whenagain
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Sounds like you need to show him who’s boss.
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I tried. I demean him and insult him constantly too. He’s a horrible lover and he knows it.
whenagain
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How does he respond?
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He gets pissed when I tell him I deserve to be a hotwife. He said we need to “make love” more. Gag. I don’t bother faking orgasm anymore.
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To be fair, you DO deserve it.
whenagain
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Sounds like maybe the two of you want fundamentally different things out of sex.
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THANK YOU!!
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True.
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I am self-aware enough to know that quality sex for my wife isnt a thing. She however believes bringing in someone to fill that role is cheating so we’re at an impasse. Though, in her defense, she’s been close to agreeing then cooled off.
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Take her to a sex club. Have her watch others do it. Hold her hand. Tell her nothing has to happen. Just watch.
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I volunteer …. I mean … agree
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It’s like you’re in my mind haha we’ve had discussions on this also. Just have to break her mental blocks. But there is definitely a willingness to consider it which I’m grateful for even though the amount of patience this takes does take a toll occasionally if that makes sense
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Just have her start watching. Have a few drinks, dance, then watch the swingers. If she wants to touch someone or them touch her, encourage. Hold her hand. Tell her how hot she is. Of course they want her. She’s sexy…
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She’s incredibly sexy. We don’t drink so have to find something else to help her relax haha. We definitely would not be touching anything because we don’t know How consent and all that works there
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You ask for consent and it’s very casual.
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My husband don't seem to mind, especially when he's involved lol 
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I bet he doesn't. Don't blame him.My husband don't seem to mind, especially when he's involved lol
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I have a smaller dick than your hubby, but think I do a good job of eating pussy. My wife also swats me away if I try to touch her when she's using her toy... Can't mess with her headspace when she's chasing a climax.
On the other hand, I don't think I'm the asshole your husband is. I love that my wife is comfortable to get off with a toy while I watch and I don't let my ego get bruised because intercourse with me doesn't do it for her.
I guess what I'm saying is, if I were your guy, you could cuck me. Everyone deserves good sex!
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You and me bud. We are the same.
Even if your husband was an amazing lover, he should still give his approval for you to have sex with other men!
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Agreed. He loves the idea of me being gang banged and coming back to him gaping and having cum flow out of me. Watching me be used and a slutty wife. Then he cums and he says no, absolutely not! I desire it more every day. So, I’m going to go behind his back to get my needs met.
What someone says in their sexual haze is rarely the same once that fog is lifted. But it’s wrong to get you all worked up about something you really want then pull the rug out when it no longer suits his needs.
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Before we married he would watch me play with other men online. Once we married he wouldn’t let me do anything.
I was a unicorn in my single days. I was in a throuple and regularly cucked my ex. He loved hearing about how slutty I was. I would come home to him with a pussy full of cum and he ate it out while I told him what a naughty girl I was…
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MAYBE you can get him there by blurring the lines between fantasy and reality a little.
He likes the IDEA of you being fucked by someone else when he's hard and about to cum, right? But, once the horniness is gone, so is that desire?
How does your fantasy play usually work? During sex you and/or he talks about you getting fucked by someone? Does he ask for specifics? Does he want you to say "I want to get fucked..." or does he want to hear "I DID get fucked yesterday..." or "Tomorrow I'm going to fuck someone..."
Perhaps you could get him right on the edge while saying "You want me to fuck someone else? Really? No you don't, you say that, but don't mean it. Really? Maybe if you beg and promise you'll be ok with it..."
And then the next time, get him on edge again and continue the story, "So, remember how last time we had sex you begged me to have sex with someone else? Do you want to hear about what happened? Or will that make you jealous? OK, if you insist, I'll tell you..."
It's all a game of fantasy, but, maybe if you frame it as real, he'll start getting more and more turned on by the blurring of reality and fantasy?
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