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Me too as I am heading off shortly to get dinner......Nope ....
I'm staying right here ...
*Sits*
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Me too as I am heading off shortly to get dinner......Nope ....
I'm staying right here ...
*Sits*
I’m pretty sure the second one is Mutton Lettuce and Tomato…I don't know these acronyms.....![]()
Boo fucking you big babyits fine, he has been reported and @ToPleaseHim has been dm'ed...its only a matter of time before he is banned from Lit and has to create another email and user name. no idea why he has decided to come in here today and start shit, but i have faith it will be handled properly in time. ive been told not to report anymore, she is a good moderator and will read through the thread when she is home.
I don’t believe it is anyone in this thread’s decision on who will be banned from Lit.its fine, he has been reported and @ToPleaseHim has been dm'ed...its only a matter of time before he is banned from Lit and has to create another email and user name. no idea why he has decided to come in here today and start shit, but i have faith it will be handled properly in time. ive been told not to report anymore, she is a good moderator and will read through the thread when she is home.
*Lays*Me too as I am heading off shortly to get dinner......
So that's my problem?MTK and MLT are pretty simple to decode if you have been paying attention to the thread and profiles![]()
i have to strongly disagree with you...freedom of speech is not freedom from consequences...there is a HUGE difference between playful banter amoung friends and someone coming into a thread for the sole purpose of inciting arguments and personally attacking people. that this is your initial reaction troubles me greatly. he was given the benefit of the doubt and nicely asked to change his behavior and he doubled down. how many people have him on ignore? this should be a clear red flag. i hope you will do the right thing, but if not, i have to ask the question if there is someone the situation can be escalated to. ignore is not the answer, its not even a block...they can still see messages and interact in the thread. the goal should be to create a safe and friendly environment for everyone. allowing this kind of behavior would be extremely disappointing.I don’t believe it is anyone in this thread’s decision on who will be banned from Lit.
I was reading the thread earlier and have just logged back on. I will go check the thread, but my immediate advice is to use the ignore feature. Him using the word “skank” to refer to a gif is not a violation of the rules. But after he did that several people were telling him he needed to apologize. They also were calling people “creepy” and “bitches.” I’m not down with hypocritical behavior or taking sides, but if people would stop trying to police others non-rules-violating behavior and just put people on ignore, they would likely find the place more enjoyable.
You’ll live. Maybe I will be banned. Your cyberlife will go on.i strongly disagree with you.
Okay, where is the line? Do I ask Laurel to ban everyone who name called in this thread today?i have to strongly disagree with you...freedom of speech is not freedom from consequences...there is a HUGE difference between playful banter amoung friends and someone coming into a thread for the sole purpose of inciting arguments and personally attacking people. that this is your initial reaction troubles me greatly. he was given the benefit of the doubt and nicely asked to change his behavior and he doubled down. how many people have him on ignore? this should be a clear red flag. i hope you will do the right thing, but if not, i have to ask the question if there is someone the situation can be escalated to. ignore is not the answer, its not even a block...they can still see messages and interact in the thread. the goal should be to create a safe and friendly environment for everyone. allowing this kind of behavior would be extremely disappointing.
isn’t decoding fun?MTK and MLT are pretty simple to decode if you have been paying attention to the thread and profiles![]()
I would agree, however I haven't been on the past few days and haven't gone back to those...
@Fiestykitten I think you were asking, too. I could be wrong but the thread was moving fast trying to catch up.I don't know these acronyms.....![]()
You two are adorableisn’t decoding fun?
@Fiestykitten I think you were asking, too. I could be wrong but the thread was moving fast trying to catch up.
So NMK has nothing to do with me. It means Not My Kink
MLT and MTK are acronyms that @MischiefMakerAlways and I use for each other.
He calls me My Little Treasure and I call him My Treasure Keeper. We’ve shortened it to have a little code amongst ourselves and just for shorthand purposes.
But all of our favorite friends are starting to pick up on it!
We love you all!![]()
I actually had no idea that was a real person, but this is a sex site where terms like choked out and bitch and daddy and lil are used with little regard. Get over yourself. Really.I will preempt this by saying that I don't care about policing someone's behavior, especially on forums. Ignore is what I do as far as possible.
Now for the points you raised, he did not use "skank" to refer to a gif, but to an actual person. That gif was not some generic gif from the internet, but one that had a member of this thread in it and was created by her.
People who were calling each other "creepy" and "bitches" have known each other for quite some time, are regular participants on this thread and understand that those were just used in jest. It is different when a stranger pops in and starts shitting all over without any introductions or taking the time to get to know the others and vice versa. These things were clearly communicated to the new person on the thread.
So I strongly disagree that anyone was being hypocritical.
Listen punk.nmk is not my kink
mlt is mischiefs name for sammy
mtk is sammys name for mischief
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Hi, Welcome to the Brat House. We are more than just tittiesalthough those do get posted on occasion. We are very welcoming to all who want to play and don't mind that it's more bedlam in here than anything else
I noticed a bit of a misunderstanding with the language that was used. "Skank" is one of those words that, as you said, works with the people that know you. As we get to know you and your personality in here, if you choose to hang with us, I'm sure we will understand that it's simply meant in jest and good-natured fun. But, when you drop that word, without the vocal tones that allow for that kind of humorous understanding, it can create the discourse that seemed to appear in here.
"Bitch" is that word for me. I won't call someone that until they know me better, so they know I don't actually mean it the way most intend. I don't think you're a bad person or meant anything the way it was taken, but we have to remember not every thread is the same. We want this to feel like a safe space for everyone, including yourself.
If you stay and play, I know I look forward to getting to know your personality and how it will weave into the mayhem of this thread. Even when something is accidentally offensive though, it doesn't hurt to give an apology. We have some sensitive hearts in hereand like I said, we want it to feel safe for everyone.
Alright, we all need to stop, myself included. We are better than picking fights on a thread.![]()
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There is only one way to stop this guys.
No matter how provocative his posts
DO NOT RESPOND
It will deprive him of his attention seeking whoreness and he will eventually fade away.
Okay, where is the line? Do I ask Laurel to ban everyone who name called in this thread today?
Be disappointed. I’m fucking disappointed.
Further, I’m seeing that the gif was of the person who actually posted it. Understand that there is no way to know that unless you know the person or follow their posts close enough to know that. I would never have guessed that was the person posting. But, did someone say “Hey, not cool. That’s actually the Litster in the image.”? No, folks responded in-kind.
So, I can remove all of the posts or none of the posts. But I won’t be recommending anyone get banned. Feel free to take it up with the powers that be.
literally did EXACTLY THAT and he continued and doubled down...imo the job of a moderator is to know where that line is and do the right thing. so im asking you, where is the line? if i chose to respond to him in the manner in which i would like am i not going to receive any discipline either? because i would be happy to let my feelings be known, rather than have a rational and civil conversation about it. while this is all rhetorical at this point because you say you wont do anything about it, i could not be more disappointed.ok, now youre going too far and i need to ask you to stop. the person in that gif is a valued, respected, and loved member of both this thread and Lit. i gave you the benefit of the doubt because i've seen you in other thread and understand its part of your personality. at this point if youre joking, no one can tell. this thread may not be the place for you. refrain from personal attacks and get along or you will be reported. it doesnt have to be this way, but you have gone way beyond the boundaries now. so please, chill.
Thank you for your efforts! However, we are brats and will not be thwarted by a ... by someone. I fully intend to continue being my bratty self and I put the person that insulted me on ignore within a page of that occurring. So.... back to our regularly unscheduled brat-foolery.sorry the vibe has been killed guys...the only current recourse is to put him on ignore unfortunately. i hope everyone can put this unfortunate situation behind them and move on.
We don't need to see how you spend your "you time"I think it is a good time to sit down for some self reflection
Didn't anybody take Civics Classes in school?i have to strongly disagree with you...freedom of speech is not freedom from consequences...there is a HUGE difference ..
Just a little jackinghttps://media.tenor.com/SRGGZSgz1vMAAAA1/boosting-service-boosting.webpWe don't need to see how you spend your "you time"
my degree is in american politics and law, what is yours in? assuming you meant to be contradictory, as i took your question to be.Didn't anybody take Civics Classes in school?