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[Endless_Night]

Knobjectification

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It has come to my attention that women don’t objectify men enough.

I'll be back to answer these more fully later, but a brief answer -

Sign me up. I am perfectly willing to objectify men.

Just no appendage pictures, please..

 

[Endless_Night]

Is that unusual? Genuine question. I don't know what other people do for their partners. I'm way more exhibitionistic in my in-person life than I am online.

I mean, are we talking life sized?

Then, yes. That is a tad unusual.

No judgment! Just . . . unusual.

 

[Apisto42]

I'll be back to answer these more fully later, but a brief answer -

Sign me up. I am perfectly willing to objectify men.

Just no appendage pictures, please..

So just into torso objectification? Seems a bit limiting.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Knobjectification

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It has come to my attention that women don’t objectify men enough.

Aw, is this to do with all men, or are you feeling a little lacking in attention?...

Why do you think women don’t seem as visual as men, or are they and they are just better at keeping it under wraps?

women, to look at, are, by and large, nicer than men. More aesthetically pleasing. That isn't to say that men cannot be objectified. Cos they can. (This is only my opinion - even with as many alts as I pretend to have, I can only speak for me). I think that I look for something more than just a visual.

Did you have a subscription to Playgirl growing up, or date someone who did?

No. I had a subscription to a now defunt erotica magazine for women called 'Scarlet'. First issue came with a free rabbit as I recall. I can't remember if it had pinups.

Did you have a sexy poster of a guy on your wall?

I mean, the pop and film stars of the day etc. On my wall, my door, my ceiling....

Does looking at naked men stimulate you, or is it the fantasy created by the image more than the man himself, or do you have to have feelings for the man in the image?

I am a voyeur. I love to see. I find it all fascinating It can be all of the above. If feelings are involved? All the better.

Is guy-on-guy hot or not?

in my fantasies, yes. Done in a specific way for me, then yes. It can be hot as fuck. Remebering though, that it ultimately all about me.

When you see an image of a hot cock, do you think “Damn!” or “Gross, a dick!”?

Damn. That doesn't mean I want random dickheads dming me their cocks.

Do you like seeing a man cum?

because of me? Always. See, feel, ta.... sorry. I was getting carried away..

Have you gone to a male strip joint, bachelorette party, etc.? Full nude?

yes. And yes. Again I have the voyeur fascination...

Do you prefer an erotic image of a sexy man with a woman (romance novel style cover), or a hot naked, confident man who looks ready to fuck, or just specific body parts, or all of the above?

All of the above

 

[EvaLane]

Why do you think women don’t seem as visual as men, or are they and they are just better at keeping it under wraps?

I think women are as visual as men. It’s been proven in a few studies, actually.

As for why I think it’s not as obvious or that the stigma exists in the first place, I mean… I could go fully into the topic but it wouldn’t be cute. I think it’s a mix of the Madonna whore complex and a lot of men championing the same boring idea that women JuSt ArEnT aS sExUaL when in reality, they probably just can’t satisfy their needs.

Anyway.

Did you have a subscription to Playgirl growing up, or date someone who did?

No lol, I can’t imagine that going over well at home.

Did you have a sexy poster of a guy on your wall?

There may have been a Zac Efron poster scattered among the pop star idols, but he wasn’t really my type.

Does looking at naked men stimulate you, or is it the fantasy created by the image more than the man himself, or do you have to have feelings for the man in the image?

For porn - It can be stimulating, but only if I was already turned on. The fantasy and my reality need to blend well or it’s just going to fall flat.

For photos meant just for me - I wouldn’t say I need to have feelings, but some sort of connection and desire to see him.

Is guy-on-guy hot or not?

It’s not something I gravitate to, but I hear it’s pretty popular amongst the girlies.

When you see an image of a hot cock, do you think “Damn!” or “Gross, a dick!”?

Ha, I mean, context matters. Sometimes it’s funny. Sometimes it’s hot. Sometimes it’s rather… unfortunate.

Do you like seeing a man cum?

Absolutely I do

Have you gone to a male strip joint, bachelorette party, etc.? Full nude?

No, I probably wouldn’t unless it was a special occasion like you mentioned.

Though, I did love being in an actual strip club where the men were fully clothed and the women were fully nude. Lotssss of fun.

Do you prefer an erotic image of a sexy man with a woman (romance novel style cover), or a hot naked, confident man who looks ready to fuck, or just specific body parts, or all of the above?

Hmm. I guess a confident man who knows his angles and doesn’t come off super desperate. But even then, I can’t say it would entice me much

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Knobjectification

It has come to my attention that women don’t objectify men enough.

Why do you think women don’t seem as visual as men, or are they and they are just better at keeping it under wraps?

From what little I understand of the female brain, I think it depends. Some women seem more visually stimulated than others. But I think it all starts from a premise that we need to acknowledge: women are inherently more appealing to look at than men. They're softer, usually better looking skin, etc.

Did you have a subscription to Playgirl growing up, or date someone who did?

No and no.

Did you have a sexy poster of a guy on your wall?

No. But also did not have one of a woman.

Does looking at naked men stimulate you, or is it the fantasy created by the image more than the man himself, or do you have to have feelings for the man in the image?

Is this set of questions geared for women alone?
Stimulate? No. Can I appreciate a good looking dude? Yup

Is guy-on-guy hot or not?

With all due respect to those that like it...

When you see an image of a hot cock, do you think “Damn!” or “Gross, a dick!”?

I appreciate a good dick. Usually with some envy (average is average and therefore not good)

Do you like seeing a man cum?

Meh. Don't care

Have you gone to a male strip joint, bachelorette party, etc.? Full nude?

Nope. Never been to a club for men either.

Do you prefer an erotic image of a sexy man with a woman (romance novel style cover), or a hot naked, confident man who looks ready to fuck, or just specific body parts, or all of the above?

I'm a straight guy. I would be perfectly content never seeing another naked man again.

 

[QuietCanadian]

I think Elaine sums up the difference best.

 

[Endless_Night]

So just into torso objectification? Seems a bit limiting.

I never said just torso! Legs, bottoms, shoulders, arms. Arms can be very sexy.

 

[Endless_Night]

Why do you think women don’t seem as visual as men, or are they and they are just better at keeping it under wraps?

I'm usually more about touch and scent. How skin feels under my sliding fingers or that signature scent that is so uniquely individual.

That said, I can be visual. Typically I find women more appealing to look at than men, but not always. Black and white nudes are lovely. @hotwords229_A derriere picture is practically iconic.

Full frontal from strange men is just a no go.

I doubt my aversion is gender based. Women are just far less likely to assault you out of the blue with pictures of what's between their legs.

Did you have a subscription to Playgirl growing up, or date someone who did?

Nope. I don't know that I've ever even seen a copy.

Did you have a sexy poster of a guy on your wall?

I did not.

Does looking at naked men stimulate you, or is it the fantasy created by the image more than the man himself, or do you have to have feelings for the man in the image?

Probably more the fantasy as far as attractive pictures of men I don't know. Pics of someone I do know, my attraction play a large part in my interest.

Is guy-on-guy hot or not?

Not really my thing.

When you see an image of a hot cock, do you think “Damn!” or “Gross, a dick!”?

Hot? I mean, is that a thing? There are so many more attractive body parts.

I'm going with Gross.

Do you like seeing a man cum?

For me? Because of me? Sure.

Have you gone to a male strip joint, bachelorette party, etc.? Full nude?

Yes. Yes.

Do you prefer an erotic image of a sexy man with a woman (romance novel style cover), or a hot naked, confident man who looks ready to fuck, or just specific body parts, or all of the above?

Hmmm. Is the hot, naked, confident man image a full frontal? These things make a differeeeeeeeeeence!

One, and possibly two. Dependent.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Women are just far less likely to assault you out of the blue with pictures of what's between their legs.

And that's quite unfortunate.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

And that's quite unfortunate.

I think this comment actually sums up the core differences between men and women.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

I think this comment actually sums up the core differences between men and women.

It absolutely does!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Why do you think women don’t seem as visual as men, or are they and they are just better at keeping it under wraps?
We are incredibly visual creatures. Have you seen the way we dress? The way we design our homes? We adore looking at beautiful things. I think it comes down to taste. We're more discerning and when a body is art, a person is art - we notice.

Did you have a subscription to Playgirl growing up, or date someone who did?
No, but I did see some growing up.

Did you have a sexy poster of a guy on your wall?
No. I didn't have any posters. I had bare walls.

Does looking at naked men stimulate you, or is it the fantasy created by the image more than the man himself, or do you have to have feelings for the man in the image?
Tasteful nudes of guys drive me wild. I need the picture to titillate my mind and give me something to explore. I front on cock shot in a mirror that highlights the filth in the room behind it is not it.

Is guy-on-guy hot or not?
Hot

When you see an image of a hot cock, do you think “Damn!” or “Gross, a dick!”?
I appreciate a gorgeous cock. I'm partial to uncircumcised ones right now

Do you like seeing a man cum?
I don't care to watch the ejaculate exit his body, but I love watching the whole experience, yes. The way his body builds up to the moment, the look on his face, etc.

Have you gone to a male strip joint, bachelorette party, etc.? Full nude?
I've been around a full nude strip situation, yes.

Do you prefer an erotic image of a sexy man with a woman (romance novel style cover), or a hot naked, confident man who looks ready to fuck, or just specific body parts, or all off the above?
All of the above. I respond well to grounded, confident men who know what they have to offer and are generous with it.

 

[EvaLane]

When you see an image of a hot cock, do you think “Damn!” or “Gross, a dick!”?
I appreciate a gorgeous cock. I'm partial to uncircumcised ones right now

I gotta say, upon further reflection, I really agree. I have been turned on by just an actual good cock shot. They are so rare, though.

I think this comment actually sums up the core differences between men and women.

Sometimes I think men treat content from women like collectibles. Less about variety, more about volume. It's not even about novelty anymore. Just a reflex.

A testament to short attention spans dressed up as desire

 

[Photog1rl]

Why do you think women don’t seem as visual as men, or are they and they are just better at keeping it under wraps?

I don't think it is about keeping it under wraps and agree with the other ladies, we are visual. I think that because historically most of what was available (ads, art, porn) was created by men for men women haven't had media that was targeted to them. Not responding the same way men do makes sense. Now that we are thinking past the male gaze in a more complete way this is changing. We've always been visual it just had to resonate with us.

Did you have a subscription to Playgirl growing up, or date someone who did?

Nope. I never did. There was a store that sold t-shirts in the front and “novelty” items in the back that had greeting cards and I remember peeking at the ones that folded way down-to show a mans very large dick. We all giggled and continued to look.

Did you have a sexy poster of a guy on your wall?

Nope. I had Bob Marley and surfing posters in my room.

Does looking at naked men stimulate you, or is it the fantasy created by the image more than the man himself, or do you have to have feelings for the man in the image?

Random naked men? Not usually. I appreciate the human body and will always drop a when people post themselves but it is more of an appreciation of the poster posting than of their body specifically. Every once in awhile there is an image of a person that I do not know that will give me a physical reaction. I can't qualify why though.
If it is an image of a person I have feelings for then yes, an image can be stimulating.

Is guy-on-guy hot or not?

Yes, it is hot, but I'm thinking about how hot it would be if we were all together.

Do you like seeing a man cum?

I am very visual and I LOVE watching a man touch and tease himself. I love the build up, the tension, and the release when I'm the reason why he is cumming.
*and I have consented to seeing it. I do not appreciate random unwanted dick pics or tributes.*

When you see an image of a hot cock, do you think “Damn!” or “Gross, a dick!”?

If it is a great picture I will think damn. That's hot. But…great dick pics are rare. If the person is my person then I will find all the pictures they share hot.

Have you gone to a male strip joint, bachelorette party, etc.? Full nude?

Nope

Do you prefer an erotic image of a sexy man with a woman (romance novel style cover), or a hot naked, confident man who looks ready to fuck, or just specific body parts, or all off the above?

An image of a confident man will always be sexy.
I'm not into romance novel covers.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Sometimes I think men treat content from women like collectibles. Less about variety, more about volume. It's not even about novelty anymore. Just a reflex.

A testament to short attention spans dressed up as desire

Since written word is hard for me to give tone, just know I'm not saying this in a defensive way.

There are many different parts of the female body which are obviously beautiful, but if I had to pick only one part to see for the rest of my life, with the vulva. There is a reason Georgia O'Keefe made so many paintings based on the female genitals - it's a work of art.

So for me personally, it is absolutely about the variety and beauty.

 

[Photog1rl]

Women are just far less likely to assault you out of the blue with pictures of what's between their legs.

There are some women that definitely lead with this. I think it is what some women think they should share and for others it may be what they consider to be their best assest. For a long time it was hard for me to understand why someone would start here. It felt like it left nowhere to go but I realized that mindset that felt rooted in judgment so I let the question go. It is a bolder move than I would make but that is so ok!

And if any of this reads like I think you don't think its ok, that was not my intention.

 

[EvaLane]

Why do you think women don’t seem as visual as men, or are they and they are just better at keeping it under wraps?

More thoughts - women, from what l've seen, have unfortunately adopted the male gaze as the default blueprint for their own sexual expression online.

"I'm no better than a man."
"Don't ask me the colour of anything."
"Destined to ride, forced to scroll."
"Raw. Deep. Passionate. Lights on. Next question."

Those kinds of comments are everywhere on other platforms.

The thirst is obvious. Women are just as visual and now they're starting to show it.

But what we're seeing isn't a natural shift.

It's a reflection. A learned language. A mirror held up to how men have historically objectified women, now spoken back to them with the same hunger, the same detachment.

Sure, women have always sexualized men, sometimes even harassed them. But this feels different. Louder. Sharper. More overt.

Is the grass really greener?
A lot of men are about to find out.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

A lot of men are about to find out.

Let the games begin!

(The guys who are learning the rules are killing it, btw. There are some quality men in this world )

 

[summer_reine]

Knobjectification

It has come to my attention that women don’t objectify men enough.

I mean.. I heart every picture of guys that I come across on lit so I'm doing my part to change that

Why do you think women don’t seem as visual as men, or are they and they are just better at keeping it under wraps?

I love guy watching, I love looking at men. Big, small, short, tall.. you guys are hot. I suspect we are a bit more subtle about it in public and likely it is becoming more socially acceptable now than in the past.

Did you have a subscription to Playgirl growing up, or date someone who did?

Nah, I didn't even know that was a thing until high school and by then the Internet was already full of porn.

Did you have a sexy poster of a guy on your wall?

Does art count? I have two nudes I drew in college hanging above my bed.

Does looking at naked men stimulate you, or is it the fantasy created by the image more than the man himself, or do you have to have feelings for the man in the image?

There have definitely been some images that instantly arouse me but it is more the emotion evoked by the image, I think. I'm trying to think if I've ever been instantly aroused by seeing a man irl, I don't think so. Although I haven't been to see male strippers yet so.. maybe?

Is guy-on-guy hot or not?

It can be, especially if I can imagine them performing for me

When you see an image of a hot cock, do you think “Damn!” or “Gross, a dick!”?

Very much depends on context and my mood. Although I don't think I've ever thought 'ick' I've also never received an unsolicited dick pic (I will dox you, don't do it)

Do you like seeing a man cum?

A close up? Meh. Seeing a guy's body and his face as he cums.. absolutely

Have you gone to a male strip joint, bachelorette party, etc.? Full nude?

Not yet, it's on my bucket list but I think I'd rather see them at least slightly clothed. If a guy dances naked for me I want it to be because he likes me rather than for my money. I'm not sure why there is a difference between semi and fully nude in my mind, but there is.

Do you prefer an erotic image of a sexy man with a woman (romance novel style cover), or a hot naked, confident man who looks ready to fuck, or just specific body parts, or all of the above?

I prefer erotic solo pictures, I'm insecure and seeing beautiful women with a hot guy just makes me feel worse. But enjoying a guy who obviously wants me to see him, love that.

 

[hotwords229_A]

First issue came with a free rabbit as I recall.

I genuinely thought you meant the animal at first and I was confused.

I think women are as visual as men. It’s been proven in a few studies, actually.

context matters.

I think this is how I should have worded it originally. Context seems to matter more to women, where men just want (need?) to see. We really, really want/need to see.

Is this set of questions geared for women alone?

Pretty much, this time. But always feel free to spin the questions any way you like, or ask better ones.

@hotwords229_A derriere picture is practically iconic

People have referred to me as “quite an ass”.

Women are just far less likely to assault you out of the blue with pictures of what's between their legs.

I can confirm this statement is not entirely true.

We're more discerning and when a body is art, a person is art - we notice.

But also a banana duct taped to a wall has been called “art”.
I once worked with a guy named Art.

I'm partial to uncircumcised ones right now

historically most of what was available (ads, art, porn) was created by men for men women haven't had media that was targeted to them.

Okay, but this is why I brought up the Playgirl. It’s original purpose was to be Playboy for women, but it turned out to have an almost exclusively gay male readership.

And, at least do far, many of the women above who answered either didn’t own or see a Playgirl.
This is kind of my point.

As a guy, going in to buy a porn mag was humiliating and painful, but many (or most) of us did it, in spite of the disapproving looks from the register lady. We HAD to see it. It was a survival mechanism. Pre internet.

There was a store that sold t-shirts in the front and “novelty” items in the back that had greeting cards and I remember peeking at the ones that folded way down-to show a mans very large dick. We all giggled and continued to look.

Spencer Gifts? That was one of my favorites as a kid! Now they suck.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Does art count? I have two nudes I drew in college hanging above my bed.

Did you draw them in a Life Drawing class, or from a picture?
It counts either way.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Aw, is this to do with all men, or are you feeling a little lacking in attention?...

I can share.

 

[EvaLane]

I think this is how I should have worded it originally. Context seems to matter more to women, where men just want (need?) to see. We really, really want/need to see.

But women do have that same need, we also really, really want and need to see.

The difference is we don’t need nor want a subscription service so we can get 20 new hot men of the month bent over and posed like school boys and secretaries.

This may be a bit of projection, but when I find something I like, I return to it, over and over and over again. Pornography, erotica, people . I can’t really imagine owning 20, 120, 340 different images of naked dudes with their shlongs out and not feeling horrified.

Yet, goon caves are on the rise and wall to wall tits, ass, and spread holes is the standard. Hundreds of women. And then multiple monitors, to display even more women.

Is that a need? Where is the line drawn?

Hopefully out of the splash zone

Edit - lol my math skills displayed in real time. 20 x 6 (months) is 120. Yes. 120 + 120 is not 340. That’s ok. I have my words, my pretty little words.

 

[summer_reine]

Did you draw them in a Life Drawing class, or from a picture?
It counts either way.

Life drawing class, the guy was a theater student. He said I drew him hotter than he actually was, I begged to differ