Women of Lit: A Safe Place To Share

[JennyCapricorn]

Just want to quickly share the advantages of communicating with a the right partner: so Kevin (hubby) found a woman on here who wanted to play on line and in person because she lives just about an hour from us.

Now, I have been ok with Kevin finding outside partners but things about this woman’s situation raised, if not red flags, some very bright orange ones. (Not gonna detail here, not my story to tell.) But Kevin backed off IMMEDIATELY- didn't try to rationalize or argue just accepted everything and apologized to the woman about him/us not being able to move forward

(And full props to the woman for immediately understanding!)

I can’t imagine trying to play on here without knowing I can trust him.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Here's a little levity for your day!

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

An awesome very kind person reached out privately and gave me some great advice so I think I’m all set.

If I had known that there was a side of Lit that included this type of community I’d have made an account ages ago. I’m still likely to be more follower than poster but from what I’ve read so far there is a lot of wisdom and kindness in these threads!

Hope you are doing well, you mentioned above that you are going through some things and may not be in the best place.

Once again the Ladies of Lit come through!

 

[JennyCapricorn]

Here's a little levity for your day!


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One my my favorite Dicks. So tall and talented!

 

[Sol41]

One my my favorite Dicks. So tall and talented!

Singing dicks are my favorite, always!

 

[JennyCapricorn]

Singing dicks are my favorite, always!

This Dick is a triple threat!

 

[Sol41]

This Dick is a triple threat!

Dicks that go chitty chitty bang bang...

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[stickygirl]

Happy International Women's Day
Also this popped up on my YT and is another reason why I love the England women's soccer team.

 

[Strixaluco]

There was one time I was chatting with someone and they asked where I was from. Sometimes I like to shake it up and say a random place so I named a different state. They said they were from there as well and asked where specifically. I named the town a favorite author of mine lives in and it just so happened to be the same fucking place they lived. What are the odds right? They then proceeded to say something along the lines “What’s your address? I want to kidnap you and lock you in my basement.” I felt dread. They followed that up by saying something about driving around to find me. I immediately closed that tab and thought about it the whole night.

Geez! Not that I trust hin to have been telling the truth about where he lives - but so good you had given that creep false information.

Unfortunately telling information like that isn't really safe except on a very broad level. I mean, if you live in a bigger city, it's still obscure enough.

 

[Strixaluco]

Many women i know rather just get acquainted and then something happens, if it happens.

 

[JennyCapricorn]

There was one time I was chatting with someone and they asked where I was from. Sometimes I like to shake it up and say a random place so I named a different state. They said they were from there as well and asked where specifically. I named the town a favorite author of mine lives in and it just so happened to be the same fucking place they lived. What are the odds right? They then proceeded to say something along the lines “What’s your address? I want to kidnap you and lock you in my basement.” I felt dread. They followed that up by saying something about driving around to find me. I immediately closed that tab and thought about it the whole night.

Jesus. Some men just get off on making us afraid. Why?! (Most people on this list have heard the “I think I figured out where you live and we should meet” guy I encountered last year…. Scared the hell of out me.)

 

[Lost_Almonds]

omg, I had to share this
if women behaved like men in bars

Bartender here, I’ve seen this behavior before lol

 

[stickygirl]

Hello I am a trans woman. I would to share my experience on Lit. I first join Literotica as a way to escape the world. My parents disowned me for coming out as a trans woman, they said I wasn't welcomed in their house anymore. So I can here looking for an outlet from the harsh reality, was I so wrong. The first real bad experience I had on here started 2 weeks ago, I was in the online chat looking for woman or other transgender to concentrate with. Someone pm me and it started out great but then when I told them I was transgender, they proceeded to tell me that I shouldn't be allowed in chat rooms that I was poison to every in the chat room. They said I needed to jump into river and drown. That transgender shouldn't even be allowed to live in the world.

Sorry to hear your experiences and the Chat rooms are pretty much a separate website... I've never even looked in there.

One other thing you need to clarify: you say you're a trans woman but your profile says trans man and you've also posted this elsewhere...

Hello I am transmale name Kylie. I am about 5'6 145lbs brown hair and hazel eyes with glass. I have few tattoos. I am looking for a female to share erotic chat or fantasies with. I have few fantasies already. But if you have some we could talk about them.

I realise this might come across as creepy that I checked up, but we have men trying to crash this thread as much as they do our spaces irl.
So, if I may suggest, perhaps stick to the Playground/Personals and hopefully you can hook up with someone. As KalopsiaHoney suggest, don't reveal your home/personal details online

 

[Strixaluco]

Oh I almost forgot - happy international Women's Day!

 

[lil_jenni]

Happy International Women's day to everyone!

I'm celebrating it by trying to ignore yet another accusation that I can't be a woman because women don't think about sex the way I do.

 

[velona]

Happy International Women's day to everyone!

I'm celebrating it by trying to ignore yet another accusation that I can't be a woman because women don't think about sex the way I do.

Where is that coming from?

 

[genzsub]

Happy International Women's day to everyone!

I'm celebrating it by trying to ignore yet another accusation that I can't be a woman because women don't think about sex the way I do.

What? What does that even mean? That a woman can't THINK in a certain way? Fuck that!

Oh, and Happy International Women's Day!
https://pselaw.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/International-Womens-Day.jpg

 

[lil_jenni]

Where is that coming from?

A PM from some dude with whom I've never interacted. He just PMed and said he knows I'm not really a woman because no real woman likes giving BJs the way I say I do. I was expecting a demand of pics, which is usually the way that goes, but he did not do that. Maybe he would have if I had responded.

 

[lil_jenni]

What? What does that even mean? That a woman can't THINK in a certain way? Fuck that!

Oh, and Happy International Women's Day!
https://pselaw.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/International-Womens-Day.jpg

There is a subset of guys here who believe there are almost no women on Lit, and sometimes they try to "catch" cat fish. I used to get accused a lot because of how open I have been and because I actually like sex. Such accusations are often followed by a demand of pics to prove I'm a woman. I hadn't received a PM like that in a long time, but logged in to one today.

Here's what I don't get. What fucking purpose would I have to pretend I'm a woman? I don't do one-one-one role play (or any role play l, really) on here. I don't even really flirt. I'm certainly not leading anyone on, because I disengage whenever someone seems like they are starting to expect things/ hope for things from me. If I were a guy catfishing, what the hell would I get out of my time here? It's frustrating as fuck..

 

[velona]

A PM from some dude with whom I've never interacted. He just PMed and said he knows I'm not really a woman because no real woman likes giving BJs the way I say I do. I was expecting a demand of pics, which is usually the way that goes, but he did not do that. Maybe he would have if I had responded.

That is insane! Of course women like giving blowjobs! And don’t men want us to like it?

Im pretty new here and have definitely seen some of the “is this person a woman?” Stuff which I also find really strange. I mean, I understand this is the internet and you can’t always believe what people say but (1) why lie and (2) even if someone is lying if you aren’t getting into something with them, what is it to you?

Maybe it is just getting older but I definitely have no more fucks to give to nonsense. Still, sorry you had that experience.

 

[stickygirl]

That is insane! Of course women like giving blowjobs! And don’t men want us to like it?

Im pretty new here and have definitely seen some of the “is this person a woman?” Stuff which I also find really strange. I mean, I understand this is the internet and you can’t always believe what people say but (1) why lie and (2) even if someone is lying if you aren’t getting into something with them, what is it to you?

Maybe it is just getting older but I definitely have no more fucks to give to nonsense. Still, sorry you had that experience.

There's a funny Scottish comedian, Fern Brady who gives a very frank opinion of giving BJs, saying the women in her audience are applauding not laughing, because their jaws are aching too much.
I'll give a BJ to be polite but blowing bubbles out your nose is not a good look

 

[stickygirl]

There is a subset of guys here who believe there are almost no women on Lit, and sometimes they try to "catch" cat fish. I used to get accused a lot because of how open I have been and because I actually like sex.
Here's what I don't get. What fucking purpose would I have to pretend I'm a woman? If I were a guy catfishing, what the hell would I get out of my time here? It's frustrating as fuck..

I hear ya. There's so much BS posted I'm almost immune
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[lil_jenni]

There's a funny Scottish comedian, Fern Brady who gives a very frank opinion of giving BJs, saying the women in her audience are applauding not laughing, because their jaws are aching too much.
I'll give a BJ to be polite but blowing bubbles out your nose is not a good look

Its been a long time since I've gotten more than a dull ache from even prolonged sucking. Regular workouts keeps my jaw muscles and tendons in tip top shape.

 

[lil_jenni]

That is insane! Of course women like giving blowjobs! And don’t men want us to like it?

Im pretty new here and have definitely seen some of the “is this person a woman?” Stuff which I also find really strange. I mean, I understand this is the internet and you can’t always believe what people say but (1) why lie and (2) even if someone is lying if you aren’t getting into something with them, what is it to you?

Maybe it is just getting older but I definitely have no more fucks to give to nonsense. Still, sorry you had that experience.

Thanks. Yeah, it used to piss me off. But mainly it's meh these days, when it happens. But this one came out of the blue and kinda bothered me for some reason.

I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. I mean, I want people to accept me for me, so I need to do the same. Still, I roll my eyes sometimes... but I'm sure people do with me too. If I didn't know my life history was real, I'd probably think it was made up or exaggerated too.

 

[vagrantx]

Happy International Women's day to everyone!

I'm celebrating it by trying to ignore yet another accusation that I can't be a woman because women don't think about sex the way I do.

As someone who's been living the lifestyle (BDSM) as a switch for a long time and who's primarily into the S&M part... preach. Going to have to re-purpose my crop into a fending-off-boys-stick one of these days.