Cock Talk

[hotoldrguy]

Wait... did I miss this?

yes, yes you did OP has a butthole thread

 

[hotwords229_A]

The trouble is, I'm a passive participant. The former relies on those litsters taking the time and effort to create the content. Which takes time and effort out of their lives.

I get this entirely. There is a small group of people who have disappeared from Lit that were so good at maintaining sexually exciting threads (and good, silly, funny chat) that I miss greatly and lived vicariously through.

 

[hotwords229_A]

yes, yes you did OP has a butthole thread

That’s Ordinary Person not Original Poster (for clarity).

 

[hotoldrguy]

That’s Ordinary Person not Original Poster (for clarity).

You know every time I see her mentioned as OP I still think original poster.

So I see you do not want to take credit for that thread

 

[Endless_Night]

I get this entirely. There is a small group of people who have disappeared from Lit that were so good at maintaining sexually exciting threads (and good, silly, funny chat) that I miss greatly and lived vicariously through.

Trekka. Suz. To mention a couple.

 

[SassySheDevil]

yes, yes you did OP has a butthole thread

Well shit. Who knew. I tend to stay out of threads where I know the majority doesn't really like me.

 

[hotoldrguy]

Well shit. Who knew. I tend to stay out of threads where I know the majority doesn't really like me.

You know you are loved by a lot of us

 

[MindYaBitness]

Get those two some beds. Stat! All I can hear are their squeaky computer chairs.

So, is jerking it at your computer the norm? I've done that once, and it wasn't nearly as fun. I've got a whole set up, so I can be comfy in bed, but my phone camera/screen are hands free. What do other people do?

 

[SassySheDevil]

You know you are loved by a lot of us

I do. That's why I love it here. Everyone just has fun. Answering questions like this is such a great way to get to know people.

 

[lavendersilk]

So, is jerking it at your computer the norm? I've done that once, and it wasn't nearly as fun. I've got a whole set up, so I can be comfy in bed, but my phone camera/screen are hands free. What do other people do?

I never use my computer, only my phone. My set up is probably exactly like yours.

 

[Endless_Night]

So, is jerking it at your computer the norm? I've done that once, and it wasn't nearly as fun. I've got a whole set up, so I can be comfy in bed, but my phone camera/screen are hands free. What do other people do?

Okay. I am curious. What do you mean by whole set up?

(This may be shocking, but I have no experience with video. )

 

[Endless_Night]

I never use my computer, only my phone. My set up is probably exactly like yours.

Well, dang it! This is one of those things everyone knows but me, isn't it?!

 

[MindYaBitness]

I never use my computer, only my phone. My set up is probably exactly like yours.

Okay. I am curious. What do you mean by whole set up?

(This may be shocking, but I have no experience with video. )

one thing I've discovered on Lit, is that I'm far more visual than I ever realized. Somewhere along the line I threw caution to the wind and dove in head first into camming. It takes a lot of time for me to get comfortable & trust someone enough to be vulnerable like that. However, once that trust is there, it's a no holds barred good time! If that's not part of things for you, that's awesome. You're probably able to maintain your anonymity, and stay a lot safer that way.

I have an esthetics lamp, similar to this. I just stick my phone to the underside of it, move it to the side of my bed. It's the perfect height for what the camera shows, but still close enough to enjoy what's on my screen.

 

[Endless_Night]

one thing I've discovered on Lit, is that I'm far more visual than I ever realized. Somewhere along the line I threw caution to the wind and dove in head first into camming. It takes a lot of time for me to get comfortable & trust someone enough to be vulnerable like that. However, once that trust is there, it's a no holds barred good time! If that's not part of things for, that's awesome. You're probably able to maintain your anonymity, and stay a lot safer that way.

Interesting. My experience has been the opposite. I've found visual is less important, and mental/emotional connection to be paramount. This is probably partly due to my particular kinks, and partly due to being naturally reserved. The combination makes me . . . even more reserved.

I have an esthetics lamp, similar to this. I just stick my phone to the underside of it, move it to the side of my bed. It's the perfect height for what the camera shows, but still close enough to enjoy what's on my screen.

Thank you! But - the link isn't opening for me.

 

[Neanderthal247]

Interesting. My experience has been the opposite. I've found visual is less important, and mental/emotional connection to be paramount. This is probably partly due to my particular kinks, and partly due to being naturally reserved. The combination makes me . . . even more reserved.

My preference, I'm in total agreement with you. I like that deep one on one mental connection, that surprises you out of nowhere and makes every word sexy.

I love having a piece of her no one else ( or very few ) have seen before, It makes it more personal to and for me. I'm trailing off, I'm possessive and want it to be for me only, making it special. I feel the mental and emotional makes it more personal and deep.

 

[hotwords229_A]

You know every time I see her mentioned as OP I still think original poster.

So I see you do not want to take credit for that thread

Don’t get me wrong, I love that there is a butthole thread, I would have it no other way.
Just credit where credit is due. Also, I don’t want butthole pics sent to my PM!

 

[Wand3rlust]

Don’t get me wrong, I love that there is a butthole thread, I would have it no other way.
Just credit where credit is due. Also, I don’t want butthole pics sent to my PM!

*deletes pm*

 

[Neanderthal247]

Don’t get me wrong, I love that there is a butthole thread, I would have it no other way.
Just credit where credit is due. Also, I don’t want butthole pics sent to my PM!

For me, depending on who's butthole

 

[hotwords229_A]

*deletes pm*

For further clarity, in-person buttholes are way better than photographed ones.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Interesting. My experience has been the opposite. I've found visual is less important, and mental/emotional connection to be paramount. This is probably partly due to my particular kinks, and partly due to being naturally reserved. The combination makes me . . . even more reserved.


Thank you! But - the link isn't opening for me.

Here ya go
https://i.ibb.co/39qysB9d/61v-3u-Lb-CML-AC-UF894-1000-QL80-FMwebp.webp

 

[MindYaBitness]

Don’t get me wrong, I love that there is a butthole thread, I would have it no other way.
Just credit where credit is due. Also, I don’t want butthole pics sent to my PM!

https://media1.giphy.com/media/cmm1d47AzjcQaUYIJR/giphy.gif?cid=6c09b9522fmrssevazzqqbacm5wimaufp18pg7n8fwqu2sfb&ep=v1_internal_gif_by_id&rid=giphy.gif&ct=g

 

[Endless_Night]

Don’t get me wrong, I love that there is a butthole thread, I would have it no other way.
Just credit where credit is due. Also, I don’t want butthole pics sent to my PM!

Wow. Wander off for half an hour and come back to this!

 

[Endless_Night]

My preference, I'm in total agreement with you. I like that deep one on one mental connection, that surprises you out of nowhere and makes every word sexy.

I love having a piece of her no one else ( or very few ) have seen before, It makes it more personal to and for me. I'm trailing off, I'm possessive and want it to be for me only, making it special. I feel the mental and emotional makes it more personal and deep.

I am not possessive generally speaking, but I am in submission. The emotional/mental build is an integral part of what lets me practice my kink, which requires me, a not very trusty person, to practice a lot of trust. It has to feel like what's happening is specific to me, personally.

(Whether it is or not is another matter. )

 

[Endless_Night]

Here ya go
https://i.ibb.co/39qysB9d/61v-3u-Lb-CML-AC-UF894-1000-QL80-FMwebp.webp

Huh. Wow. Thank You!

In no way was this what I was envisioning.

(Not that I'm really clear on what I was envisioning. )

 

[Neanderthal247]

I am not possessive generally speaking, but I am in submission. The emotional/mental build is an integral part of what lets me practice my kink, which requires me, a not very trusty person, to practice a lot of trust. It has to feel like what's happening is specific to me, personally.

(Whether it is or not is another matter. )

One moment they have you feeling like you're special to them, next moment you see them saying that to everyone. I'm thinking, that little whore