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Men, have you ever crossdressed?

Actual_Mom said:
My personal opinion - no data to support it - is most men that enjoy some level of crossdressing is because their love of the female body/form and are hetero and do so for sexual pleasure.
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That’s the “autogynephilia” theory -

Autogynephilia is a debunked blanket theory for what motivates cross dressing and mtf transgenderism - defined as a male's sexual arousal at the thought of himself as a female.

The trouble with the theory is that it is reductive of individuals’ motivations and was promoted as a form of mental illness.

It may be true that many otherwise straight men are into cross dressing specifically for sexual gratification, but it is not a universal motivation for all CDs and TG people.

Some of us genuinely feel more comfortable presenting as more feminine than social norms allow for.

I suggest that many women are sexually attracted to their own femininity, just as some men are attracted to their own masculinity. It’s not a mental illness just because it is not what most people consider normal.

Personally, my interests are fluid and all over the place. I’m quite kinky now but I was into CDing long before I had any interest in anything sexual, so while the self-attraction thing may be part of my motivation it definitely isn’t the whole motivation.
 
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Yes! Sporadically for 40 years. I love the feel of stockings and tights. I’ve worn apantie girdle too. My Clitcock looks so much better in cute panties .
 
emmcee_M_Aussie said:
Like many here, dabbled in my childhood/teens but mum's were far too big. Couple of sis-in-laws' had sexy lingerie when I babysat which I sniffed, felt and tried from the hamper only! Later at college (18) I met an older woman (31). Had dinner and wine one night and made sure she 'caught' me in her panties - testing the water so to speak. Luckily she loved it and soon bought me a bra & panty set. It became a thing for us and she added stockings & suspenders and would have me parade for her then wank and eat my cum off wherever she had me spray it - her tits were a favourite. 🥰 We were together 10 yrs but it was only ever lingerie under street clothes. She was adventurous in lots of ways I am grateful for long after we split. I was buying my own lingerie by then and loved to visit lingerie stores and be assisted with fitting a bra and getting matching panties. I added a camisole and nighty to the mix.

Then met my wife who disapproved totally so back in the closet (actually hid my stash under the bottom drawer of the big chest of drawers in our bedroom!). Together 17 yrs but drifted apart, so single again and back in sensual lingerie regularly. Hung the washing yesterday in my bra & panties. 😊 Never would pass as femme - the full beard is a bit of a giveaway - but added 4" heels to the mix. When on holiday, I find the local CD friendly stores, though Target/K Mart are good options for cheaper items. Loved a shopping trip in a country town Target, where I chose the bras and matching panties and took them to the changerooms to try on. The young lady who counts how many items you take in and gives you the hanger smiled when she saw what I was carrying. I came out and hung up what I didn't want and went to the checkout only to find the same young lady (20s) serving. She was lovely and smiled as she asked, "Did they fit well?" and then reminded me that panties were non-returnable due to health rules. I said yes they fit perfectly, and it was fine as I knew my panty size and bought them and left. That has been my experience with the majority of ladies in stores - friendly and helpful. So now it's panties most days and other lingerie occasionally - I love the sensual feel of wearing. Still love going shopping knowing that, having been fitted, my bra fits better than most women I see. 🤣 So tempting to say, "Just buy a cup size bigger so you don't have pillow tops!" but I do value my life. 😁

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Love your lacy panties x
 
Swuchmann said:
Have dressed for years.

When I was in my 20s had a ltr with a man in his 50s. He loved me to be dressed. I was young looking. On a few occasions he would have an Asian nail lady come to his home where she would shave my body and give me a mani- and pedi- . She would also do my wig and make-up.

My bf would have me in a sexy outfit with heels. He would take me to a low-key bar late during the evening. He would finger me at our table while I stroked him. He usually would have me blow him in the parking lot. By the time we would get home he was ready to make me his gurl.

Good memories.
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That was almost my situation when I was 18 and getting out of high school. Some of us had went to the lake right before graduation in May for a last hurrah together. I had on short cutoffs and a few adults were there. Some I knew some I didn't. Somebody had mixed up some salty dogs and I was drinking some of it. it was getting late and I didn't have a way home and this man said he would take me home. On the way he laid his hand on my leg. I was surprised but it felt good. I didn't say anything or try to stop him. He was rubbing his hand up and down my leg and thigh feeling me up. He had me hard as a rock. He rubbed across my zipper area and squeezed me and felt I was hard. He said you like that don't you. I said yes I did. He told me to take my clothes off. I was up against him and he was playing with my small cock. He said I had him hard and for me to undo his pants and take it out.
Swuchmann said:
Have dressed for years.

When I was in my 20s had a ltr with a man in his 50s. He loved me to be dressed. I was young looking. On a few occasions he would have an Asian nail lady come to his home where she would shave my body and give me a mani- and pedi- . She would also do my wig and make-up.

My bf would have me in a sexy outfit with heels. He would take me to a low-key bar late during the evening. He would finger me at our table while I stroked him. He usually would have me blow him in the parking lot. By the time we would get home he was ready to make me his gurl.

Good memories.
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That was almost my situation when I was 18 and getting out of high school. Some of us had went to the lake right before graduation in May for a last hurrah together. I had on short cutoffs and a few adults were there. Some I knew some I didn't. Somebody had mixed up some salty dogs and I was drinking some of it. it was getting late and I didn't have a way home and this man said he would take me home. I was a little buzzed and said ok. On the way he laid his hand on my leg. I was surprised but it felt good. I didn't say anything or try to stop him. He was rubbing his hand up and down my leg and thigh feeling me up. He had me hard as a rock. He rubbed across my zipper area and squeezed me and felt I was hard. He said you like that don't you. I said yes I did. He told me to take my clothes off. I was up against him and he was playing with my small cock. He said I had him hard and for me to undo his pants and take it out. He had a nice hard cock and I was stroking it. He stopped somewhere and pulled me down to it and told me to suck it. it filled my mouth up. I ran my tongue around and all over it. I was so excited and loved sucking him. In just a bit he drawed up and shoved my head down on it and let out big moan and filled my mouth with cum. he told me to swallow it all down. he started going soft and i raised up. He told me I was a good cocksucker and if I liked it. I told him very much. He took me on home and wrote his phone number down and told me to call him. He lived in a little town on my way to college. I would go see him usually on a Sunday morning. The first time I went he took me in his dark bedroom and put me on my back and fucked me missionary style. He whispered I was his girl now. He got me panties and told me to wear them all the time. He had me some girls clothes on the bed. Several shorts and tops and a few dresses. He told me to try them on. Then he rubbed Nair all over me up and down my legs all around my little cock and under my arms. Thats about the only place I had hair and it was light. In about 15 minutes I showered it all off. he rubbed some baby oil up and down my legs and around my bare cock. My legs were so bare and pretty. He picked out a tee top and a pair of shorts and a pair of sandals for me. Then he took me to the cafe. I wouldn't have ever went there with what i had on but I had no choice. I knew right then he didn't mind showing me off. I could feel people looking at me. No one said anything though. People talked normal to us. It was like that any time I was with him. I was his sissy for about 4 years.
 
AlexBailey said:
That’s the “autogynephilia” theory -

Autogynephilia is a debunked blanket theory for what motivates cross dressing and mtf transgenderism - defined as a male's sexual arousal at the thought of himself as a female.

The trouble with the theory is that it is reductive of individuals’ motivations and was promoted as a form of mental illness.

It may be true that many otherwise straight men are into cross dressing specifically for sexual gratification, but it is not a universal motivation for all CDs and TG people.

Some of us genuinely feel more comfortable presenting as more feminine than social norms allow for.

I suggest that many women are sexually attracted to their own femininity, just as some men are attracted to their own masculinity. It’s not a mental illness just because it is not what most people consider normal.

Personally, my interests are fluid and all over the place. I’m quite kinky now but I was into CDing long before I had any interest in anything sexual, so while the self-attraction thing may be part of my motivation it definitely isn’t the whole motivation.
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I have long desired th be wearing femme clothes just like the ones I desire on the women I find attractive, but I have never desired men. This seems a societal contradiction for many in here, if I post in the crossdressing threads it's men who immediately pm all sorts of inappropriate ideas without reading my profile.

The sensual fabrics of nylons and satin panties, the different feel of a skirt swishing around them or the posture created by heels is arousing, it's comfortable and yet it's frowned upon. I have taken my dressing further at the suggestion and with the help of a lovely lady met on here, and she helped with makeup and hair. I can still enjoy that but I don't make that convincing a woman and I am not really into that. It's all about sensual items to wear and share.

Sadly finding a woman who sees that and enjoys that is rare, but when it happens, when two sets of nylon covered legs are entwined it is glorious x
 
Panties and bra for a FWB who wanted me to. Tried makeup, but it was impossible! Man!
 
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