the added benefit of my words getting someone off to the point of orgasm.

 

[perturbedmusic]

Likewise! And that can be either in person or over a chat, as long as there are no tabus, open communication, and inhibited sharing (which doesn't necessarily mean pics or videos, sometimes you can do so much more just with the right words!)

I used to masturbate regularly with a guy, getting deep into our fantasies for years until my account was terminated. We rarely shared pics or videos but he still made me cum so hard just because of how synced up we were.

If I hadn’t lost contact with him, I would’ve absolutely met up with him.