Is female squirting real or a myth ? And if it's real, is it much or a little ? And can it be much one time and little in another for the same woman ?

[LMWM321]

not a myth. not a gusher but sometimes can be. not urine but can have some urine. it comes from the skenes glands. that fluid can also transmit STD so you know.

Ask a Board Certified OBGYN or Urologist what is being "squirted"

If you see a profuse amount of liquid coming out of a woman's urethral opening during sex it is indeed almost entirely urine. It happens when a women's pelvic floor muscles (the muscles which control urination) relax during sex. If it's clear and tasteless it just means the woman is well hydrated.

Saying that researchers don’t really understand what it is is misleading. Yes, they may not know the precise ratio of urine to "skenes fluid" or sweat, etc.. But that's only because they don't really need to research it. It's not a health concern; It doesn't need fixing. ..So it doesn't require a deeper understanding. But they do know it is almost entirely urine, and that's it's harmless. Believing it's all (or mostly) girl cum coming from some mystery sex gland that hasn't yet been located is perhaps fun but it's also total fiction.

C'mon people, there is already a godawful amount of misinformation regarding human sexuality, we don't need more of it. We don't want women - some of whom already struggle with having a basic orgasm - believing that there is this penultimate orgasm called "Squirting" that they also need to worry about. That being a sexually accomplished woman means you should be able to Squirt. Ugh..

Keep it real.

 

[cdstefi]

It is.

Based on previous experience with around half a dozen women I'd begun to think nah, I can get a woman wet no problem, but was starting to believe the ones who say porn gushing is fake (probably mostly true) and that real women just don't.

Then I found one who did. Mind blown. And that's all I'm going to say about that!

 

[LMWM321]

To be clear, I'm not claiming Squirting is necessarily fake (ie., done intentionally) only that it's always urine.

The "Myth" is that it's some sort of mysterious lady cum of unknown origin that is synthesized and gushed only by a scant few women who are able to reach an exalted level of arousal. ..Yeah, that's a myth. It's mostly pee and it's what happens when the muscles that control peeing are relaxed during sex.

 

[cdstefi]

To be clear, I'm not claiming Squirting is necessarily fake (ie., done intentionally) only that it's always urine.

The "Myth" is that it's some sort of mysterious lady cum of unknown origin that is synthesized and gushed only by a scant few women who are able to reach an exalted level of arousal. ..Yeah, that's a myth. It's pee and it's what happens when the muscles that control peeing are relaxed during sex.

Except it doesn't look, smell or taste like pure pee. I'm sure pee is involved but getting a squirt on your face isn't like being peed on (as someone who's had both!)

 

[Minnie1127]

Its very real, I sadly have only been able to do it once. It was quite a bit, I don't know how much I did as it was an eyes closed body shaking orgasm but the spot on the bed was quite big and took quite a while to dry. It happened when I was receiving oral and boy do I wish I could have that guy eat me out again to try and squirt again. Best orgasm I have ever had

 

[amber1312]

It is very real i can assure you I DO NOT piss myself when I reach orgasm.

 

[LMWM321]

It is very real i can assure you I DO NOT piss myself when I reach orgasm.

I didn't say squirting isn't real. I do believe it is something a woman can't necessarily control.

And I wouldn't describe it as "pissing yourself." I'd say your muscles relax and urine leaks out.

Ask your OBGYN or Urologist what it is. But don't be angry with the answer.

 

[LMWM321]

Except it doesn't look, smell or taste like pure pee. I'm sure pee is involved but getting a squirt on your face isn't like being peed on (as someone who's had both!)

Understood. ..When a person is well hydrated, their urine is clear and odorless.

I'm not trying to Yuck Peoples' Yum here, so I'll opt out of further debate about this...

I'd just encourage people to ask a Board Certified OBGYN or Urologist what it is. They'll tell you it is almost entirely urine. Why some Squirt and others don't is perhaps a mystery, but not the composition of what is being squirted. Especially when it's several fluid ounces. There is no secret lady cum gland that doctor's can't locate that's making several fluid ounces of female seminal fluid.

 

[bethany_s]

I didn't say squirting isn't real. I do believe it isn't something a woman can necessarily control.

And I wouldn't describe as "pissing yourself." I'd say your muscles relax and urine leaks out. I

Ask your OBGYN or Urologist what it is. But don't be angry with the answer.

Ugh.

Forgive me, but you are very stuck on what you maybe read or heard somewhere, and actual people are telling you what they experienced and it's not fair to say we are all wrong or incorrect. It's our bodies, and I think women know the difference between the two. Don't slam someone for knowing their body, when the information you have is from other sources.

 

[LMWM321]

Forgive me, but you are very stuck on what you maybe read or heard somewhere, and actual people are telling you what they experienced and it's not fair to say we are all wrong or incorrect. It's our bodies, and I think women know the difference between the two. Don't slam someone for knowing their body, when the information you have is from other sources.

I'm not slamming anyone. That said, @amber1312 did give me an "angry face". Hence my "ugh" in my reply.

Look... the OP asked the question, "is it real or fake?" And I thought I gave a pretty well-reasoned reply. And I certainly didn't just declare it "Fake." I said it indeed may happen, but it's urine that's being expelled. Which is what Board Certified OBGYN's and Urologists will tell you. I'm sorry if it offends people. I really am. I've had just 3 "angry faces" after countless postings here at Lit, so I do try to be respectful.

But I work in Health Care and have a very evidenced-based, scientific take on everything. Including matters related to Sexuality. I'm not a doctor, but I talk with them all day long. And I do believe that everyone should take a stand against misinformation. There's gobs of it our world these days. We don't want scores of women believing they are missing out because their body doesn't produce and expel 1/2 cup of female mystery-cum like what their husbands are gawking at in Porn.

 

[bigmahi]

I can't believe this thread is still going...Actually, I can. Here is a link which has more links to actual scientific articles.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36208324/

 

[Wonderer67]

I'm not slamming anyone. That said, @amber1312 did give me an "angry face". Hence my "ugh" in my reply.

Look... the OP asked the question, "is it real or fake?" And I thought I gave a pretty well-reasoned reply. And I certainly didn't just declare it "Fake." I said it indeed may happen, but it's urine that's being expelled. Which is what Board Certified OBGYN's and Urologists will tell you. I'm sorry if it offends people. I really am. I've had just 3 "angry faces" after countless postings here at Lit, so I do try to be respectful.

But I work in Health Care and have a very evidenced-based, scientific take on everything. Including matters related to Sexuality. I'm not a doctor, but I talk them all day long. And I do believe that everyone should take a stand against misinformation. There's gobs of it our world these days. We don't want scores of women believing they are missing out because their body doesn't produce and expel 1/2 cup of female mystery-cum like what their husbands are gawking at in Porn.

Have you ever actually been with a squirter or gusher?

ever conducted first hand research?

 

[LMWM321]

Have you ever actually been with a squirter or gusher?

ever conducted first hand research?

Yes, my wife has leaked urine during sex many many times, since the early days of our relationship. Gushing? ...No. What exactly do believe would be gushing?

 

[LMWM321]

I can't believe this thread is still going...Actually, I can. Here is a link which has more links to actual scientific articles.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36208324/

From the Abstract - authored by three women

"Female ejaculation follows orgasm. It consists of the orgasmic expulsion of a smaller quantity of whitish fluid produced by the female prostate. Squirting can be differentiated from female ejaculation because it is the orgasmic transurethral expulsion of a substantial amount of diluted urine during sexual activity, and it is not considered pathological."

 

[Wonderer67]

Yes, my wife has leaked urine during sex many many times, since the early days of our relationship. Gushing? ...No. What exactly do believe would be gushing?

It’s the same as squirting except my wife doesn’t squirt forcefully.

She gushes from direct contact of my cock against her gspot - especially in reverse cowgirl. It hits her just so that she gushes. Same when using a g spot vibrator.

 

[cdstefi]

Yes, my wife has leaked urine during sex many many times, since the early days of our relationship. Gushing? ...No. What exactly do believe would be gushing?

I can say categorically it's not leaking. When you have a woman so turned on that she keeps cumming over and over again, for hours if she has the stamina, demands more, and even more tender interludes quickly escalate into yet another arched-back, animalistic orgasm, soaking your fingers and spraying fluid all over the bed.

Not all women (or men apparently) want this, which is fine for them. But when you find a real multi-orgasmic squirting woman who can seemingly cum continuously it's intoxicating.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I am a routine squirter. It is usually a gush if his cock is in me.
Otherwise, it's a full squirt.

Two different men have experienced the fun of seeing me squirt from a front row seat.

Laying on the bed with my legs spread. One was fucking me with my vibrator. He pulled the vibe out and I started to squirt.
He tried to catch the spray in his mouth like I was a water fountain.

The second likes to watch his partner masturbate as part of foreplay. He had previously enjoyed eating me and drinking me for about 30 minutes.

This special time, he was laying also, and was looking right at my pussy when I started to cum.
He didn't try to catch the fluid. He had his mouth open and over my entire mound - clit to back of my slit. He loves it. And I love giving it to him.

 

[Noor]

It’s real, the amount varies, it can be person and situation dependent.
It can be messy, not something I aspire to, when it happens it means a clean up.

 

[LMWM321]

I can say categorically it's not leaking. When you have a woman so turned on that she keeps cumming over and over again, for hours if she has the stamina, demands more, and even more tender interludes quickly escalate into yet another arched-back, animalistic orgasm, soaking your fingers and spraying fluid all over the bed.

Not all women (or men apparently) want this, which is fine for them. But when you find a real multi-orgasmic squirting woman who can seemingly cum continuously it's intoxicating.

Did you read the abstract? Or any of the associated articles? And you do realize they were authored by research scientists, right? ..And they were women.

There's nothing you're describing above that disproves the fact that the "fluid spraying all over the bed" is mostly urine.

So what exactly do you think it is?

Again, there's nothing wrong with Squirting - it happens; but believing it's girl-cum, rather than urine, is misinformation and misinformation is harmful.

 

[cdstefi]

Did you read the abstract? Or any of the associated articles? And you do realize they were authored by research scientists, right? ..And they were women.

There's nothing you're describing above that disproves the fact that the "fluid spraying all over the bed" is mostly urine.

So what exactly do you think it is?

Again, there's nothing wrong with Squirting - it happens; but believing it's girl-cum, rather than urine, is misinformation and misinformation is harmful.

I'm not bothered what its chemical makeup is or where it comes from. It's the way it manifests. The act is not peeing

 

[Wonderer67]

It’s real, the amount varies, it can be person and situation dependent.
It can be messy, not something I aspire to, when it happens it means a clean up.

It takes some prep when we do reverse cowgirl or female superior.

Towels down!

 

[conoflex]

Yes it's very real , my wife gushes and its not urine ,that's a fact , it tastes same as pussy juice but lots of it , a good full mouthful will spurt out as she cums , soaking my fingers ,face or cock ,whatever is next to her pussy .
I drink as much of it as I can when she sits on my face its lovely .

 

[LMWM321]

ok, so now this has devolved from a serious discussion into yet another thread for guys to jerk-off to.

When will I learn?

 

[cdstefi]

The "Myth" is that it's some sort of mysterious lady cum of unknown origin that is synthesized and gushed only by a scant few women who are able to reach an exalted level of arousal. ..Yeah, that's a myth. It's pee and it's what happens when the muscles that control peeing are relaxed during sex.

Having experienced a considerable volume of squirts from my partner now, I can state a couple of things with some confidence.

It may well derive fluid from the same place as pee but it certainly isn't unadulterated pee. It's clear, not yellow. Doesn't smell like pee (I can't vouch for flavour as I've never drunk pee, not even my own ). And the biggest difference is slipperiness/lubricant quality. While it's certainly more liquid than the gel-like or creamy feel of "normal" lady discharge during sex, it's still slippery, like a very fluid lube.

Sorry for dragging this up again

 

[Bayzapper10]

How about answering the question by stating that it doesn’t matter where it comes from or what it is, if you find it hot, believe what you want? I know only three things: that it is very rare, it tastes different and I find it hot. My wife will cum “a copious amount” once or twice a year, almost always when I’m giving her oral and fingering her “G-spot” (another myth?), in a way that I can almost always bring her to orgasm. She will cum “hard”, usually pressing her thighs tight to my head, bearing down with all her might, so sure, I can totally accept that in this position and under the stimulation she is likely not in control of her bladder. But I believe that it isn’t completely urine either. First, it has a sweet taste and very silky feel, secondly, I know my wife’s bladder, and the volume is inconsistent with her pee’ing. For me, she “squirts while orgasming”, that’s all, the end, and I love it!

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From our weekend away couple weeks back …