College friend erotic experience: Still think about it. What do you think?

[wifes_fag]

U got any casinos around you? I have found that is a good place to get picked up

 

[wifes_fag]

At the bar

 

[wifes_fag]

I get a table in the back and have had a man ask if he can sit with me

 

[dodgeboy2]

College was light years ago but I do remember fondly both sucking many cocks and having my own sucked, it was also the 1st time I sucked cock in a video booth at an ABS which was also my 1st time with a much older guy so yeah those college years bring back many many memories!

 

[wifes_fag]

They had a little bar just off campus and about anything was ok there. Friend took me there and I sucked his cock and two more the first time I went. I went there in drag on a Halloween that was sure fun

 

[IASFPWTF]

Thats so fucking hot!

 

[lordpenizworth]

College was light years ago but I do remember fondly both sucking many cocks and having my own sucked, it was also the 1st time I sucked cock in a video booth at an ABS which was also my 1st time with a much older guy so yeah those college years bring back many many memories!

This reminds me of the last guy I sucked. It was at a glory hole and he was around college age. He wore sweatpants and had a cock that throbbed like a jumping bean as he came. He was loud too!
Maybe I was his first!

 

[dodgeboy2]

This reminds me of the last guy I sucked. It was at a glory hole and he was around college age. He wore sweatpants and had a cock that throbbed like a jumping bean as he came. He was loud too!
Maybe I was his first!

Glory holes are nice but this was us inside the booth face to face (or should I say face to cock) with his big cock, went home with him afterwards and he took me to my very 1st gay bar where we met up with one of his friends which well led me to one of my other firsts!

 

[OlderBtm4U]

Speaking for what I’m sure are a lot of us, I’d love to hear about that other first.

 

[TonyF862]

The very first cock i sucked was my classmate. I sucked him a lot through school. He was also the first one to fuck me. He introduced me to a few other boys in school to take care of. He married a girl in our class. When we had our twenty year reunion he asked me if I was still sucking cock since he knew I married a girl a grade below us. I said yeah we play quite a bit and I suck cock when I can. He wanted me to come over to their motel room and suck him off for old times sake. I said what about Romona? He said she won't mind. So I went by and gave him a good blowjob with her naked and fingering herself. She said she had no idea I was queer but didn't care. Cant wait for another reunion I will bring my wife.

That's a REALLY hot story. For some reason, cock sucking is so hot (for me) when women are involved and watching/getting off on it. I know my wife would LOVE to have been in that chair and probably would have fingered herself to an orgasm, watching that cock being sucked.

She fantasizes about me doing that. I'm open to it - if she'll join me. a fourth (woman) would really round out the fun!

 

[TonyF862]

My experience started in high school when I was seduced by a “30ish” married couple. It was wonderful, but I kept it hidden until I graduated. I wish now I’d have been able to enjoy sex with boys my age back then. Once I went off to college I was able to go back home and make up ffor a little of that lost opportunity.

How long did the tryst with the older couple last? Any good stories from that encounter? Did you suck his cock?

 

[TonyF862]

things were definitely easier in college. lots of cock needed sucked and lots of cocksuckers. lots of weird parties on friday and saturday nights. lots of lezzies. kids trying new things. nobody cared either

I'm curious what timeframe were you in college? I was in the early 80's and although I now realize I had fraternity brothers that are/were gay, I had NO idea back then (HTF could I not have know??) As one fellow (somewhat redneck) friends said: We didnt know "gay" was really a thing back then!

 

[TonyF862]

U got any casinos around you? I have found that is a good place to get picked up

Does it work for couples as well?

 

[lordpenizworth]

I'm curious what timeframe were you in college? I was in the early 80's and although I now realize I had fraternity brothers that are/were gay, I had NO idea back then (HTF could I not have know??) As one fellow (somewhat redneck) friends said: We didnt know "gay" was really a thing back then!

This is fascinating and believable. I had a fellow in my dorm -- obviously queer -- but no one batted an eye.
Well, maybe he did.

I'd love to read how you knew about your brothers.

 

[KarinSoftly]

I wish I had taken the plunge in college. I’m sure there were opportunities and I was already dressing in private as a woman but it never went farther than that. I fantasize about how it might have been.

 

[write_or_wrong]

Personally, although I identify as bi (I'm a cis woman) even THAT'S more flexible on the sexual spectrum. Labels can be useful when entering them into a system like a dating/hookup app but if you're just trying to identify yourself for your own sense of self, I wouldn't worry too much about it.

But if it helps to define a label - you might want to take the Kinsey scale test (there are plenty available free online) For me, sometimes I fall on a 2, sometimes a 3.

But I think you could describe yourself as bi, or bi-curious or straight with a bi kink. If you're looking for a hookup for a man to JO with like your experience at college I'd suggest making that clear on whatever app you use. That all you want is mutual masturbation, or a blowjob, & nothing else or romantic. Enjoy yourself, stay kinky!

I totally agree with your disdain for labels. They can be ambiguous and misleading depending on the biases of the listener/reader. And they are too limiting for a proper description.

I partially agree with your references to the Kinsey scale. My problem with Kinsey is that it lumps all the feelings one can have for another person together as "attraction." I think there are at least two major kinds of attraction: Romantic, and Sexual. They can be the same for a gender but they don't have to be. There might be a third category: Friendship, or Platonic.

Example: Lots of guys love everything there is about women, but still have a craving for a hard cock. How do you plot that on the Kinsey scale? Or, what about a man who still loves his wife as his life-pal and the mother of his children, has no sexual interest in her at all but would never leave her, and craves a fully romantic and sexual relationship with a man? Or, the guy who has a strong ongoing bromance with the husband next door but would never consider anything sexual with him.

Long ago I gave up trying to find the right label and just explained what I liked and what I didn't. If questioned I think I might be a mix of Demisexual, Pansexual, Sapiosexual, and Heterosexual. Maybe Heteroflexible? I shy away from the more popular Bisexual because I don't think I could ever fall in love with a man. But if I have to pick something, I'll go with Situationally Opportunistic.

 

[TonyF862]

This is fascinating and believable. I had a fellow in my dorm -- obviously queer -- but no one batted an eye.
Well, maybe he did.

I'd love to read how you knew about your brothers.

You mean how I found out/realized later? It wasn't a "eureka" moment - but piecing comments and events together - and the overall, general social dialog - that led me to look back on people and events, and think "huh, well, I'll be damned! He WAS gay!"

A couple data points: One of the older guys was a designer that moved to LA as soon as he graduated (small, midwestern state university). He came back one year for homecoming and was clad in ALL black leather (this is early 80's and the age of the "parachute pants" so black leather pants weren't too far of a stretch). He was great guy - I later learned - who died of AIDS.

Another data point: as a pledge one of my pledge brothers and I were invited out with a couple of the older, active guys. We were riding around just shooting the shit, etc - my buddy and I TOTALLY oblivious to any ulterior motive. As we often did around a group of guys (especially me, Mr Over-sharer), we started talking about people in and around the fraternity, when I chimed in about a big-titted girl I'd picked up at one of our parties, took her out to the country in my '76 Toyota Corolla, with the reclining seats and FUCKED her in the front passenger seat...TWICE.

Turns out, she was the ex of one of the other brothers (not present) and I had NO idea! Turns out I even went to high school with the girl, but didn't know that when we hooked up.

As I'm telling this story, the driver (one of the two gay guys in the car), all but slams on the brakes - looked intently at me and says: "You? Fucked? LouAnn??" I wasn't sure why he'd reacted that way - so I sheepishly answered "yes?".

He repeated his question again, but this time more of a statement, and a bit more aggressively: "You. FUCKED. LouAnn!" once again I ansered in the affirmative.

My buddy and I recounted this story MANY times over the years, trying to understand the perplexity of WHY the guy had reacted that way. As the years went on, and some of the guys came out, and gay lifestyles became more accepting - we'd pretty much figured out by then that both the guys were gay - and the reaction/question was for one of a couple of reasons (or both):
1) He was shocked/disappointed that I had fucked another brother's ex - as it's an unwritten rule (of course I had NO idea they were ex's when I did) OR
2) He thought I/we were a gay couple, and when I clearly indicated I was not - by my story of fucking the notorious LouAnn - he was shocked (disappointed?).

Epilogue: My straight buddy and I later concluded that the entire evening ride-around was a move to figure out if we WERE gay - and open to joining whatever inner circle of gay brothers was around then. In case you're wondering - we did not. I DID however go on to fuck half the campus (a slight exaggeration), all of them women. Caught the crabs from one of them, had my dick rubbed so raw by a bad handjob that I got a lower urethra infection I thought at first was the clap, and was voted Homecoming King my senior year. So pretty much a HAPPY ENDING by anyone's standards!

 

[lordpenizworth]

You mean how I found out/realized later? It wasn't a "eureka" moment - but piecing comments and events together - and the overall, general social dialog - that led me to look back on people and events, and think "huh, well, I'll be damned! He WAS gay!"

A couple data points: One of the older guys was a designer that moved to LA as soon as he graduated (small, midwestern state university). He came back one year for homecoming and was clad in ALL black leather (this is early 80's and the age of the "parachute pants" so black leather pants weren't too far of a stretch). He was great guy - I later learned - who died of AIDS.

Another data point: as a pledge one of my pledge brothers and I were invited out with a couple of the older, active guys. We were riding around just shooting the shit, etc - my buddy and I TOTALLY oblivious to any ulterior motive. As we often did around a group of guys (especially me, Mr Over-sharer), we started talking about people in and around the fraternity, when I chimed in about a big-titted girl I'd picked up at one of our parties, took her out to the country in my '76 Toyota Corolla, with the reclining seats and FUCKED her in the front passenger seat...TWICE.

Turns out, she was the ex of one of the other brothers (not present) and I had NO idea! Turns out I even went to high school with the girl, but didn't know that when we hooked up.

As I'm telling this story, the driver (one of the two gay guys in the car), all but slams on the brakes - looked intently at me and says: "You? Fucked? LouAnn??" I wasn't sure why he'd reacted that way - so I sheepishly answered "yes?".

He repeated his question again, but this time more of a statement, and a bit more aggressively: "You. FUCKED. LouAnn!" once again I ansered in the affirmative.

My buddy and I recounted this story MANY times over the years, trying to understand the perplexity of WHY the guy had reacted that way. As the years went on, and some of the guys came out, and gay lifestyles became more accepting - we'd pretty much figured out by then that both the guys were gay - and the reaction/question was for one of a couple of reasons (or both):
1) He was shocked/disappointed that I had fucked another brother's ex - as it's an unwritten rule (of course I had NO idea they were ex's when I did) OR
2) He thought I/we were a gay couple, and when I clearly indicated I was not - by my story of fucking the notorious LouAnn - he was shocked (disappointed?).

Epilogue: My straight buddy and I later concluded that the entire evening ride-around was a move to figure out if we WERE gay - and open to joining whatever inner circle of gay brothers was around then. In case you're wondering - we did not. I DID however go on to fuck half the campus (a slight exaggeration), all of them women. Caught the crabs from one of them, had my dick rubbed so raw by a bad handjob that I got a lower urethra infection I thought at first was the clap, and was voted Homecoming King my senior year. So pretty much a HAPPY ENDING by anyone's standards!

Oh boy! Oh boys!
That's a spectrum of events you shared. Thank you!
You had a much more colorful college experience than I did.
(I wish I'd spotted my dorm-mate at the time, and I wish he'd have spotted me.)

 

[JiminNC]

Hello my friends.

I identify as a straight male, but somewhere along the sex spectrum not directly aligned with straight because I find the thought of certain experiences with another male to be erotic. As a side note, I also find it erotic and exciting to think about being with a feminine trans, boobs and penis. I apologize in advance because I am not sure of the correct or appropriate description and do not want to offend anyone.

I'm curious as to your thoughts on an experience I had many many years ago with my best friend in college and I continue to find the memory of it extremely erotic. My friend and I are still very close. In college, for a few months after going out with our girlfriends, we'd come back to either his apartment or mine drunk of course and would pleasure each other. He started it off by telling ne one night he wanted to JO together. I was so nervous it took me a few minutes to get hard. He took the lead and helped me get there. That lead to us jacking either other off and then to rubbing our hard cocks together until we came on each other. It was incredible. We graduated to sucking each other off before the fun stopped for good. I still think about rubbing oil on his cock and stroking him until he got hard and came. Also, what it was like to suck him off which was also incredibly erotic. We both are married, with kids and have stayed friends over the years. As far as I know he hasn't had another experience like this and neither have I. Now on the other side, I love a women's body and sex with my wife is fantastic. I also think about being able to play with a hard cock and maybe sucking as well. I am not interested in kissing or anal with a man. Over the years I have had lots of wonderful gay male friends and one actually kissed me when we were drunk one night. So, I've tried that and it was not as good as when I kiss women. Not interested in kissing more guys. I have always been into working out, and body building so I am attracted to muscular men and muscular woman. My wife is a D1 Athlete, tall and muscular. To this point, I find it arousing to think about playing with, and exploring a man's body that's in really great shape. Giving him a massage and happy ending. So, the question for those taking the time to read this is, do you think I'm Bi, or how would you describe me?

As a side note, unfortunately I am not able to share this story or my desire to explore this with my wife. She's not down with it, though she loves the thought of being with another woman and me.. Huh? Now that's not fare...LOL.

Thanks for your thoughts.

As I’ve said here before and I always caution men who are considering man to man sex: once you have sucked a cock, you crave more, and will crave it forever. Yes, you’re bi. I started sucking cock very early in life and always thought about it since. Now that I’m retired from the military, I can act on that desire, and now I enjoy cock more than my wife’s pussy.

 

[Raybies93]

Hello my friends.

I identify as a straight male, but somewhere along the sex spectrum not directly aligned with straight because I find the thought of certain experiences with another male to be erotic. As a side note, I also find it erotic and exciting to think about being with a feminine trans, boobs and penis. I apologize in advance because I am not sure of the correct or appropriate description and do not want to offend anyone.

I'm curious as to your thoughts on an experience I had many many years ago with my best friend in college and I continue to find the memory of it extremely erotic. My friend and I are still very close. In college, for a few months after going out with our girlfriends, we'd come back to either his apartment or mine drunk of course and would pleasure each other. He started it off by telling ne one night he wanted to JO together. I was so nervous it took me a few minutes to get hard. He took the lead and helped me get there. That lead to us jacking either other off and then to rubbing our hard cocks together until we came on each other. It was incredible. We graduated to sucking each other off before the fun stopped for good. I still think about rubbing oil on his cock and stroking him until he got hard and came. Also, what it was like to suck him off which was also incredibly erotic. We both are married, with kids and have stayed friends over the years. As far as I know he hasn't had another experience like this and neither have I. Now on the other side, I love a women's body and sex with my wife is fantastic. I also think about being able to play with a hard cock and maybe sucking as well. I am not interested in kissing or anal with a man. Over the years I have had lots of wonderful gay male friends and one actually kissed me when we were drunk one night. So, I've tried that and it was not as good as when I kiss women. Not interested in kissing more guys. I have always been into working out, and body building so I am attracted to muscular men and muscular woman. My wife is a D1 Athlete, tall and muscular. To this point, I find it arousing to think about playing with, and exploring a man's body that's in really great shape. Giving him a massage and happy ending. So, the question for those taking the time to read this is, do you think I'm Bi, or how would you describe me?

As a side note, unfortunately I am not able to share this story or my desire to explore this with my wife. She's not down with it, though she loves the thought of being with another woman and me.. Huh? Now that's not fare...LOL.

Thanks for your thoughts.

In my twenties my friend and I sucked each others cocks every chance we got. One day he just whipped it out and started jerking off and asked if I would join him.
We both stripped naked and he laid on the bed and I went down on him. I sucked his cock and balls and tongue fucked his asshole. I wanted to sodomize him, but we were too inexperienced. We always swallowed each others cum. He wanted to kiss me but, I told him I did not have the ability to feel romantic love for a man. I regret not kissing him now. I haven’t seen him in decades, but still fuck him in his asshole in my mind while jerking. I know how tight he is because I’ve had my fingers in him

 

[TonyF862]

In my twenties my friend and I sucked each others cocks every chance we got. One day he just whipped it out and started jerking off and asked if I would join him.
We both stripped naked and he laid on the bed and I went down on him. I sucked his cock and balls and tongue fucked his asshole. I wanted to sodomize him, but we were too inexperienced. We always swallowed each others cum. He wanted to kiss me but, I told him I did not have the ability to feel romantic love for a man. I regret not kissing him now. I haven’t seen him in decades, but still fuck him in his asshole in my mind while jerking. I know how tight he is because I’ve had my fingers in him

Do you still have regular partners you suck?

 

[Raybies93]

Do you still have regular partners you suck?

I do not, but wish I did.

 

[Raybies93]

I do not, but wish I did.

Don’t worry too much about labels, they’re all bullshit anyway. You like what you like, and even that may change as you get older and have new experiences. I’d say lean into it. You only get one life, may as well have as many experiences as possible!

I agree with whoever said you should find a way to subtly bring it up to your friend. As someone who had a similar experience, I guarantee he thinks about it too. One time maybe would’ve just been a fluke, but you guys were doing it for MONTHS, progressing from mutual JO to sucking each other off? Trust me, he is just waiting for you to bring it up.

Hope something comes from it. Feel free to PM me if you want to chat about our experiences and work through what you’re feeling!

I guarantee he still thinks about it and would love to do it again. I havent heard from my piece of dick in decades and suddenly one FB message and we are looking to hook up again.

 

[TallOne]

Unfortunately my actual college roommate was a religious prude. But during orientation programs I had two different roommates. One was a theater kid. One night I heard him start jacking off and could see the covers moving. I couldn't work up the nerve to just go over and offer to help him out, but I did whip out my own cock and stroked mine at the same time. I do think if I wasn't so awkward and either of us made a move for more then we could have had a real fun week.

The other was a guy who started having phone sex with his girlfriend and jerking off while I pretended to sleep through it. Watching him stroke his bbc through slightly open eyes. Wishing I had the guts to just go over and start sucking him while he talked to his girlfriend.

But those experiences cemented in me that I was bisexual rather than just curious and I started telling girls I would date that I was bi. Eventually leading to my wife who was into it and was pegging me very early in the relationship and getting into swinging/threesomes later on.

 

[TonyF862]

Unfortunately my actual college roommate was a religious prude. But during orientation programs I had two different roommates. One was a theater kid. One night I heard him start jacking off and could see the covers moving. I couldn't work up the nerve to just go over and offer to help him out, but I did whip out my own cock and stroked mine at the same time. I do think if I wasn't so awkward and either of us made a move for more then we could have had a real fun week.

The other was a guy who started having phone sex with his girlfriend and jerking off while I pretended to sleep through it. Watching him stroke his bbc through slightly open eyes. Wishing I had the guts to just go over and start sucking him while he talked to his girlfriend.

But those experiences cemented in me that I was bisexual rather than just curious and I started telling girls I would date that I was bi. Eventually leading to my wife who was into it and was pegging me very early in the relationship and getting into swinging/threesomes later on.

Are you still swinging? Would love to hear about the first time your wife saw/encouraged/helped you suck a cock.