Humiliation?

I’ve never done that exact scenario but something similar. My wife likes to take video clips and I would alway get pings of humiliation when I’d hear the chirp of her phone when she presses record. Her new phone doesn’t make that sound. But the sight of her pointing her camera or her telling me to hold still so my cum doesn’t roll off my face works the same.

What things that you do does your wife take pictures of. Does your wife show them to any of her friends? Do they say anything.
 
What things that you do does your wife take pictures of. Does your wife show them to any of her friends? Do they say anything.

My wife has pretty much taken picture or video clip of most everything. That would be a long list to write. She has shown some of her friends some on purpose and not. A example would be sometimes she will text me pictures during the day, they usually are of her boobs or of a clip of something she’s doing to me. She has a iPhone and a iPad and she had texted me from her iPad then deleted the photo. A friend of hers came over for dinner and my wife was cooking and asked her friend to text me to pick up something from the store. Well on iPhones and iPads if you delete it from your texts it only delete’s it from that device not the others connected to your ID. So when her friend opened my wife’s iPhone and texted me there was the video. In the video My wive is pegging me missionary, now you can’t see anything except me from the belly button up. So her friend just sees me in nipple clamp, but it’s the audio that embarrassed. And how I found out was in the middle of dinner the friend looks at me and says how do you like those nipple clamps, I like them I have the same ones.
 
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My wife has pretty much taken picture or video clip of most everything. That would be a long list to write. She has shown some of her friends some on purpose and not. A example would be sometimes she will text me pictures during the day, they usually are of her boobs or of a clip of something she’s doing to me. She has a iPhone and a iPad and she had texted me from her iPad then deleted the photo. A friend of hers came over for dinner and my wife was cooking and asked her friend to text me to pick up something from the store. Well on iPhones and iPads if you delete it from your texts it only delete’s it from that device not the others connected to your ID. So when her friend opened my wife’s iPhone and texted me there was the video. In the video My wive is pegging me missionary, now you can’t see anything except me from the belly button up. So her friend just sees me in nipple clamp, but it’s the audio that embarrassed. And how I found out was in the middle of dinner the friend looks at me and says how do you like those nipple clamps, I like them I have the same ones.
How did that make you feel.
 
How did that make you feel.

It made me feel oddly erotic. My wife has a group of friends and they are diverse. I imagine they all know quite a bit. Some of them are more outspoken than others. Sometimes they will ask me questions. She has one friend that talks to me a lot but she’s always monotone and I can’t read her. She’s the one I have the hardest time talking to. She’s a therapist and is kinda erotically humiliating talking to her cause I don’t know what she thinks.
 
It made me feel oddly erotic. My wife has a group of friends and they are diverse. I imagine they all know quite a bit. Some of them are more outspoken than others. Sometimes they will ask me questions. She has one friend that talks to me a lot but she’s always monotone and I can’t read her. She’s the one I have the hardest time talking to. She’s a therapist and is kinda erotically humiliating talking to her cause I don’t know what she thinks.

What do they talk to you about. Do you think she’s talking to you in a counseling type of way.
 
We got turned out by our bull at the casino not far from here. I was wearing panties and a pair of her shorts to show off my shaved sissy legs. She had on a fairly short dress and never wore panties or bra when we went to see him. We would meet him at the main door by Chili's and go to the room. Usually we just had a few hours but this time we could spend the night with him. Instead of going to the room he took us to one of the bars there. Me and her had matching wedding bands. She sat right beside him on one side of the table and me on the other side. A few guys came by and i knew I was getting the eagle eye. One guy asked if he could sit with us. I guess he seen our wedding bands and figured out what was going on. He asked if me and her was married. I said yes and he smiled real big. And put his hand on my leg. then ran his his finger up my shorts and felt my panties. He asked them if I was available. Our bull said yes she is, or we could all go up to his room and he could have both of us. That was a wild night. We only had one bed so I eventually went back to his room with him. After that our bull would take us out on the casino floor. i knew we would run into someone we knew. It was my wife's brother first. He said sis what is going on. She just told him we were having fun. Now the whole family knows and a lot of others. Most have been ok with it though. Just recently her cousins daughter married another girl. Some have found that a little harder but are getting along with that too.
 
Humiliation isn't my primary fetish, but it sure is one of them.

What matters to me, however, is that it must be real. No roleplay humiliation. No scripted scenes in which I am told what I want to hear and then am "supposed" to find humiliating. None of that! I want to feel true humiliation. The kind of experiences that make you want to crawl into a hole in the ground, that keep you awake the night after they happened, that still make you cringe when you are reminded of them years later.
 
Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

today i had a bikini barista (as she made me an espresso) let me know she remembers me and how tiny my penis is. she told me other guys are showing their dicks but she doesnt want to see mine as its so small and not worth her time. so many other teases and tiny penis insults. i had cum running down my leg by the time i pulled away 4 minutes later.
 
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I told my former partner about finding my tenant's panties stuck to the inside of the clothes washer. Instead of leave the panties or setting those on the counter, I took the item for myself. My partner got upset and told me to return the item to her. So I did just that. It was really humiliating because I had already pleasured myself with the said panties. She wasn't too amused to be handed her underwear
 
Humiliation is definitely my primary "kink". I would say most of the kinky things I fantasize about have that element of making me feel embarrassed. For me, specifically, it's kind of the mixing of body shaming and objectification that get to me. The idea of put on display or exposed whether I "want it or not" is very erotic to me. It's not that I want people to see me naked, or anything like that, it's more that in that moment I am seen as a sexual object. Objectified. A feeling that I try to hide from most of the rest of my life. Couple that with learning relatively late in life that body shaming can be an intensely strong feeling, yeah fantasies involving exhibitionism and being seen all hit those buttons.

So when I fantasize about being tied up, for instance, it's really more about not being able to hide myself, and less so about the immobility.
 
So when I fantasize about being tied up, for instance, it's really more about not being able to hide myself, and less so about the immobility.

I know that feeling... Well, I also want to be tied up or chained just for the feeling of being restrained and I do like being kept in a dark dungeon, but not being able to hide, despite desperately wanting to do just that, is a major turn on for me, because of the feeling of true humiliation. It's why I would like being displayed/sold at auction once, or why I'd like to be kept as a naked prisoner together with others who are complete strangers. Neither of those events is likely to ever get beyond fantasy for me, sadly, but one can always dream...

Fortunately, I was already – and surely will again – forced to live this feeling in another – albeit too limited – way. Not far from where I live, there's a flying club. When the weather is nice, it is not uncommon for small airplanes to pass close to or directly fly over my fully enclosed garden at low altitudes. On multiple occasions, I've ended up restrained naked in the garden, unable to hide, and I'm sure that I've been spotted a few times already. The experience is always the same: I'm forced into it, and until I actually hear an airplane approaching, I want to be seen. But when one does, I start hoping it will not get close, and when it seems that it will, I panic and want to hide, which I can't. I love it.
 
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Humiliation is definitely my primary "kink". I would say most of the kinky things I fantasize about have that element of making me feel embarrassed. For me, specifically, it's kind of the mixing of body shaming and objectification that get to me. The idea of put on display or exposed whether I "want it or not" is very erotic to me. It's not that I want people to see me naked, or anything like that, it's more that in that moment I am seen as a sexual object. Objectified. A feeling that I try to hide from most of the rest of my life. Couple that with learning relatively late in life that body shaming can be an intensely strong feeling, yeah fantasies involving exhibitionism and being seen all hit those buttons.

So when I fantasize about being tied up, for instance, it's really more about not being able to hide myself, and less so about the immobility.
Totally understand.
 
Humiliation is definitely my primary "kink". I would say most of the kinky things I fantasize about have that element of making me feel embarrassed. For me, specifically, it's kind of the mixing of body shaming and objectification that get to me. The idea of put on display or exposed whether I "want it or not" is very erotic to me. It's not that I want people to see me naked, or anything like that, it's more that in that moment I am seen as a sexual object. Objectified. A feeling that I try to hide from most of the rest of my life. Couple that with learning relatively late in life that body shaming can be an intensely strong feeling, yeah fantasies involving exhibitionism and being seen all hit those buttons.

So when I fantasize about being tied up, for instance, it's really more about not being able to hide myself, and less so about the immobility.
This. Exactly this! This is how I feel. It's not about mobility as much, unless it enhances the feeling of being objectified and used. 💕 Thank you for sharing.
 
There's something so visceral and exciting about verbal and physical humiliation. Being called names or being spat on, it can be utterly electric. So taboo and degrading in such an exciting way..
 
Humiliation is definitely my primary "kink". I would say most of the kinky things I fantasize about have that element of making me feel embarrassed. For me, specifically, it's kind of the mixing of body shaming and objectification that get to me. The idea of put on display or exposed whether I "want it or not" is very erotic to me. It's not that I want people to see me naked, or anything like that, it's more that in that moment I am seen as a sexual object. Objectified. A feeling that I try to hide from most of the rest of my life. Couple that with learning relatively late in life that body shaming can be an intensely strong feeling, yeah fantasies involving exhibitionism and being seen all hit those buttons.

So when I fantasize about being tied up, for instance, it's really more about not being able to hide myself, and less so about the immobility.
Great and insightful reply.
 
Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?
I never understood humiliation, or how it was sexual until it happened to me. One time when my male friends were over my wife came into the room with a full enema bag and said it was time for your enema.
She led me out of the room with my friends laughing. I experienced overwhelming humiliation and at the same time I was sexually aroused.
The next day was teased by the guys who were there. I got hard again. Humiliation isn't something you can plan, I think it's more of a surprise / spontaneous thing. It was a different and new experience, Andi am willing for more.
 
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I have no desire to be insulted or intentionally denigrated, but I do get very turned on by what I consider "situational" humiliation, being observed performing sexual acts on others. As a teenager, I served as my best friend's personal cocksucker, and he used to threaten to tell our friends about me and invite them to attend our sessions so that I would have to blow them also. I would beg him not to tell them, but I would fantasize that he had told them and imagine myself on my knees at the head of a line of our friends, sucking cock after cock and swallowing all their cum as everyone stood around, watching me and laughing at me. He never did tell them, but I often wish that he had. Ever since then, I find the prospect of discovery that I'm a Cocksucker and exposure to be highly arousing and exciting.
 
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