Did anything make you cry today?

[AngelicaS1780]

I've been crying on and off for two days. I was stupid enough to let a certain Litster back into my life three months ago. He had broken my little Lit newbie heart six years ago when he chose another lady Litster over me. He disappeared from Lit in early 2020. At the start of our renewed correspondence, he was open, apologetic, and telling me how he had changed. I gave him a second chance. He broke out the "I love you"s and "my girl"s and told me repeatedly how happy I made him.

A couple days ago, we hit what I would characterize as a minor bump in the road... our first one in three months. His immediate reaction was to state that he didn't need this stress. He said that I cared more than he did and expected different things from the relationship, which shocked me, as this had not come up in any of our discussions.

I apologized. I asked him to talk with me about these issues so I could better understand what he was saying and reassure him as to my expectations. But it was like he flipped a switch and every positive feeling he had towards me was just gone, like the prior three months meant absolutely nothing. He was done with me, with barely an apology.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I've been crying on and off for two days. I was stupid enough to let a certain Litster back into my life three months ago. He had broken my little Lit newbie heart six years ago when he chose another lady Litster over me. He disappeared from Lit in early 2020. At the start of our renewed correspondence, he was open, apologetic, and telling me how he had changed. I gave him a second chance. He broke out the "I love you"s and "my girl"s and told me repeatedly how happy I made him.

A couple days ago, we hit what I would characterize as a minor bump in the road... our first one in three months. His immediate reaction was to state that he didn't need this stress. He said that I cared more than he did and expected different things from the relationship, which shocked me, as this had not come up in any of our discussions.

I apologized. I asked him to talk with me about these issues so I could better understand what he was saying and reassure him as to my expectations. But it was like he flipped a switch and every positive feeling he had towards me was just gone, like the prior three months meant absolutely nothing. He was done with me, with barely an apology.

I'm so sorry Angelica. It's so hard to throw your heart out there hoping someone else will help protect it. Not be the one to hurt it.

 

[Anastasia1999]

I've been crying on and off for two days. I was stupid enough to let a certain Litster back into my life three months ago. He had broken my little Lit newbie heart six years ago when he chose another lady Litster over me. He disappeared from Lit in early 2020. At the start of our renewed correspondence, he was open, apologetic, and telling me how he had changed. I gave him a second chance. He broke out the "I love you"s and "my girl"s and told me repeatedly how happy I made him.

A couple days ago, we hit what I would characterize as a minor bump in the road... our first one in three months. His immediate reaction was to state that he didn't need this stress. He said that I cared more than he did and expected different things from the relationship, which shocked me, as this had not come up in any of our discussions.

I apologized. I asked him to talk with me about these issues so I could better understand what he was saying and reassure him as to my expectations. But it was like he flipped a switch and every positive feeling he had towards me was just gone, like the prior three months meant absolutely nothing. He was done with me, with barely an apology.

I am so sorry to hear that Angelica. Excuse my French but what a fucker. He does not deserve someone as lovely as you.

Sending hugs, Ana.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I've been crying on and off for two days. I was stupid enough to let a certain Litster back into my life three months ago. He had broken my little Lit newbie heart six years ago when he chose another lady Litster over me. He disappeared from Lit in early 2020. At the start of our renewed correspondence, he was open, apologetic, and telling me how he had changed. I gave him a second chance. He broke out the "I love you"s and "my girl"s and told me repeatedly how happy I made him.

A couple days ago, we hit what I would characterize as a minor bump in the road... our first one in three months. His immediate reaction was to state that he didn't need this stress. He said that I cared more than he did and expected different things from the relationship, which shocked me, as this had not come up in any of our discussions.

I apologized. I asked him to talk with me about these issues so I could better understand what he was saying and reassure him as to my expectations. But it was like he flipped a switch and every positive feeling he had towards me was just gone, like the prior three months meant absolutely nothing. He was done with me, with barely an apology.

I am so sorry this has happened to you. You are too lovely to have cunts like that in your life. You deserve so much more and one day you will find somebody who knows your worth and treats you with love and respect

 

[cactusjack0584]

I've been crying on and off for two days. I was stupid enough to let a certain Litster back into my life three months ago. He had broken my little Lit newbie heart six years ago when he chose another lady Litster over me. He disappeared from Lit in early 2020. At the start of our renewed correspondence, he was open, apologetic, and telling me how he had changed. I gave him a second chance. He broke out the "I love you"s and "my girl"s and told me repeatedly how happy I made him.

A couple days ago, we hit what I would characterize as a minor bump in the road... our first one in three months. His immediate reaction was to state that he didn't need this stress. He said that I cared more than he did and expected different things from the relationship, which shocked me, as this had not come up in any of our discussions.

I apologized. I asked him to talk with me about these issues so I could better understand what he was saying and reassure him as to my expectations. But it was like he flipped a switch and every positive feeling he had towards me was just gone, like the prior three months meant absolutely nothing. He was done with me, with barely an apology.

Others before me have said it probably better but, having been in a similar situation myself a long while ago. Trust me I get it, more than you know. I can only offer my sincerest And for good measure add a “Fuck that dude! You’re awesome! And you deserve sooo much more and better!”

 

[AngelicaS1780]

I'm so sorry Angelica. It's so hard to throw your heart out there hoping someone else will help protect it. Not be the one to hurt it.

Thank you, Sassy. The quote in your sig about scars on the heart really hits home at times like these.

I am so sorry to hear that Angelica. Excuse my French but what a fucker. He does not deserve someone as lovely as you.

Sending hugs, Ana.

Thank you, Ana, for the kind words and the hugs.

I am so sorry this has happened to you. You are too lovely to have cunts like that in your life. You deserve so much more and one day you will find somebody who knows your worth and treats you with love and respect

Thank you, Amber. Maybe someday.

Others before me have said it probably better but, having been in a similar situation myself a long while ago. Trust me I get it, more than you know. I can only offer my sincerest And for good measure add a “Fuck that dude! You’re awesome! And you deserve sooo much more and better!”

Thank you, Jack. Thanks for the hug and support.

 

[MissRadiant]

Too many emojis to put here

Like others above, you my dear friend are amazing. He doesn't deserve you that is true.

 

[cactusjack0584]

Thank you, Jack. Thanks for the hug and support.

Of course, anytime you need it.

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

I've been crying on and off for two days. I was stupid enough to let a certain Litster back into my life three months ago. He had broken my little Lit newbie heart six years ago when he chose another lady Litster over me. He disappeared from Lit in early 2020. At the start of our renewed correspondence, he was open, apologetic, and telling me how he had changed. I gave him a second chance. He broke out the "I love you"s and "my girl"s and told me repeatedly how happy I made him.

A couple days ago, we hit what I would characterize as a minor bump in the road... our first one in three months. His immediate reaction was to state that he didn't need this stress. He said that I cared more than he did and expected different things from the relationship, which shocked me, as this had not come up in any of our discussions.

I apologized. I asked him to talk with me about these issues so I could better understand what he was saying and reassure him as to my expectations. But it was like he flipped a switch and every positive feeling he had towards me was just gone, like the prior three months meant absolutely nothing. He was done with me, with barely an apology.

I am so sorry Angelica. That is so bloody cruel on his part and you - a sweetheart - don't deserve that at all. I am no good with words but I know how much it hurts and I feel for you. I won't say "Move on, there's plenty more fish in the sea!" because I know how your heart must be hurting. Just believe that you deserve so much better than this piece of scum and I hope you find true happiness which you deserve.

 

[ericalauren]

Almost! I was in so much pain today that I almost cried.

 

[NeonSubtlety]

Not yet…which is weird for me. Anyone have any good clips? I could use a tear or two.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Not yet…which is weird for me. Anyone have any good clips? I could use a tear or two

Watch hachi, the dog movie

 

[cactusjack0584]

Almost! I was in so much pain today that I almost cried.

I’m so sorry. I’d offer you a hug but don’t know what kind of pain you have… so maybe a light

Not yet…which is weird for me. Anyone have any good clips? I could use a tear or two.

Music usually does the trick for me…

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Like others above, you my dear friend are amazing. He doesn't deserve you that is true.

Thank you so much, my friend.

I am so sorry Angelica. That is so bloody cruel on his part and you - a sweetheart - don't deserve that at all. I am no good with words but I know how much it hurts and I feel for you. I won't say "Move on, there's plenty more fish in the sea!" because I know how your heart must be hurting. Just believe that you deserve so much better than this piece of scum and I hope you find true happiness which you deserve.

Thank you, Wonky. You are a sweetheart as well.

 

[FreckledSprite]

Most days I wake up and I cry. I cry at bedtime. Several times in between.

The thing with grief is everyone wants it to be linear and to put a time limit on it. It doesn’t seem to work that way.

 

[JerseyJugHandler]

Sprite,
I am sorry to see that you're dealing with persistent grief. A hug in sympathy from this random stranger!

 

[cactusjack0584]

Most days I wake up and I cry. I cry at bedtime. Several times in between.

The thing with grief is everyone wants it to be linear and to put a time limit on it. It doesn’t seem to work that way.

Everyone handles grief differently… and whatever way helps you past the sadness part and to happy remembrance part or at the very least acceptance…that’s the way you have to take.
I’m sorry you’re struggling so hard. The best I can offer is an open inbox and a big

 

[Jodaily]

Not today, but lately I’ve read several stories by “CleverGenericName” that have definitely brought tears to my eyes. Very good author.

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

Yep. Made me cry a lot.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Yep. Made me cry a lot.

Sending gentle hugs

 

[cactusjack0584]

Not today, but lately I’ve read several stories by “CleverGenericName” that have definitely brought tears to my eyes. Very good author.

Yep. Made me cry a lot.

One for each from me too, just in case

 

[luvzmature]

I've been crying on and off for two days. I was stupid enough to let a certain Litster back into my life three months ago. He had broken my little Lit newbie heart six years ago when he chose another lady Litster over me. He disappeared from Lit in early 2020. At the start of our renewed correspondence, he was open, apologetic, and telling me how he had changed. I gave him a second chance. He broke out the "I love you"s and "my girl"s and told me repeatedly how happy I made him.

A couple days ago, we hit what I would characterize as a minor bump in the road... our first one in three months. His immediate reaction was to state that he didn't need this stress. He said that I cared more than he did and expected different things from the relationship, which shocked me, as this had not come up in any of our discussions.

I apologized. I asked him to talk with me about these issues so I could better understand what he was saying and reassure him as to my expectations. But it was like he flipped a switch and every positive feeling he had towards me was just gone, like the prior three months meant absolutely nothing. He was done with me, with barely an apology.

I am very sorry Angelica. Just my two cents, and believe me, that's all it's worth. I think you dodged that bullet for the last time. His reaction to something apparently so minor leads me to believe he's an unstable sort who hides it well and can't handle the average everyday stress that every relationship is bound to have. I wish your heartache to quell because he so doesn't deserve you.

 

[TongueLust]

@AngelicaS1780 UGH! I hate that for you. What a stupid motherfucking coward. *Hugs*

 

[TongueLust]

Yes. I took the last of my bestie/bros ashes to the cemetery today.

 

[Helpme01]

Unfortunately I seem to be spiraling down this week due to another loss and the service was at the same place as my dads, moms, wife’s, aunts, and Mother in Law just cracked from the weight of all