As a Bi, Which Gender Do You Prefer?

I would have to say in my earlier days I loved guys so much wanting to please and be pleased by them, then I also had times when a girls warm pussy felt like that was all I wanted. Nowadays I have to admit that if it was just about pure carnal sex I would prefer a guy with a nice hard cock, if it was more about intimacy then I could go either way depending on the person.
 
Recently bi but still primarily attracted to females. I like their complete package. Only attracted to a guys junk. No explanation for it. That’s just how it happened
Same here. Women, pretty much any age 25-60, shape/size/colour etc I want to be with, explore, love and adore.

Men? Just two holes to fuck and a cock to play with. And even then, I'm picky.
 
I'm married to a wonderful woman who is the love of my life and women have always been my default sexual interest, but as a teenager, my initial sexual encounter was with my best friend Larry. For a number of years, I served as his eager and insatiable personal cocksucker and would give him blowjobs whenever and wherever he told me to. He taught me to love being very roughly throat fucked, a practice that I engage in to this day whenever the opportunity presents itself.
 
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I have always been bi. Sex with either male or female can be awesome! I prefer women and will probably always have a relationship with a woman, but every now and again, I just need to feel of a hard cock and a chance to suck on it!
 
For me, it's one of those 'it depends ' answer.
Guys are fun. So, when I'm in the mood for some playfull ' fun sex' I'll get together with one of my guy friends. I mean sometimes a girl just needs a good fun fuck. 😃
But, when I'm in the mood for some slow tender loving it's one of my bi girlfriends. In my opinion only a woman knows how to make love to another woman.
Or maybe it's just me. 😉
Do you have a preference for real cock or faux?
 
I have never had any interest or attraction to men and I still don't. However the first time I met a trans woman (virtually on cam), I knew that I wanted her cock on a visceral level. It took me at least a decade to act on these desires but once I did, I never looked back. I have been with my trans girlfriend for over five years and it's been great!
Like you, I'm not at all attracted to men, just their hard cock. I've never been to a glory hole, the anonimity is appealing, but I have to have some trust in a person before I suck their dick. My prefference is for that hard dick to be on a hot female body. If that hard dick female is Asian and DOMINANT like your gf, that is as good as it gets. Consider me one of the many living vicariously through you. Enjoy!
 
Like you, I'm not at all attracted to men, just their hard cock. I've never been to a glory hole, the anonimity is appealing, but I have to have some trust in a person before I suck their dick. My prefference is for that hard dick to be on a hot female body. If that hard dick female is Asian and DOMINANT like your gf, that is as good as it gets. Consider me one of the many living vicariously through you. Enjoy!
As I keep telling everyone, there are hundreds of thousands of Filipina trans women, most of whom speak English and most of whom do not have partners. I have been to the Philippines numerous times for extended periods and while it is a Third World country, it is a cool place to hang out.
 
I think I'll choose not to choose, at least for now.

I've spent most my life identifying as straight. I was so straight, I couldn't bear any physical contact with men other than to shake hands. On the rare occasion that I hugged a buddy, well, it just felt creepy.

Then one day, for reasons I have yet to understand, I began to evolve.

The evolution seems to have started with obsessing on how a man could ever enjoy sex with another man. Not in the sense of being homophobic; I've never been offended by gay men. I was simply puzzled that a man could find pleasure in sucking a cock or being fucked in the ass. Wondering how that could be. It just didn't seem to make sense.

Then one day, the puzzlement turned into a kind of curiosity, a curiosity that began to gradually accelerate further and further. It accelerated until I was driven (both emotionally and by Lyft) to a bathhouse to suck my first cock. It was a revelation, and I have craved cock ever since.

But never has my interest in women waned. Women are just too beautiful to be ignored -- their breasts, their hips, their legs, their eyes, their lips, everything about them.

The question, I suppose, is whether my evolution is complete. Will I find one day that I prefer men? Or might I decide that I really want women? What would happen if I were no longer married? Would men become my dominant interest? Or would I revert to just loving women?

I really don't know. I only know that change is constant. Time will tell.
 
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