First spanking

Hi,
the first time i spanked my hubby Tom was in the first month of his chastity. He had been locked by me in a cock cage over 3 months without orgasms. One Friday after a hard work week, that Friday was a really worse day, I came home tired, still total tensed and hungry. Tom, who had some free days, hadn't made dinner, his only aim was to ask me, still in coat and shoes, when I will allow him to cum. I got very angry and shouted, if you were a little boy, I would spank you. And Tom whispered, do it. What? And again , do it. Oh yes, strip naked and bend over the arm rest of our couch. Tom did at once as ordered and I still in my business clothing started to beat his buttocks with my hand. After ten beats , I said, shit my hand burns more as your ass and went into the kitchen, took our biggest wooden spoon. I was really furious and beated his buttocks really hard. I put all my job frustration in it and got in a sort of a rush. His ass reddened and I liked that, until Tom begged more and more to stop. He nearly cried and I don't know why that made me more furious, I shouted, stop crying , you whimp, take it like a man, no more noises until I'm ready. It's to remember you never , never again ask about an orgasm of your useless cock. Every word was shouted together with a heavy strike. There was no noise from Tom from then on and so I finally stopped. Then I saw, what I had done. His ass was deep purple red and blue with welts. I was so frightened, but my pussy tinged and was total wet. I took Tom in my arms and said, I'm so sorry sweety, so sorry, I don't know what had come over me, please forgive me. But Tom looked in my eyes and said. You were right, I was selfish and deserved that spanking. It was painful and burns still, it was humiliating as your adult husband to strip naked in front of my formal clothed wife and get my bare ass beaten, but it was and is still much more arousing. I don't know why, but it is. He then saw the wet spot on my trousers and said, oh, there's another one aroused too. Let me care for that. He very fast stripped me and then licked my dripping pussy to several orgasms.
Later on we talked about what had happened . We both couldn't explain, why it was so arousing for us both, but Tom proposed to get a spanking every week. I answered, I need a reason to spank you and after some discussion, we decided that it should be done every Sunday around noon. The number of strikes depends on Tom's time result of our weekly jogging on Tuesday and Thursday. Is Tom slower as I, what he most times is, every second counts a beat added to a basis of fifty. Is he faster, the 50 are reduced. Happens very seldom, hihi, mostly he gets around 85, sometimes over 100, what is of course not acceptable and results in the last ten on his balls to encourage him to run more serious.
So, you see, the weekly spanking is in our both interests and Tom always licks me to wonderful orgasms just afterwards.
 
It was my first meeting with an older man.

I asked for a spanking and he spanked my bare ass after taking down my panties. He asked if I was going to be good. I was whimpering that yes, I'll be good while getting wet.
I love to end an OTK bareass spanking with a finger up the asshole. Man or woman-both get a whuppin’ and an anal probe…,
 
My first bottoming experience was my partner’s first topping experience. We didn’t really know what to do we just had a naked me doing everything She told me to. Inexperienced people can go way too hard and that’s what happened.

I got bent over a bathroom sink and she started spanking me bare handed and then got her hairbrush and just beat the hell out of my ass, she hit me with the bristle side too… I cried when she stopped.
 
My first bottoming experience was my partner’s first topping experience. We didn’t really know what to do we just had a naked me doing everything She told me to. Inexperienced people can go way too hard and that’s what happened.

I got bent over a bathroom sink and she started spanking me bare handed and then got her hairbrush and just beat the hell out of my ass, she hit me with the bristle side too… I cried when she stopped.
I am sorry this happened to you It is always a huge worry of mine to go too hard with someone's first spanking experience just because I know for me there will be a level of excitement

I hope there was aftercare involved for you
 
I am sorry this happened to you It is always a huge worry of mine to go too hard with someone's first spanking experience just because I know for me there will be a level of excitement

I hope there was aftercare involved for you
Actually this was a wonderful experience. Yes, it went to hard for two newbies but we learned and I was sore a bruised but I didn’t need medical attention. It was my first experience with sub space and it was great while I was in it. We just had to learn restraint.
 
Actually this was a wonderful experience. Yes, it went to hard for two newbies but we learned and I was sore a bruised but I didn’t need medical attention. It was my first experience with sub space and it was great while I was in it. We just had to learn restraint.
I am glad to hear it was a good experience
 
It is. I have an anal fetish. Everything I do ends up at the asshole.I have a male friend who lets me between his cheeks whenever and however I want. And he loves a hand belt or switch beating. We’ve used spatulas, garden implements…
I've been spanked in a club with my panties off and my ass bent over a spanking bench with paddles, hands and belts so I hear you.
 
My first as an adult was an over the knee spanking with a ruler. she kept hitting the same spot until I had to beg her to stop. She didn't stop, called me a fuckin' baby, and I enjoyed that even more.
 
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I still remember giving my first spanking. We'd just fucked and we were talking about our likes and dislikes. I was younger and unsure of myself, but I told her i'd like to spank her. She blushed and asked if I was going to hurt her. I said 'maybe' with the false bravado of a young man and asked her to lie across my lap. We were both naked and I played with her ass a few times before spanking her. I was probably harder than I intended because she wriggled and cried out, and for a moment, I thought that I'd really hurt her. Turns out she had just been surprised.

We tried many different ways of spanking after that, and I learnt to appreciate a gentler touch as well, but in my mind 8 can still see that room with yellow sheets and bright fluorocent lights.
 
I was at a New Year's Eve party at a friend's place. It was pretty much what you'd expect, a beige buffer, beer, and the type of music everyone knows, just friend's and neighbours hanging out, having a laugh, bringing in the new year and a million miles from a sex party.

For some reason, one guy with a belly full of ale grabs his wife, pulls her across his knee, and gives her a spanking. We're not talking a panties down one, just a few good slaps over her skirt. We find it funnier than she did.

Men being men, another guy decides to follow suit and yanks his girlfriend over his knee to redden her bottom. It doesn't take long for things to descend into "Well, if he's doing it..." The girls, of course, all feel they've all got to go along with it because no one wants to be the one to make a scene.

Now, being single at the time, I don't think I'm in any danger. Of course, I was wrong. One guy caught up in the moment gets a beer sponsored idea and thinks I'd be up for it. Next thing I know, I'm over his lap staring at the carpet, wishing I was in a longer skirt. Three things are going through my head, WTF, shit this is gonna sting, and wait, has this guy got a boner.

Part of you feels very vulnerable, but another's telling you at least someone will step on if he goes too far. He doesn't waste time, theres a crack, a sting, and his cock noticeably twitches as I squirm. I get about half a dozen in quick succession on each cheek. We're not talking BDSM fullforce but enough to make me squeal and peddle my legs.

I can't say I particularly enjoyed the physical part but I did kinda find the dominance side of it arousing. As for him he disappeared into the bathroom for 5 mins, I can't think why.
 
Having spent years in Catholic schools up until 12th grade, and endured the nuns OTK spankings, I can say that spanking makes my cock engorged. My fantasy is my nun/teacher bent over her desk while I stand behind her, whip in hand, her nun friend sucking my cock, both of them nude, except for the habit they wear on their heads.
She squeals and jumps at every touch of the switch, until she begs me to stop. When we’re done she joins the other nun kneeling, helping her friend work on my cock. When I cum, they suck as much into their greedy little mouths as the can. Then Sister Jane spits my cum into Sister Donna’s mouth, and we enjoy a messy three way kiss. I can cum just thinking about it.
 
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