Why is Phone/Voice sex on the decline?

[amigayorbi]

I have brought this up earlier but the thrill of voice/phone conversations with a stranger as you get to know each other and become intimate, is just another dimension of excitement and pleasure.

Why is it on the decline here on Lit? Anyone care to shed some light?

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I find phone play to be a huge turn on. I always cum so hard!

 

[regina75]

yes it is but a lot of people dont want to share phone numbers i do to the right person
phone is much better than have to keep on typing

 

[amigayorbi]

yes it is but a lot of people dont want to share phone numbers i do to the right person
phone is much better than have to keep on typing

We have telegram, Skype etc where your privacy is intact?

 

[FreckledSprite]

Is it on decline? It’s still my favorite way to interact with an online friend.

 

[amigayorbi]

Is it on decline? It’s still my favorite way to interact with an online friend.

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[Britva415]

Phone/voice calls altogether are on the decline. Nobody talks on the phone anymore.

This goes for the voice apps, too. It's the medium, not the channel, I'm talking about. Voice is more work and exposure and less convenient than text, but not as much payoff as video, so, it has no advantages or compelling reason for a lot of people to do it in 2025.

 

[Pabiporffor]

Because it's crap. Most men have the linguistical skills of a baboon with it's tongue stuck in a bee hive. After 30 seconds they run out of ideas what to say and you can almost hear them flicking through the thesaurus searching for another word for thrusting.

 

[amigayorbi]

Because it's crap. Most men have the linguistical skills of a baboon with it's tongue stuck in a bee hive. After 30 seconds they run out of ideas what to say and you can almost hear them flicking through the thesaurus searching for another word for thrusting.

I get where you are coming from. A conversation needs to be build and you can't be thinking with your tool all the time! But there are classy men too!

 

[cdstefi]

I used to enjoy it years ago when I was on the dating sites between marriages. Apparently my phone voice was sexy (I cannot stand my voice when I hear it recorded, so maybe it was more what I was saying than how it sounded).

There was definitely something about knowing someone on the other end was masturbating and you were kind of driving it, and hearing them cum.

 

[J D Danger]

I have had some very hot phone sex and to be honest I kind of miss it

 

[jdh276]

I still love to have phone sex. Just trying to find a partner is more difficult. I can carry the conversation and have been told I have a good voice for it. Hearing your partners moans as you talk is such a turn on .

 

[amigayorbi]

Apparently, more men still like it but I would love to hear the women's point of view, like the one stated above.

 

[FreckledSprite]

Because it's crap. Most men have the linguistical skills of a baboon with it's tongue stuck in a bee hive. After 30 seconds they run out of ideas what to say and you can almost hear them flicking through the thesaurus searching for another word for thrusting.

I’ve often only made the phonecall or video call once I was ready to fall over the edge. Because, yes, men aren’t always great at helping turn that corner.

I guess I could clarify how I don’t enjoy men who do low effort mutual masturbation calls where it’s just them moaning.

I do appreciate men who are very descriptive and know how to walk a partner all the way through their orgasm. Those are the ones to be treasured.

 

[jdh276]

I’ve often only made the phonecall or video call once I was ready to fall over the edge. Because, yes, men aren’t always great at helping turn that corner.

I guess I could clarify how I don’t enjoy men who do low effort mutual masturbation calls where it’s just them moaning.

I do appreciate men who are very descriptive and know how to walk a partner all the way through their orgasm. Those are the ones to be treasured.

I normally will slow play with myself so that I can be sure to get my partner off. It's more fun to build it up than to just go fast

 

[J D Danger]

ok I will admit to using the word fuck alot in the call but I like to think I was very creative back in the day

you are right though I would much rather hear a woman moan then leave her listening to me do so

 

[amigayorbi]

For me it's about hearing and helping my partner get there. Once, I was able to make her cum 3 times with breaks over a couple of hours. But I still remember her moans as she came every time!

 

[learninggirl]

Typing out moans is not nearly as good as actually hearing them, and there aren't always words for every second. I love written sex, but voice can be delicious if there is compatibility.

 

[Jimmy119_190]

I think an added reason for a lack of phone interaction on here are the number of fake profiles.

Being on the phone (or a video call) makes it pretty hard to keep up the pretence!

 

[Jimmy119_190]

I’ve had some great times on the phone over the years

I once spent far too long on the phone at work one day, mainly hiding in my car or walking around the car park, whilst my playmate on the other end came 13 times!

She had quite the appetite that day!

 

[Bi4Older84]

In my opinion, there are two major problems-the first being supply and demand and the second being quality partners.

As with everything else in the Internet, there is always a premium of women who are available and willing to engage with guys for phone sex. Whether it be for safety reasons or being overwhelmed by the ratio of men to women, it's probably more trouble than it's worth for most women. Even for someone who is bi (like myself), it takes effort and work to establish the type of chemistry with a man or woman that would get me on the phone with them.

The second problem is that there are a lot of people who are just not very good at phone sex. There is a time and place for lots of moaning and mutual masturbation on the phone, but keeping someone engaged and involved is difficult. There are a lot of very smart and creative people who can think of enticing situations and descriptions given a good amount of time, but it's can be more difficult in real time.

I wish more people were into aural sex-it can be really hot. It may not have the immediate visual reward of camming, but it can provide for a very hot build up and release. It is just really hard to find a good partner, and when you do, I feel like a lot of people will keep a hold on a good phone sex partner.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Typing out moans is not nearly as good as actually hearing them, and there aren't always words for every second. I love written sex, but voice can be delicious if there is compatibility.

Mmmm… cum to daddy!

 

[ProdigalTrollop]

People who are not good at phone sex are usually not good at texting either. You need imagination, and more importantly, you need to listen to your partner and interact with them.

 

[GreatWhiteCock]

I love phone sex. Some of the best orgasms of my life happened with a sexy voice on the phone

 

[hot hugo]

Typing out moans is not nearly as good as actually hearing them, and there aren't always words for every second. I love written sex, but voice can be delicious if there is compatibility.

I so much agree with every single word you write…

I’m just afraid your inbox will explode after this message. Although I’m tempted to drop you a message too