What exactly turns you on about your wife or girlfriend being with another man? Past or Present?

[strongnsensual]

She definitely has a thing for older

I'm about 20 years older, and suddenly I have a thing for her!

 

[Foolhen]

Involved no. I’d want them to enjoy each other fully. I’d like to watch or would be content watching through blink or having him send videos to me.

For example I’d love to watch a video taken from his pov of him sitting on my couch with her in lingerie eating his dick completely. My large mirror behind her so he can see her whole ass .

Another one having the camera placed under them while he has her on all four. I want to see his dick get buried down to his balls inside of her and hear her moan each time. I want to hear the sound of her wet pussy and her fat ass getting clapped.

Very hot. I wonder why?

There are a couple things I think of. One is sharing her. "You should see how incredible her pussy tastes. Doesn't it feel good on your cock?" The other thing is watching her, knowing her pussy is getting wet while she's sucking his cock. Seeing her gasp when he enters her. Holding her hands while he pounds her from behind until she has a loud orgasm. I think a part of it is being able to enjoy the whole process without the distraction of my own physical involvement. I always enjoy making her come first so I can enjoy it while I'm still fully aroused. I also love how sensitive she is after she comes and I love kissing her when she has the taste of cock in her mouth. I would also love to make her come again after she just has with another man, knowing that it has probably just made her hornier.

 

[zoso682001]

Very hot. I wonder why?

There are a couple things I think of. One is sharing her. "You should see how incredible her pussy tastes. Doesn't it feel good on your cock?" The other thing is watching her, knowing her pussy is getting wet while she's sucking his cock. Seeing her gasp when he enters her. Holding her hands while he pounds her from behind until she has a loud orgasm. I think a part of it is being able to enjoy the whole process without the distraction of my own physical involvement. I always enjoy making her come first so I can enjoy it while I'm still fully aroused. I also love how sensitive she is after she comes and I love kissing her when she has the taste of cock in her mouth. I would also love to make her come again after she just has with another man, knowing that it has probably just made her hornier.

Well said .

 

[remypare]

Having her for yourself is ideal. You can enjoy joy the "sexuality in motion" and eroticism for yourself. So is it a different form of the same desire?

I like to fly airplanes, but it's still fun to watch an airshow!

I think it would be incredibly erotic to watch my wife engaging in a mutually pleasurable activity with someone else. It would heighten the anticipation of the subsequent 'reclaim' sex and provide validation both that she is sexually desirable and has a sex drive independent of my own. But that's just me.

 

[Nellie60]

This is just me as well. Given I love to eat pussy and enjoy mutual masturbation, I would love to watch another man go down on her and make her cum again and again.

Then watch her handjob him excitedly just like she is with me while I am present.

Then I will do same and she will do the same immediately afterwards to me. There something really hot experiencing the intimacy straight after her touching another cock.

 

[NCWSLvr]

I’ve taken my wife to gloryholes, watched her get fucked in an adult bookstore, and just had a threesome with a stranger at a hotel (pre arranged) which was mostly me watching. The oddest thing is how natural and NOT weird it has been - probably because we’ve been together for 25 years and there is no emotional connection with these play partners, so it has just been fun and exciting. Seeing her embrace her sexuality and be free is the turn on.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Hey guys - ever think that sharing is your way of bragging?

Exactly!

 

[WonderPonder]

Cuck angst is a major factor for me in our hotwife cuckold lifestyle. My wife left this morning with our neighbor and third for a week to Punta Cana staying at an all inclusive couples only resort.
Cuck angst I feel is both such a sexual high and at the same time literally stomach churning.
She left her wedding rings here at home and we won't be communicating until she returns on Jan 5th. unless there's an emergency.
I think my masturbating this next week will be extremely intense. Plus I have the week off.
Our last playtime with pillow talk we both talked about the trip.

We've been married 31 years, together over 35 and solid but this trip could change the dynamic some.
Thankfully I have plans tonight and going out on NYE.

 

[MarionsLover]

It is a puzzle.
Maybe it's the other opposite extreme from my shy, restrained, inhibited wife. Wishing she was so open, horny and in touch with her sexuality that she'd like swing or be shared/gangbanged.
All the Wife Sharing/Hot Wife porn that verges into cuck humiliation is a turn off.
I'm OK with watching her get fucked, but not in a humiliating way, just in a "I'm cool with my wife having fun with her body and she's letting me watch" way. Just like I fantasize about her watching me fuck a her girlfriend.

 

[drewrnc]

It is a puzzle.
Maybe it's the other opposite extreme from my shy, restrained, inhibited wife. Wishing she was so open, horny and in touch with her sexuality that she'd like swing or be shared/gangbanged.
All the Wife Sharing/Hot Wife porn that verges into cuck humiliation is a turn off.
I'm OK with watching her get fucked, but not in a humiliating way, just in a "I'm cool with my wife having fun with her body and she's letting me watch" way. Just like I fantasize about her watching me fuck a her girlfriend.

Not into the humiliation... just want her to have a good time with another guy

 

[Leigh81]

Cuck angst is a major factor for me in our hotwife cuckold lifestyle. My wife left this morning with our neighbor and third for a week to Punta Cana staying at an all inclusive couples only resort.
Cuck angst I feel is both such a sexual high and at the same time literally stomach churning.
She left her wedding rings here at home and we won't be communicating until she returns on Jan 5th. unless there's an emergency.
I think my masturbating this next week will be extremely intense. Plus I have the week off.
Our last playtime with pillow talk we both talked about the trip.

We've been married 31 years, together over 35 and solid but this trip could change the dynamic some.
Thankfully I have plans tonight and going out on NYE.

You sure are a glutton for punishment W.
With no communication between you two, where they are it'll be like a honeymoon for them. Does it get your little dink hard knowing how romantic it will be for them being together on New Years eve??
Did your pillow talk consist of her becoming his?? I hope you enjoy your cuck angst torture of pain & pleasure.

 

[WonderPonder]

You sure are a glutton for punishment W.
With no communication between you two, where they are it'll be like a honeymoon for them. Does it get your little dink hard knowing how romantic it will be for them being together on New Years eve??
Did your pillow talk consist of her becoming his?? I hope you enjoy your cuck angst torture of pain & pleasure.

You know how to push my buttons Leigh. There was lots of different pillow talk fun and her body is already his. NYE at midnight I can only imagine them at the party in each other's arms kissing in the new year.

 

[NCWSLvr]

All the Wife Sharing/Hot Wife porn that verges into cuck humiliation is a turn off.
I'm OK with watching her get fucked, but not in a humiliating way, just in a "I'm cool with my wife having fun with her body and she's letting me watch" way. Just like I fantasize about her watching me fuck a her girlfriend.

Yup - Stag/Vixen dynamic here. Even Master/Slave. She is mine to give away - for her pleasure as well as mine. I’m in charge, I'm there the whole time. Some porn studios get that dynamic (luxure/dorcel network/hotwife/xxxhotwife) - anf thats the one I tend to watch with her, along with just general threesomes/gangbangs. She is turned on by me, and loves ME sharing her. I’m the winner at the end of the night - not the other guys.

You’d be surprised at how many unsolicited DMs we get about how they are going to fuck her so good and tell me how Im shit. That’s nowhere near our dynamic/energy.

 

[artgorden]

I love the talk. When she tells me how good his big dick is.

 

[Swuchrow]

My wife is seeing other men but provides me no details. This leaves me to imagine how she is pleasuring him and how he is pleasuring her. Knowing how sucks his cock, kisses him or encourages him fuck her in the ass is a huge turn on for me.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

My wife is seeing other men but provides me no details. This leaves me to imagine how she is pleasuring him and how he is pleasuring her. Knowing how sucks his cock, kisses him or encourages him fuck her in the ass is a huge turn on for me.

Not knowing the details would drive me batshit crazy.

 

[Swuchrow]

Not knowing the details would drive me batshit crazy.

Yes, it has made me nuts.

I am also bi, unknown to her. While she visits her bf I have tops come over and fuck me. I imagine the top his my wife’s bf and I totally slut out.

 

[conquen]

I may be a romantic but the only way I can process this is having the opportunity to watch my wife get off on something new. No humiliation, I’m not a cuck and would probably beat the shit out of someone trying to humiliate me while being blessed with the opportunity to please my wife. I would do anything for her.

 

[Sgts19]

I've seen, heard firsthand and second hand. If she's having a good time, it excites not only her but me. The different way she looks the different way her body moves the sounds and things she says make the whole experience better.

 

[van_delay]

Seeing her make faces or sounds that she's unable, or unwilling, to make with me.

 

[cubbies4vrs]

Seeing her make faces or sounds that she's unable, or unwilling, to make with me.

Thinking bout the same thing, imagining wife screaming about the dick she is getting

 

[SeaLevel]

Not knowing the details would drive me batshit crazy.

It's interesting how people are different. I am completely indifferent toward the details. That she had a good time is all I need to know.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Thinking bout the same thing, imagining wife screaming about the dick she is getting

It's interesting how people are different. I am completely indifferent toward the details. That she had a good time is all I need to know.

It's good for you. If I did this (not in a relationship, only role play with a fuck buddy), I don't see the point in not knowing the details, and in fact I'd want to watch if I'm to be involved.

Or I can just watch porn and find another fuck buddy while they fuck. It means nothing to me if I'm not directly involved.

 

[One_ping_only]

Seeing her pretty face in absolute exctasty and sexual bliss as she gets fucked nice and hard ........ I know exactly how sexy she'd look and I can hear her sexy moans and friends coming from her mouth hmmm

 

[JackStayII]

Hmmm, interesting question. With me, I've always had a propensity to be drawn to women with a bit of a reputation. When I was a senior in high school, there was this one little gal who was cute as a button with a nice figure. One day she was standing with two guys, who were laughing, and I heard one of them say to her, "You were so drunk Saturday night, B. and T. had your tits out, your panties off and was finger fucking you while you jacked both of them off! She didn't blush or get mad, she laughed and fired right back saying, "Yeah. And you left before you saw me suck them off and fuck both of them..."

I was mildly smitten with her. We were in several of the same classes, and she was always pleasant when I spoke to her, but that's all. When my wife and I met we knew a lot of the same people, she'd dated one of my best friends and I'd dated one of hers. We knew of each other but didn't really know each other. I had heard she had a bit of a reputation for going skinny-dipping with a bunch of boys, making out with them, letting them play with her tits and finger fuck her. And she'd given them hand-jobs and occasionally a blowjob but wouldn't go all the way. She was beyond terrified of getting pregnant.

When we'd officially met, and I put a name with a face, I was immediately drawn to her. Her tight body-shirt and low-riding flare legs jeans helped, but her personality! WOW! And fifty plus years later it's still WOW!