🌶️💃🏻🎸Brat House: Boobs, Bums and Bedlam🌶️💃🏻🎸

I've actually never been to a strip club. 🤷‍♂️ Had a couple friends marry strippers though...
Eh, not missing much. They can be fun, but mostly are pretty sad and pathetic. I accidentally dated a stripper. Most of the dancers I met would agree with me.

Drag clubs, on the other hand, are wonderful bundles of energy in my experience.
 
Is this a reality show for blind people to find true love? If they follow their voices, I'm going with 1/3 of the couples, rounding down.

Director of security and international compliance for a small defense contractor.


Woah... settle down, I've seen a little dancing from my little and she can definitely move it. 🫠




I've actually never been to a strip club. 🤷‍♂️ Had a couple friends marry strippers though...

Eh, not missing much. They can be fun, but mostly are pretty sad and pathetic. I accidentally dated a stripper. Most of the dancers I met would agree with me.

Drag clubs, on the other hand, are wonderful bundles of energy in my experience.
only time i have ever been to a strip club, my dad stopped at the one near our house on the early evening of my 21st birthday...we dropped like $300 in 30 mins...not an experience ive ever felt necessary to repeat despite the softest skin i have ever felt, haha. now if a couple ladies wanted to go, i would be happy to go with them and watch them get lap dances. 🤭
 
only time i have ever been to a strip club, my dad stopped at the one near our house on the early evening of my 21st birthday...we dropped like $300 in 30 mins...not an experience ive ever felt necessary to repeat despite the softest skin i have ever felt, haha. now if a couple ladies wanted to go, i would be happy to go with them and watch them get lap dances. 🤭
No.
 
only time i have ever been to a strip club, my dad stopped at the one near our house on the early evening of my 21st birthday...we dropped like $300 in 30 mins...not an experience ive ever felt necessary to repeat despite the softest skin i have ever felt, haha. now if a couple ladies wanted to go, i would be happy to go with them and watch them get lap dances. 🤭
Yeah, there can be a good energy, and ladies in the club is usually a fun night. But mostly it is guys spending a dollar at a time to have a pretty girl smile at them.

There are bars in Tokyo where you actually pay women to talk to you, just regular conversations. You can pay more to have more intimate conversations, like how you are feeling. Nothing sexual. Odd places.
 
Yeah, there can be a good energy, and ladies in the club is usually a fun night. But mostly it is guys spending a dollar at a time to have a pretty girl smile at them.

There are bars in Tokyo where you actually pay women to talk to you, just regular conversations. You can pay more to have more intimate conversations, like how you are feeling. Nothing sexual. Odd places.
They aren't odd. It's a very cultural thing going back a long time. So many people don't have time in their day for actual, human connection. It's a very different world.


Ah! You hit my nerd button on Japanese culture, and I have to shut myself up now.
 
They aren't odd. It's a very cultural thing going back a long time. So many people don't have time in their day for actual, human connection. It's a very different world.


Ah! You hit my nerd button on Japanese culture, and I have to shut myself up now.
A) nerd shit kept to under two paragraphs at a time is rad and never stop.

B) isolation and lack of connection is a very human problem. Capitalism and the modern world has exacerbated it but it’s always been a thing.

Cue the Boss

 
They aren't odd. It's a very cultural thing going back a long time. So many people don't have time in their day for actual, human connection. It's a very different world.


Ah! You hit my nerd button on Japanese culture, and I have to shut myself up now.
Let me clarify -- it seemed odd to me. Had a fantastic conversation about New York vs Tokyo punk, Camus, and ninja movies. Have no idea what it cost since I wasn't covering the bill.
 
Yeah, there can be a good energy, and ladies in the club is usually a fun night. But mostly it is guys spending a dollar at a time to have a pretty girl smile at them.

There are bars in Tokyo where you actually pay women to talk to you, just regular conversations. You can pay more to have more intimate conversations, like how you are feeling. Nothing sexual. Odd places.

They aren't odd. It's a very cultural thing going back a long time. So many people don't have time in their day for actual, human connection. It's a very different world.


Ah! You hit my nerd button on Japanese culture, and I have to shut myself up now.

A) nerd shit kept to under two paragraphs at a time is rad and never stop.

B) isolation and lack of connection is a very human problem. Capitalism and the modern world has exacerbated it but it’s always been a thing.

Cue the Boss

let me clarify this so that i dont seem cold. i dont judge anyone or any culture where this is a normal practice. i myself have just never paid for sex and certainly never paid to have a woman talk to me (other than a therapist). if the goal is connection, i have a strong need to feel wanted. i dont want someone there with me in any circumstance simply because they are being paid. if you dont want to be here, thats fine, im good...is all i meant.
 
let me clarify this so that i dont seem cold. i dont judge anyone or any culture where this is a normal practice. i myself have just never paid for sex and certainly never paid to have a woman talk to me (other than a therapist). if the goal is connection, i have a strong need to feel wanted. i dont want someone there with me in any circumstance simply because they are being paid. if you dont want to be here, thats fine, im good...is all i meant.
I don’t hink anyone was being cold. There’s no shame in sex work. There is shame in a lot of the social bullshit around sex work but not the work itself.

And connection is hard to find. I don’t have an issue with folks wanting the parasocial relationships that are becoming more and more common. I do have issue with a culture that rewards exploting such a need in what is too often one sided and harmful IMHO.
 
Eh, not missing much. They can be fun, but mostly are pretty sad and pathetic. I accidentally dated a stripper. Most of the dancers I met would agree with me.

Drag clubs, on the other hand, are wonderful bundles of energy in my experience.

only time i have ever been to a strip club, my dad stopped at the one near our house on the early evening of my 21st birthday...we dropped like $300 in 30 mins...not an experience ive ever felt necessary to repeat despite the softest skin i have ever felt, haha. now if a couple ladies wanted to go, i would be happy to go with them and watch them get lap dances. 🤭
I have zero interest in ever going to one. I equate it to going to a buffet, but not allowed to eat. What's the point? That is, if it's just me.

But, a group outing where women are going with us? Yeah, that could be fun. Not jonesing for it, but would participate.
 
Back
Top