Would you sleep with a married person?

[JusticeGrey]

I had sex with a married woman about a month ago. We met online and chatted for a while. When it came out that I wasn't all that far away from her, the subject of a hookup came up. She'd cheated numerous times before, had pictures and videos of previous hookups, and was being criminally neglected by her husband.

We got together and had a wonderful experience with each other. We did things for each other that our spouses will not do with us, had sex that we cannot have in our normal married lives.

I would absolutely do this again.

 

[van_delay]

I had sex with a married woman about a month ago. We met online and chatted for a while. When it came out that I wasn't all that far away from her, the subject of a hookup came up. She'd cheated numerous times before, had pictures and videos of previous hookups, and was being criminally neglected by her husband.

We got together and had a wonderful experience with each other. We did things for each other that our spouses will not do with us, had sex that we cannot have in our normal married lives.

I would absolutely do this again.

Love this

 

[lmc89]

I would love to sleep with a married woman. The thrill of having something you shouldn’t and the keeping of a secret would be a huge turn on for me

 

[Rob_Royale]

It's not something I'm super proud of, but my first four sexual partners were all married women when I was 20-22 years old. I lost my virginity to Debbie. I wrote about it here. My Beautiful Debbie. It was a very beautiful experience.

Second was the wife of my parent's neighbor's son. They were in an open relationship and after helping them move into a new home, I was showering at their new place so we could go out to dinner. She slipped into the shower with me. A pretty epic night with myself and her husband double teaming her. This relationship went on for over a year.

Third was my boss' wife's sister who was staying at their home when they went away for a weekend. Her marriage was on the rocks and she was looking for a distraction. She was a BBW with a nursing baby. A pretty epic weekend.

The fourth was a coworker who introduced me to her husband because we had similar interests. Over for dinner and a movie one night, after a bicycle tour, he said he wasn't feeling well and said he was going to take a sleeping pill and go to bed early. About halfway through the movie, she paused it and then straddled my lap and kissed me. We fucked like rabbits on the couch for an hour. It was a one night only, and though they never said so, I suspect he was listening from the bedroom.

I met my now-wife shortly afterward and we are completely monogamous for 33 years now.

I've been tempted to write the story of the last three affairs as a follow up to my Debbie story.

 

[FreckledSprite]

Yes. The cheating part doesn’t do anything for me but I do often feel a deep connection with someone who is married to someone else but feels like he’s mine.

I’ve never slept with a married man but have few qualms about it.

 

[JusticeGrey]

Yes. The cheating part doesn’t do anything for me but I do often feel a deep connection with someone who is married to someone else but feels like he’s mine.

I’ve never slept with a married man but have few qualms about it.

The cheating part wasn't really part of it for me, either, although she was really into that aspect of it. It made her feel powerful and sexy, I think, that I was willing to go outside my marriage to be with her. She also got a thrill out of cheating on her husband, the idea that he didn't know what dirty things she was getting up to

 

[FreckledSprite]

The cheating part wasn't really part of it for me, either, although she was really into that aspect of it. It made her feel powerful and sexy, I think, that I was willing to go outside my marriage to be with her. She also got a thrill out of cheating on her husband, the idea that he didn't know what dirty things she was getting up to

I’ve only had Online Affairs and I have to compartmentalize or I’ll Guilt Queen.

 

[JusticeGrey]

I’ve only had Online Affairs and I have to compartmentalize or I’ll Guilt Queen.

I get that completely. I've had intense guilt at times, too, over cheating, although not at all with this person.

Out of curiosity, what is an online affair to you? I've had what I consider to be one of those, but I wonder if it's the same for you

 

[FreckledSprite]

I get that completely. I've had intense guilt at times, too, over cheating, although not at all with this person.

Out of curiosity, what is an online affair to you? I've had what I consider to be one of those, but I wonder if it's the same for you

A couple of weeks ago I ended a 15-month OA. We started off chatting platonically but it quickly turned playful. We’d send each other daily texts, voiceclips and videos, sometimes chat on the phone or vid. Sext, phonesex, vidsex.

We experienced the same range of emotions as an in person relationship. Both having spouses was a challenge and discretion/opsec was a high priority.

 

[JusticeGrey]

A couple of weeks ago I ended a 15-month OA. We started off chatting platonically but it quickly turned playful. We’d send each other daily texts, voiceclips and videos, sometimes chat on the phone or vid. Sext, phonesex, vidsex.

We experienced the same range of emotions as an in person relationship. Both having spouses was a challenge and discretion/opsec was a high priority.

That certainly sounds like an affair. Very similar for me. Why did you end it? Was it just getting too hard to maintain?

 

[subdudeme13]

A couple of weeks ago I ended a 15-month OA. We started off chatting platonically but it quickly turned playful. We’d send each other daily texts, voiceclips and videos, sometimes chat on the phone or vid. Sext, phonesex, vidsex.

We experienced the same range of emotions as an in person relationship. Both having spouses was a challenge and discretion/opsec was a high priority.

Opsec! That almost sounds kinky in and of itself. I never made that connection between my military life and real life.

 

[FreckledSprite]

That certainly sounds like an affair. Very similar for me. Why did you end it? Was it just getting too hard to maintain?

Maybe he stopped loving me and didn’t have guts to let me in on the secret.

 

[FreckledSprite]

Opsec! That almost sounds kinky in and of itself. I never made that connection between my military life and real life.

I haven’t heard it used here as much as we use it on Reddit.

 

[JusticeGrey]

I haven’t heard it used here as much as we use it on Reddit.

I'd seen it used on session. Specifically when referring to in person hookups, but also other online only activities

 

[YourSecretDesires]

I've only been with girlfriends and one engaged woman. Nobody married, I don't think.

 

[Mike130]

When I was younger, I would never want to sleep with a married woman, would not want to disturb her relationship.
Then I met my future wife. She was married and we were just friends. But she wanted more and was in a bad marriage. She was beautiful and sexy, eventually we ended up in bed. I didn’t want it to happen, didn’t want the complications or the guilt. But it did happen and eventually she got divorced.
She lived with a girlfriend for a while, fucked a few other guys when we were dating, eventually moved in with me.
Her spouse got remarried. We eventually got married and have been happy for many years.

 

[vanquished005]

Yes. Nothing better than another person's spouse.

could not agree more! watching another man's wife suck your cock is hot

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I have...
On one occasion where the wife kinda suspected.
I was so young and naive and slutty, I was sleeping with any guy who wanted to fuck me.
(Not for lack of self esteem, I just love sex)

So it just happened with this guy. I was at his house, his wife was at work and we weren't even friends. (Drugs were involved)..

But after that first fuck, it kinda continued. He'd show up at my apartment all hours of the night and we'd fuck.

It ended when I met my bf that same summer.

 

[MamaBitte]

I already did. First time long ago. She's my wife now. Second is a colleague

 

[Trubbycat]

I do almost every night.

Ohhhhh... you mean "sleep..." and it's my wife...

 

[womaneater58]

I have a few times and would not hesitate again if the opportunity existed.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I’ve only had Online Affairs and I have to compartmentalize or I’ll Guilt Queen.

I had an "Online Affair" with a UK couple. It was Amazing !!!!

 

[ClockworkCourtesan]

I have. Long time ago. We had 2 kids together.

 

[Not Normal]

If everything was 'above board,' I would. A straight up affair...? I'd be hard pressed.

 

[subdudeme13]

Come to think of it, I sleep with a married person everynight!