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[Beandip478]

Not even a sausage. Sorry, had to delete previous post.

 

[LMWM321]

Like you, I definitely feel a much greater sense of urgency b/c of my age (59). Every week I learn of a new friend/acquaintance who is diagnosed with a serious illness (like prostate or breast cancer) that makes sex either very difficult or at least a non-priority. When I hear of this it makes me wonder why my wife and I let even a SINGLE night go by without having some kind of sex, even if it's just masturbating beside each other before drifting off to sleep.

And yes, it's made me kinkier too, or more accurately, more open about my kinky interests.. Years ago I would have struggled to ask my wife to peg me or to let me rim her, etc... But her menopause led us to a sex therapist whom we saw ever other week for a year. I won't bore you with details of our therapy but since then I have NO qualms blurting out before leaving for work, or texting her later in the day, "hey, can I eat your pussy, then ass tonight?" or "Will you peg me tonight please?" Such texts always get a laugh and thumbs up emoji in reply.

I've come to realize that Sex is NOT over at 60, but it's foolish to not realize there is WAY more road behind me than in front of me. So I want sex more often and I'm much more direct about what I want. ..My wife too.

I started the following thread to express much the same sentiment: Has Aging Made Sex a Greater Priority

 

[lowcollar]

At 66, I continue to have growing fantasies. I am fortunate to have a Mistress at times who entertains my deep desire to be pegged, fisted, pissed on etc. I would prefer sex more often. But, I am grateful for what I have and know a lot of men whose partners are rarely interested.

 

[saintth12]

Like you, I definitely feel a much greater sense of urgency b/c of my age (59). Every week I learn of a new friend/acquaintance who is diagnosed with a serious illness (like prostate or breast cancer) that makes sex either very difficult or at least a non-priority. When I hear of this it makes me wonder why my wife and I let even a SINGLE night go by without having some kind of sex, even if it's just masturbating beside each other before drifting off to sleep.

And yes, it's made me kinkier too, or more accurately, more open about my kinky interests.. Years ago I would have struggled to ask my wife to peg me or to let me rim her, etc... But her menopause led us to a sex therapist whom we saw ever other week for a year. I won't bore you with details of our therapy but since then I have NO qualms blurting out before leaving for work, or texting her later in the day, "hey, can I eat your pussy, then ass tonight?" or "Will you peg me tonight please?" Such texts always get a laugh and thumbs up emoji in reply.

I've come to realize that Sex is NOT over at 60, but it's foolish to not realize there is WAY more road behind me than in front of me. So I want sex more often and I'm much more direct about what I want. ..My wife too.

I started the following thread to express much the same sentiment: Has Aging Made Sex a Greater Priority

I'm 67 as of this writing and my wife is very straight-laced and religious. I get very aroused when put into an erotic humiliation circumstance, and I would love for her to put me in those compromising positions, but when I drop hints, like saying I saw someone in such a position and suggesting how terrible yet exciting that must have been for that person, she either doesn't respond or says something negative.

My humiliations are not extreme like some that I have read about. I get humiliated when I'm the only naked one in the room. Like at the dermatologist's office where he brings in the nurse and three female med students. I immediately get embarrassed and my embarrassment is shown with a raging hard-on, which only adds to my level of humiliation.

I also love having my feet tickled when tied down or locked in stocks. I suggested that we purchase a set of stocks and put them in the garage where she could lock me in them, and then invite friends and neighbors over to help tickle or just to watch and video me going insane. I have extremely ticklish feet. I would be clothed except for bare feet. She thought that was silly, although she had tickled me numerous times before. Maybe it's the tickling in public part she doesn't like.

I have contemplated sending her an email asking her to do things to me that I consider erotic and humiliating. I would hope that she would share the email with her friends who would now know about my deep dark desires but I wouldn't know which friends knew. I don't think she would read the entire email much less share it with anyone.

My ultimate desire for humiliation would be for her to invite all of her friends and mine, to come to my birthday party where I would be locked in stocks stark naked. I would be teased, tickled, laughed at, and made fun of the entire evening. That would be wonderful. I love my wife and she is my best friend. She's just not my compatible sex partner. She doesn't like intercourse since menopause. I haven't been laid in 17 years. Maybe that's her idea of humiliation.

 

[Britva415]

my desire to suck the absolutely gigantic dick of a young (legal) white twink goes unfulfilled because of the STD danger involved.

Get educated, maybe even talk to your doctor about this. Neither the risks nor the consequences are as grim as you fear.

EDIT:
Yeah. To answer your question, I also am done with not-acting on getting what I want. I can’t do everything I want to, because I’m still married and plan to stay married, and my wife has some boundaries. But she has already moved some boundaries, and she’s willing to try to let another one move. She’s just not ready yet but we talk about this stuff all the time and I get to do what I want within certain guardrails.

Including sucking dicks.

It’s really not that scary.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Agreed. Just take the plunge if you want to. I slowly get tired of not getting my asshole licked all the time or getting fucked in both holes by some horny shemales. I know I'm not getting any younger and I really want all of this.

 

[drewrnc]

I'm turning 65 soon and I just told my wife that my fantasy was for her to fuck a younger guy or to have a 3-some. I also told her that I want to go to Hedonism for some fun in the sun. I want her to experience something different sexually as we've been together for 40 years.

 

[RoryN]

like so many straight men, especially as we get older, my desire to suck the absolutely gigantic dick of a young (legal) white twink goes unfulfilled

Riiiiiiiight. And you formally called yourself "essentially straight". New status?

But this makes sense for someone who complains about a "wave of straight white man hatred" that doesn't exist, and thinks women exist to serve him:

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/thoughts-from-an-older-man.1582493/

Just another confused MAGAt.

 

[Lucien_Al]

I'm turning 65 soon and I just told my wife that my fantasy was for her to fuck a younger guy or to have a 3-some. I also told her that I want to go to Hedonism for some fun in the sun. I want her to experience something different sexually as we've been together for 40 years.

How did she respond?

 

[drewrnc]

How did she respond?

She doesn't think she could ever let another guy fuck her...good Irish/Catholic upbringing! I let her read a Lit story about wife sharing that could have been written by me. Married couple for 25yrs, mid 50's, guy wants to see his wife fuck another guy, meet a guy while on vacation, etc. I told her this is what I want. I told her I'm not interested in another woman and the reasons I want to see her with someone else...variety for her, enhance her pleasure by having someone different, etc.

I asked her if she knew anything about Hedonism. She thought it was just a sex resort. I told her about the reviews regarding Tantric massage and the freedom one feels about the clothing optional side of the resort. I'm going to have her read the Tripadvisor reviews...think I have a better chance at this than as she didn't just shoot me down. We'll see.

 

[Toddski]

My sex went downhill as soon as we had kids. Any affection for me was put on the back burner. As we got older a few medical issues with my wife eliminated more chances of sex. I started doing more research on how to please a woman. I was determined to get my wife to squirt. One rare time we were having sex I put out my best effort and I was rewarded with her telling it was her best orgasm. I thought I got her back to wanting more. Unfortunately our teenage son heard through the walls and he texted his older sister. Our daughter approached my wife and she felt humiliated. Again sex stopped.
As we aged she started menopause and she had no desire for sex. My wife is embarrassed of her body and has always dressed very conservative. Now I see a 57 year old woman dressing like a 75 old woman. I have tried suggesting cloths that are more revealing, sexier and younger styles.
I found several trans women who enjoy body and would fulfill my fantasies.
Unfortunately for myself we retired and moved to Iowa with a lower cost of living. I miss my Madam, she was a wonderful mistress and had her with me.
I recently downloaded the App Telegram and it listed my hairstylist who is a very sexy Trans woman. I reached out with a hi and next thing I know is she is telling she was afraid to tell me she was falling in love with me and realized how she wants me back.
Life is short and I like how she already want dress me in panties and be my Mistress and control my sex life. I am looking at should I do tans go enjoy sex again.