Top or bottom? Which role will be your priority? And why?

[Britva415]

I'd say about 85 to 90% of men on this site or bottoms that includes me that's why it's so hard to find good tops LOL

It's not just on this site.

Surprisingly, this is how I discovered my top/vers/switch identity. I was kind of tired of Sniffies being full of bottoms and thought I could at least get more action if I switched.

Come to find out, my "bottom" identity was formed because of the situations in my young adulthood, when I didn't explore enough MSM to land on my natural toppish tendencies.

I always topped women, of course, and at the time I was curious about sex with men and just somehow defaulted to trying out the bottom end of it, because it was different. You know? The bottoming was the part I was curious about because I already had an outlet for topping.

Later women topped me too, and I was in a LTR with a man who just wouldn't bottom. These reinforced my self-image as someone who bottomed for men and switched (when possible) with women.

Then I was exclusively with women for >20 years.

Opening my marriage has brought me to the realization that I should never have been an exclusive bottom for men. I should have known all along, because I'm a natural switch about everything else.

Surprise!

And yeah, being willing to top opens a lot of doors. Not just with MSM but with kinks too.

 

[Britva415]

I think the bottoms are more verbal. My girl would never post on a forum like this.

I think the tops don't have to advertise.

 

[Bathtubbill]

I'm a bit of a switch but I have no objections to topping a sex guy

 

[Travisspank]

Bottom. Love feeling like I’m servicing a guy with my mouth and then having him use my hole. Topped once and it wasn’t for me

 

[richgo50]

Bottom. Love feeling like I’m servicing a guy with my mouth and then having him use my hole. Topped once and it wasn’t for me

Bottom: I love being told what to do.

 

[Young1234]

After reading all the comments, one must consider to be bottom atleast once.... which leads to.......

 

[Vitriolhack]

Bottom just luv to be dressed on my knees or hands an knees just luv it so

You sound like fun!

 

[james2346]

bottom here, i enjoy being the one who gets service.

 

[Belong2Her]

i am a bottom for Women and Men.

 

[Astroman72]

i guess I'm versatile, although with men I lean more towards bottoming. Really though, I'm turned off by an overly dominant OR an overly submissive partner--either with men or women. I kind of like being on equal footing sexually, as far as giving and taking and going back and forth.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I'm a submissive feminine bitch so getting fucked just feels natural. I would never feel right fucking a masculine guy.

 

[Belong2Her]

I'm a submissive feminine bitch so getting fucked just feels natural. I would never feel right fucking a masculine guy.

i agree, that thought has never entered my mind. i am naturally the recipient of my Wife's strap on and being pegged by Her, or any Bull of Her choice using His cock to fuck me.

 

[vizio]

Which role is your preference.. Top or bottom? And why?

I will go for bottom as sucking a cock and feeling a cock in ass ... slut like feelings which is really hot. What about you guys?

I'm like you. Love being a bottom feeling sluty and feminine. I love being on my back and having a man on top of me engulfing me in his arms my legs wrapped around his waist. while he uses me for his own sexual pleasure

 

[Adrock1981]

been into bottoming more here lately

 

[vidmin]

I like to bottom, just love getting fucked, love any kind of ass play, just feels so good to have a hard cock inside me, exploding.

 

[BiMale4KinkyFun]

I am a bottom and love being a bottom. I just wish this site had more tops.

 

[deucie]

Definately a bottom. Sub bottom. I want to be fucked long and hard. Preferrably with an audience.

 

[xmrmatt]

Women I Top, Men I bottom, Trans both!

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I think the bottoms are more verbal. My girl would never post on a forum like this.

I agree. I think we are more verbal and more emotional about what we do. Let's face it, getting fucked in the ass and bred is very intimate. There are tons of tops around, they just want more action and less chat.

 

[Escierto]

I agree. I think we are more verbal and more emotional about what we do. Let's face it, getting fucked in the ass and bred is very intimate. There are tons of tops around, they just want more action and less chat.

Lol, I think that is exactly right. The tops want less talk and more action.

 

[james2346]

i am more of a bottom, love getting it inside of me and making love,

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Bottom, I don't think I have it in me to be anything but the bottom.

 

[danieldanman]

Will top if asked, but prefer to be a bottom. Cock in the ass feels so f ing amazing. Why pass that opportunity by?

 

[load69]

I would love to be a bottom but also understand I need to share so I will top and bottom. Here's what I have to offer. DM's are open and I love chatting
https://ibb.co/GWzfkRJ

 

[SPARTAN047]

I would love to be a bottom but also understand I need to share so I will top and bottom. Here's what I have to offer. DM's are open and I love chatting
https://ibb.co/GWzfkRJ

Switching is always better.