What porn gets you off?

That's it! Thank you for your post! I think I understand myself a little better now. It's the same dilemma that I long for with the wish that my wife makes love to someone else. Real love, not just sex. This (unfulfilled) wish is driving me crazy more and more.
(Unfortunately, my wife doesn't understand this...)
I was quite the opposite: Anything more than getting pleasure was a threat to me (us).

My wife encapsulated the dilemma with "I know you'd rather they (the men) be strangers but I'd want them to be someone I know."

Of course, her requirements were paramount (it wasn't my pussy being visited) and the one time another man took her, it was indeed someone familiar.
 
I love reluctance
In some ways, it seems juvenile.

But I cannot deny that the idea of overcoming reluctance (or, TBH, simply ignoring it) or witnessing same, is cock-hardening to me as a guy.

Nobody ever said sex was rational or "fair."

Thankfully.

All that matters is that every memory is either fond or a building block of something that ends up pleasurable.
 
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