BrendaBear
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🌶️💃🏻🎸Brat House: Boobs, Bums and Bedlam🌶️💃🏻🎸
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Chloe_Harper
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I don't know what you mean
MissLabelled
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Chloe_Harper
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I. Did. Not. Notice.
BrendaBear
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I didn't notice that... my brain moves faster than my fingers and leave out words all the time. And I never mean to.
But... I love that one! Thanks for pointing it out!
BrendaBear
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Okay... I've got a @crazychemgirl type question for you. I'm not posting this in Shenanigans because that's her house, and I don't want to infringe on her and two... this question is really about doms and subbies which is super prevalent here.
If you were to go out and find someone to spend your life with, would you settle for someone who was wonderful but not into the D/s thing at all, or would you hold out to find someone who can be that for you?
My answer? I'm holding out. I lived the hiding it and don't want that anymore. So.... what say you??
If you were to go out and find someone to spend your life with, would you settle for someone who was wonderful but not into the D/s thing at all, or would you hold out to find someone who can be that for you?
My answer? I'm holding out. I lived the hiding it and don't want that anymore. So.... what say you??
Chloe_Harper
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crazychemgirl
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You could have asked that in S&S babes … it’s a free for all in there.. you know that
To answer you question … I don’t think I could live a fully vanilla lifestyle … I like a little power play in my life.
Hornymwtxn
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I don't even know you but if BB Riff endorsed ya......
Chloe_Harper
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Oh, this question really hits home for me in a different way from your situation.
I always thought I would settle. I thought "no one can have it all. No one can fulfill every need." I've been realizing that that just isn't true at all.
You can have both. Someone wonderful who also fulfills every D/s or other kinky need. They aren't something you should have to table and only dream about. It sounds selfish, but it's good to be selfish sometimes.
BrendaBear
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Oh good!!! Thank you!You could have asked that in S&S babes … it’s a free for all in there.. you know that
To answer you question … I don’t think I could live a fully vanilla lifestyle … I like a little power play in my life.
TXRafe
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if you had asked me that 6 months ago before Lit, i definitely would have chosen someone wonderful. my time and experiences and connections here have shown me there was something in my life that was missing. while most of my needs could be fulfilled by a "vanilla" relationship, the utter bliss and satisfaction that comes from being a nurturer, protector, and pleaser would be too hard to give up. i didnt know that i needed it, but i do. just being my authentic self and having the raw dom that comes out of me and feeling and experiencing the pleasure of my partner when it comes out is maybe the most satisfying experience i have ever had.
Hornymwtxn
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Is this open to "regular" guys?
Yeah yeah hush...
I would "settle" for somebody wonderful.
Don't let perfect ruin wonderful.
Fiestykitten
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I'm holding out for the lifestyle I want.
Got to figure out what makes you truly happy and go with that.
UnquietDreams
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When Harry Fucked Sally.
Kind of self-explanatory, but the orgasms are still faked.
The Long Fuck Goodnight.
Amnesiac Samantha has been living an idyllic life, other than the fact she can't remember who she was before seven years ago. She has hired private investigator Mitch to find her secrets. Then she is in a car accident, and suddenly can do things with a dildo that no, not even a chef should be able to do. Suddenly, people are coming after Sam, and she has to flee to find the truth. Can Sam and Mitch eventually find a long fuck goodnight?
Cuddlefucking will never be the same again.
(Actually a lot of lines from this movie would work just the way they are. "I will see to it you will spend the next ten years in prison getting ass fucked. And if the case is thrown out because my arrest was too violent, I will personally hire men to ass fuck you for the next ten years. So, if you're an ass fucking fan, you go ahead and mouth off."
And I love this movie.)
Kind of self-explanatory, but the orgasms are still faked.
The Long Fuck Goodnight.
Amnesiac Samantha has been living an idyllic life, other than the fact she can't remember who she was before seven years ago. She has hired private investigator Mitch to find her secrets. Then she is in a car accident, and suddenly can do things with a dildo that no, not even a chef should be able to do. Suddenly, people are coming after Sam, and she has to flee to find the truth. Can Sam and Mitch eventually find a long fuck goodnight?
Cuddlefucking will never be the same again.
(Actually a lot of lines from this movie would work just the way they are. "I will see to it you will spend the next ten years in prison getting ass fucked. And if the case is thrown out because my arrest was too violent, I will personally hire men to ass fuck you for the next ten years. So, if you're an ass fucking fan, you go ahead and mouth off."
And I love this movie.)
Sammysub07
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Nope wouldn’t go for settling again. Did it for 18 years and know that I can have it all. I work hard professionally, I give my all to my kiddos, I deserve to be happy with exactly what I know I want!
BrendaBear
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Well, sure you would. You aren't giving anything up. You and I have talked about this... we aren't like this because one day we said "I want to be a subbie!" That's not how this works. And if someone one day decided "I want to be a dom!" that kind of means... they aren't a dom at all. That just isn't how all this works.
And for us, to be in a relationship where we have to deny that part of ourselves (which is a big part of us), that is really a huge sacrifice. And frankly... the vanillas don't understand that because they don't feel it. Sorry.
Hornymwtxn
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No need to apologize at all.
But if that wonderful person was truly wonderful and couldn't provide then maybe they could provide a 3rd person to fulfill that role.
Just like you I ain't apologizing for who I am, how vanilla I am.
BrendaBear
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I absolutely love this answer!!! And I am so on the same page!!!
I know.. shocking.
BrendaBear
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SmokingFap
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I'm a strong believer in never letting the perfect become the enemy of the good. I only need a partner who's compatible and accepting of a couple specific desires and fetishes. Never going to find someone who's into everything that I am. And some fantasies are just meant to remain fantasies.I'm holding out for the lifestyle I want.
Got to figure out what makes you truly happy and go with that.
Fiestykitten
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Very well said.
MissLabelled
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The sex tape that never was …Okay, y'all, time for a dirty nerdy game todaylet's put some book and movie titles out there that would change the book or movie drastically by replacing one of the words with either "Fuck", "Penis" or "Boobs"
I wanna see not only the title changes, but also how it would change the story
let's use our brains for some dirty nerdy fun
Frankjba1
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Life is far too short to settle. Go find your person that ticks all those boxes you crave. And fight with everything to hold onto them and cherish them.
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SmokingFap
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Actually should have just been named "Garbage". Because "Only Movie That Comes Close to How Terrible 'The Room' Was" is too long a title.
