How frequently would you want to have sex with someone, if you could?

[Sgts19]

The 23-year-old married me twice a day.

Now the old married me is fine with twice a week sometimes 3. Basically, we've had role reversals I'm good to go with 2 but if it was up to her it would be 3 or 4 times a week.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Twice a day?! Good for you. I'm 32 but I don't think I could've managed that even at 22.

I've become happier with being teased and denied instead of cumming several times a day.

 

[TonyF862]

Since we started exploring (and pursuing) other couples, we have fucked the majority of days in any given week. Prior to we were a predictable 2.2 times a week - Sat AM, Sun AM and if we were feeling really kinky a Sat night here or there.

Now our sexual level is constant - fueled in large part by adoring men who pursue my wife and that gets her really going!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Since we started exploring (and pursuing) other couples, we have fucked the majority of days in any given week. Prior to we were a predictable 2.2 times a week - Sat AM, Sun AM and if we were feeling really kinky a Sat night here or there.

Now our sexual level is constant - fueled in large part by adoring men who pursue my wife and that gets her really going!

That's pretty good! I don't want to share my partners or lovers but I can see why people swing. It adds excitement, spontaneity and even jealousy to a relationship.

 

[30bandits]

daily

 

[Naughtylo]

Does it have to be with the same person each time?

 

[cactusjack0584]

Literally as often as she’d want it.

 

[pussyhammer2021]

Depends on if she can keep my interest...daily if she can. If i have to do all the work, then im fine with about 3 times a week

 

[Wylie3]

With the right person as often as possible

 

[Encaea]

2 minutes of vigorous rubbing and a spit doesn't quite cut it for sex

I've known a few guys...

 

[fma20fma]

daily bed time with variations and variety every night, one hour or more.

 

[FreckledSprite]

A couple times a day at least

 

[TonyF862]

Does it have to be with the same person each time?

Preferably not, but times are tough.

 

[Deleted member 1178772]

Depends on so so much
So I say average, 4-5

 

[TwystedDzyre]

Twice a day, minimum.

 

[spank_me_please]

daily bed time with variations and variety every night, one hour or more.

Oh boy, an hour or more each time? I gotta work on stamina...

 

[doowopdoowop]

Once a day if it were just to get off, but I find it hard to be intimate with someone and not consider their involvement in sex. It's extremely rare that I cum and my partner doesn't. It's gone both ways (she cums, I don't... Or I cum, she doesn't), but those situations usually involve some reason beyond "I came, we're done". A really bad Charley horse took me out a couple weeks ago and neither of us came and the GF was not happy (I ate her pussy later to make up for it)

If time/obligations weren't an issue, daily or twice a day would be great. Usually I'm at 1 - 2 times a week avg. these days. I know my GF would prefer more, as would I, but we're both busy and don't live together.

When we have time off together, and the time isn't already designated... Like we planned for time in bed/no errands or projects... It's usually every day.

She's a horny girl, and I have no problem being patient.

 

[Lustygirl23]

At least once a day for sure, but ideally twice a day

 

[happyhouror2]

At least once a day for sure, but ideally twice a day

as much as you desire

 

[SusanHoward]

Let me see…I’m single now, but work for a living. Absent meeting you, maybe 2-3 times/month?

 

[TrailerHitch]

Every day for a while, then maybe 2-3 times a week.

 

[cdstefi]

Depends on both partners and their appetite for it. With my wife it's pretty infrequent (no judgement on her, I love her to bits but she just has a lower libido than me), but the odd flings I've had have been much higher octane. When you've been with somebody who has an apparently inexhaustible appetite and ability for back-to-back orgasms it's kind of a spur to raise your game

 

[OralAllOver]

6 times per week, with 5 of them very high quality and duration

I'm 59 yo

 

[verseandworse2]

Do you ever get horny?

No, seriously. It's a bit on the nose, regarding what site we are on, but there is a genuine question in here.

Through informal surveys around me as well as polls on tumblr, I am increasingly under the impression that other people do not actually care about sex all that much.

For instance, I remember a poll that went something like, "how often would you want to have sex with another person, if you could?"

I thought for sure most people would say something like once or twice a day.
Nope.
The most popular responses were more in the realm between once a month or never.

Most people around me say things like, watching TV or flat out sleeping is better.

My own spouse flat out forgets that sex even exists as a possibility unless I tell them (they also claim to never masturbate).

So I thought, let's go to the site that is run by sex nerds and see if I get different results.

Just saw this while scrolling. It was something that bothered me too. Here's a Psychology Today article that seems to have the answer. It says women in committed relationships experience a sharp decline in sexual desire (at least for their partner, not sex in general), while for men desire remains undimmed for years and years. And there is nothing that can be done about it... https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...2201/how-sexual-desire-changes-after-marriage

 

[TonyF862]

Wife and I are pretty active - at least 3-4 times a week. She recently took on a lover with my permission (her first time with just a guy - ie not a couple). This little adventure has made her so horny she wants to fuck all the time. We have fucked/sucked every day since their little play session! Going on 10 days in a ROW!! So I'll let you know once the streak ends!