actually this is just a question i had for other guys...

[40sBiCuckCple]

This really strikes a chord with me-beyond the physical sensations, I really LOVE to play the part and feel like a slut. I enjoy playing won't an older, married man and I think it's so sexy to do all of the things his wife doesn't do for him anymore. I love pleasing both men and women, but it's such a different dynamic when pleasing a man versus a woman

Very well stated and I’m in total agreement. It’s such an absolute turn on to have eye contacts with a man/boy I’m sucking off from pre orgasms all the way thru the after orgasm super tender cock head event. Cum kissing afterwards is just icing (pun intended) on the cake if he is willing/agreeable.

 

[40sBiCuckCple]

It`s the cock. It`s the balls. It`s the cum. It`s being on my knees. It`s the kink. Its just so much fun!

The being on my knees is so awesome, and so is keeping eye contact all thru his orgasms.

 

[Samantha47]

Very well stated and I’m in total agreement. It’s such an absolute turn on to have eye contacts with a man/boy I’m sucking off from pre orgasms all the way thru the after orgasm super tender cock head event. Cum kissing afterwards is just icing (pun intended) on the cake if he is willing/agreeable.

That's so sexy

 

[honestWithWifie]

There is something at my core that makes me crave men. I can't really explain it, but:

1) It's not porn. Porn is certainly entertaining, and I jerk off to online porn quite frequently. I suppose porn also gives me some comfort in knowing I'm not alone in my desires, that there is a community of men who enjoy men. It might even be fair to consider porn educational, in that it causes me to think of possibilities I haven't considered before.

But porn didn't cause my lust. The idea of gay porn was always repulsive to me, and I was perfectly content to indulge in the usual straight (and lesbian) porn, until something triggered a curiosity about men. In other words, the desire came first, and the porn came second.

2) It's not a lack of sex with my wife. If that were the problem, I wouldn't look for a man. I would try to hook up with a woman. But there is something in my makeup that makes me want cock.

3) The best explanation I have is that there is something primal in my makeup that drives me to cock. It's like a hunger, except I don't feel it in my belly. I feel it in my groin; it's an ache. When I feel the ache in my belly, I look for food. When I feel it in my groin, my mind turns to cock.
I was traveling on business last spring, planning to overnight in Atlanta, when I began to feel that ache. I tried to ignore it at first, telling myself I should just find dinner and call it a night. But the ache wouldn't go away. In fact, it kept growing. I finally gave in, found the address for a bathhouse, popped a boner pill and headed downtown, where I encountered a cock that still inspires dreams. God, it was big, both long and thick. I tried all night to take the whole thing down my throat.

Perhaps I failed to swallow that whole cock because I lack the experience, or maybe it was just too big. It doesn't really matter. Whatever the reason, I was enthralled. I'll never forget that big, beautiful cock.

My work is taking me to Dallas and Houston soon, and I'm beginning to feel that ache again.

I know the ache

 

[Samantha47]

I don't know what it is about man sex that draws me to it. It took forever for me to finally accept and take action on my desires, but it was there before porn.

Me too

 

[Phatfeet]

i'm wondering... so if i may...guys what is it that drives you, excites you and gives you the all powerful desire to meet with a male and suck his dick?

In one word? EXPLORATION!

It took a lot of thought to compile my motivations down to a single word, but it really is that for me. I was inquisitive, even years before in first tasting my own precum, then cum itself. Through it all I wondered why some women in my life loved giving a blowjob and some hated it. But what was it really like to give one? And could I handle it? A mouth full of cum that I was self-imposed to swallow down?

In that I explored.

I tried it.

I found out.

Of being naked and on my knees. Of keeping my teeth back and getting a mouthful and swallowing it down. Later in having a man deep in my core, and even kissing another man… passionately.

At first reading the question I wanted to say, “it is in pleasing another man”, and that is true. I do a lot to ensure the men like just what I do for them, but even in that, the motivation is exploration. Yes, with new men, but even with friends being given benefits, its always done a little differently and hopefully more pleasing then the time I did it before.

And while the outcome is pretty predictable because I am a man and thus figure if I like something, then probably he will too, there is no guarantee of that. And so, exploration is what drives me, of this whole other side of sex I never considered before.

I feel guilty.

I feel slutty.

I even feel used sometimes; but it is so new and different that it is intoxicating.

 

[SPARTAN047]

In one word? EXPLORATION!

It took a lot of thought to compile my motivations down to a single word, but it really is that for me. I was inquisitive, even years before in first tasting my own precum, then cum itself. Through it all I wondered why some women in my life loved giving a blowjob and some hated it. But what was it really like to give one? And could I handle it? A mouth full of cum that I was self-imposed to swallow down?

In that I explored.

I tried it.

I found out.

Of being naked and on my knees. Of keeping my teeth back and getting a mouthful and swallowing it down. Later in having a man deep in my core, and even kissing another man… passionately.

At first reading the question I wanted to say, “it is in pleasing another man”, and that is true. I do a lot to ensure the men like just what I do for them, but even in that, the motivation is exploration. Yes, with new men, but even with friends being given benefits, its always done a little differently and hopefully more pleasing then the time I did it before.

And while the outcome is pretty predictable because I am a man and thus figure if I like something, then probably he will too, there is no guarantee of that. And so, exploration is what drives me, of this whole other side of sex I never considered before.

I feel guilty.

I feel slutty.

I even feel used sometimes; but it is so new and different that it is intoxicating.

You said it. I loved practicing not using my teeth. It's tricky.

 

[SPARTAN047]

It really is

Yes. Putting your lips around your teeth and then suckling dicks can be done but it's very hard. I can't keep it up for long.

 

[Phatfeet]

Yes. Putting your lips around your teeth and then suckling dicks can be done but it's very hard. I can't keep it up for long.

I have to give credit to my ex-wife for this. She told me the secret to a great blowjob years ago when she told me her first boyfriend explained how to give one by covering your teeth with your lips at the same time retracting your teeth.. It is VERY hard to do, at least for any length of time but also feels good for whomever you are doing it for.

I can honestly say, I never thought I would join her someday in having advanced blowjob techniques but I guess here I am... exploring with my mouth!

 

[Swuchrow]

i'm wondering about others and feel there are probably those out there with similar situations. so if i may...guys what is it that drives you, excites you and gives you the all powerful desire to meet with a male and suck his dick? is it porn? lingerie? just the thought of it? for me as i told my friend who asked to jo me, i explained how his hand feeling me nude or in pantyhose, as he had witnessed aroused me to a good hard. i tried to explain to him how feeling and seeing a male stroke my dick made me want dick and wanted him to watch. he simply said that'd be alright. well just a cpl of weeks later while online with a male talking he asked what we were looking for. i told him my friend feeling me made me want dick and him watch. well he asked when could we be there. we arrived and found him at the door nude. he told me inside to strip but leave my pantyhose on and he wanted to see us do as we did. i sat between them with legs open as my friend began. in no time i was showing a good hard and his questions were endless. he joined in and i said to both it was all making me want to suck dick. he had a grape rubber he put on and asked will you let him and i watch you suck. i was on him right away and in just a few he was moaning, yelling, calling me names and after a minute he stopped me. he exclaimed motherfucker that bitch sucked me into an explosion. we left and on the way home i asked well? he said aw hell i liked it and the best part was seeing you get a hard in pantyhose as you sucked him. once he told me that i felt more at ease. it became more and more to let him or a male watch my mouth have sex with dicks. when i thought about it boom! that and the feel of pantyhose always cause me to have the urge. anybody? what takes you there? doing it and we stopped at a rest stop to suck him off.

I am an alpha during my daily life. To provide balance, I seek being sexually submissive to someone else. Being a bottom and submissive to a dominant male helps provide the balance to my alpha side. Being a sub bottom, I sign up to submit myself to a man that expects me to pleasure his cock orally and anally.

There is no emotional attraction to the dom man. The attraction is to be submissive sexually.

 

[Escierto]

When I first started sucking my girlfriend's cock, I was terrible. Literally I scratched her with my teeth and I felt so bad. I thought it would come naturally but it did not. For me the secret was forming my lips as though I was going to blow air and that seemed to work covering up my teeth. I had to practice a lot on my dildo between trips to visit her.

Now I don't even have to think about it and she says that I am the best that has ever sucked her cock and we are talking about more than fifty guys maybe more. Of course she could be just saying that but I don't think so. She has cum super hard from my sucking her and I always take her balls deep when she cums.

 

[P0peye]

When all is said and done, I think what motivates me the most are the intense, deliciously exciting feelings of humiliation, mortification and embarrassment that wash over me whenever I drop to my knees to take another man's cock into my mouth. I really love having an audience watching me and witnessing my degradation. It excites me to know that others know that I'm a "Cocksucker"!!!
As a teenager, I was my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker. He was the proud owner of a beautiful, HUGE cock, much bigger than my own pathetically small one, and for a number of years I would give him blowjobs whenever and wherever he told me to, usually every day and often two or more times that same day. He wanted me to agree to let him tell our friends that I was his Cocksucker so that he could invite them to join in our "sessions" and to take pictures of me sucking their cocks, just as he had taken pictures of me sucking his cock. I always refused, begging him, PLEASE, not to tell them, out of fear of it becoming known that I was the neighborhood Cocksucker. I was convinced that he would eventually tell everyone that I was his Cocksucker, in spite of my objections, but I would also secretly jerk off, imagining that he HAD told them, visualizing myself down on my knees, at the head of a line of our friends, sucking cock after cock, and swallowing all their cum with everyone watching and laughing at me. He never did tell them, but I often wished that he had.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I have to give credit to my ex-wife for this. She told me the secret to a great blowjob years ago when she told me her first boyfriend explained how to give one by covering your teeth with your lips at the same time retracting your teeth.. It is VERY hard to do, at least for any length of time but also feels good for whomever you are doing it for.

I can honestly say, I never thought I would join her someday in having advanced blowjob techniques but I guess here I am... exploring with my mouth!

She trained you well! I haven't managed to react my teeth but I'm doing okay.