Dudes, do you like being called a faggot?

[Swuchrow]

Part of the pleasure of being a submissive is being verbally humiliated by your top. I am turned on when he calls me a name like faggot. So, yeah I like it.

 

[Thin59]

I"m serious. I get aroused by someone calling me a fag. . .

Yes !!!!!!

 

[Thin59]

when I cyber or have phone sex with other guys nothing gets me hotter than be called a faggot, I usually request it.

It getts me so hard being called a faggot cock sucker.

 

[Thin59]

Turns me on to be called all sorts of names when I'm down on my knees sucking cock...

Me too.

 

[Jacktrew]

If he calls me faggot or anything similar, that's the end right there. I may even knee him in the balls before I walk away.

I'm a top. Totally agree, not into humiliation, degradation, or name calling.

I get we all have our preferences, but for me that is such a turn off to call another dude that!

 

[bobb64]

I"m serious. I get aroused by someone calling me a fag. . .

when i'm on my knees the man i'm blowing can call me anything he wants.

 

[saintcero]

I don’t mind when I am performing as a bottom. During normal straight life, it would be a trigger for me especially if it was said with disrespect

 

[KarinSoftly]

It’s a turn on for me. My ex wife has called me that many times and even her lovers.

 

[michael2956]

Oh, yeah!! I love being called a fag, and I love calling guys fags....

 

[Abrahamlickin]

I love being called his faggot bitch while I'm sucking his cock!

 

[wifes_fag]

I love being called his faggot bitch while I'm sucking his cock!

I like it even better when my wife hears it too.

 

[Swuchrow]

Not in public but when he is balls deep in my boipussy as he cums then by all means, yes.

 

[cdstefi]

I"m serious. I get aroused by someone calling me a fag. . .

Nope. I've ridden a guy's cock and had my legs over his shoulders while he's balls deep in my arse, but I strongly dislike pejorative language. I like descriptive dirty talk ("your arse feels great wrapped around my prick", "you're going to make me cum" etc) but name-calling is a no-no.

 

[tristantrotsky]

It’s a turn on for me. My ex wife has called me that many times and even her lovers.

Faggot is as faggot does.

 

[none2_none2]

I don't like derogatory terms such as queer, fag, etc. When I hear those terms coming from non-hetero's (or claiming to be str8 but loving m2m sex), I have tuned out anything more they have to say. Self-abasement with derogatory terms is NOT endearing. When it is used by a str8, I'm tempted to strike back, but I restrain myself.

 

[KarinSoftly]

Faggot is as faggot does.

So true in my case.

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

I don't like derogatory terms such as queer, fag, etc. When I hear those terms coming from non-hetero's (or claiming to be str8 but loving m2m sex), I have tuned out anything more they have to say. Self-abasement with derogatory terms is NOT endearing. When it is used by a str8, I'm tempted to strike back, but I restrain myself.

I fully agree. For some folks, that self-abasement seems to be part of their own sexual arousal, something that I can't wrap my brain around. But to each his own. For me, being called queer, fag, sissy, etc., is like a slap in the face and does nothing but stir up feelings of anger and bitterness from my own past. Not only is it a total sexual turn-off, it's the surest way for things to turn ugly with me. If I'm sucking a man's cock and he starts to call me somethings like that, that ends it right there. And as I asserted in a post above, he'll be lucky if I don't knee him in the balls before I walk away.

 

[cdstefi]

I fully agree. For some folks, that self-abasement seems to be part of their own sexual arousal, something that I can't wrap my brain around. But to each his own. For me, being called queer, fag, sissy, etc., is like a slap in the face and does nothing but stir up feelings of anger and bitterness from my own past. Not only is it a total sexual turn-off, it's the surest way for things to turn ugly with me. If I'm sucking a man's cock and he starts to call me somethings like that, that ends it right there. And as I asserted in a post above, he'll be lucky if I don't knee him in the balls before I walk away.

It's a thing I like to get straight (so to speak) before meeting anyone. No degrading talk or it's no-boner and no-sex for you!

It's a pretty good filter when chatting to see if somebody's interested. My profiles always say what I like and don't like, and if somebody starts with the fag/sissy stuff it's conversation over. I'm kind of a grammar nazi too, so incoherently misspelt sex talk, or all that mmm...so sexy babe...mmm bullshit gets them a rapid exit too

 

[Phatfeet]

I'm kind of a grammar nazi too, so incoherently misspelt sex talk, or all that mmm...so sexy babe...mmm bullshit gets them a rapid exit too

I am the same way. Grammar makes a HUGE difference including punctuation. For instance take this line...

"No; more sex please"!
Versus
"No more sex please".

Yep, big difference!

 

[Phatfeet]

Myself, I don't like it generally speaking. To me it is cheap and gaudy, condescending and vile, but I can semi-tolerate if... in the midst of really getting into passionate sex, he mentions me being "such a good faggot". I am not going to get to upset in that context. It is the heat of passion after all, and said a FEW times, I can tolerate that. But to just use it as a degrading filler word endlessly, NO! NO! NO. That is a huge turn off for me.

And while no one asked, writing such foul names on people with a marker is DEPLORABLE to me. I absolutely hate that and think the marker should be shoved down the person's nose whose marked a human being up like that, woman or man. I cannot fathom anyone wanting "whore" or "Faggot" written on them and then paraded around.

 

[Scooterlover]

For me any degrading talk or name calling is akin to bullying and a form of cruelty. From my earliest days I’ve always hated cruelty of any kind.
Does anyone remember “Some Mothers Do Have Them”?
Couldn’t watch it! I was young but I couldn’t work out why people were laughing at this poor man.

 

[tristantrotsky]

So true in my case.

And we love you more because of it, Karin.

 

[Uncut1969]

I would love to be called it right about now ! I am Jones’s n for a cock so bad!

 

[artgorden]

By my wife while she pushed my head down on her bull's big black cock.

 

[Bathtubbill]

When I'm intimate with someone, absolutely