Bottoms, is your asshole a cunt or a pussy? Or not?

[Spoogecup]

He calls it my pussy and that's what it is to him... I identify with it as my pussy too while I'm with him....

 

[artgorden]

When I have big black hands on my hips he can call it whatever he wants

 

[Lucia_slt]

Wifey says that it'll turn it into a pussy once a man cums into it.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Sort of true.

 

[Escierto]

Sort of true.

Why sad?

 

[SPARTAN047]

Why sad?

I thought that was the 'hot AF so I'm sweating' emoji.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Hot Face​

A reddish-orange face with furrowed eyebrows, tongue stuck out, and beads of sweat, as if overheated from high temperatures. Number and position of sweat droplets vary by platforms. May also represent physical attractiveness (slang, hot).
Most platforms feature expressions that are variations on Anxious Face With Sweat or Sad but Relieved Face.
Hot Face was approved as part of Unicode 11.0 in 2018 under the name "Overheated Face" and added to Emoji 11.0 in 2018.

 

[Escierto]

I thought that was the 'hot AF so I'm sweating' emoji.

Yes you are right.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Yes you are right.

It does look sad, you're kind of right too.

 

[Silvermen]

Refer to it as my tight hole.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Fuck hole.

https://ibb.co/nw5Qs7w

 

[SissySalina]

It's what ever the person using it at the time wishes it to be!

 

[cdstefi]

For a long time, I resisted the idea of thinking of my asshole as a cunt or pussy for my partner's cock. I guess it was too much for me to completely accept being the "woman" in our sexual relationship. Of course my girlfriend had told me quite clearly in our earliest conversations, "I will be the man in bed and you will be the woman." What was so hard to understand about that?

I guess it felt threatening to me somehow to acknowledge this fact. One day, I sheepishly confessed to her that I fantasized she was impregnating me when she had her orgasm fucking me. She laughed and said, "I fantasize the exact same thing!"

So I had to admit that even though she might not like the words cunt or pussy, my asshole was providing the same purpose as a female cunt or pussy for her male cock. Since then, I have grown to accept the idea and by now I routinely think of my ass hole as a pussy.

What do other bottoms think? Can you relate to this idea or not? Why?

Don't think I'd ever refer to my asshole in fem terms. I don't have ovaries, female hormones or breasts (well just slight moobs maybe ). I have a functional cock and balls, I generate testosterone, body and facial hair.

As much as I enjoy wearing lingerie and adopting at least a superficial mantle of femininity, and taking a hard cock in my mouth or ass, there's no getting away from my genetics and psychological make up. I'm a guy, simple as.

 

[Escierto]

Don't think I'd ever refer to my asshole in fem terms. I don't have ovaries, female hormones or breasts (well just slight moobs maybe ). I have a functional cock and balls, I generate testosterone, body and facial hair.

As much as I enjoy wearing lingerie and adopting at least a superficial mantle of femininity, and taking a hard cock in my mouth or ass, there's no getting away from my genetics and psychological make up. I'm a guy, simple as.

Have any of your partners ever referred to your asshole in fem terms?

 

[cdstefi]

Have any of your partners ever referred to your asshole in fem terms?

Not that I'm aware of. It's kind of a thing I shut down before potentially meeting anyone because I know if they started calling it my pussy or whatever in the heat of the moment it'd be a turnoff.

I do like verbals when fucking, and to be told my ass feels great/tight/sexy etc, but call it a pussy or my cock a clitty and it's instant cold shower time. I want to be admired in my true colours as a sexy man, plain and simple.

 

[madlapper]

when im playing the role of a sissy and he calls my ass his pussy it turns me on.It is me being completely submissive to him as a fem.

 

[cdstefi]

when im playing the role of a sissy and he calls my ass his pussy it turns me on.It is me being completely submissive to him as a fem.

I think I prefer male terms because in some way it makes me feel more honestly homosexual when fucking a guy. I mean there's no role-playing involved, other than maybe the dressing in lingerie, but frankly I do that even just for a quick jerk session, it's a thing I do for me because it's my kink.

 

[Escierto]

Not that I'm aware of. It's kind of a thing I shut down before potentially meeting anyone because I know if they started calling it my pussy or whatever in the heat of the moment it'd be a turnoff.

I do like verbals when fucking, and to be told my ass feels great/tight/sexy etc, but call it a pussy or my cock a clitty and it's instant cold shower time. I want to be admired in my true colours as a sexy man, plain and simple.

Well stated.

 

[cdstefi]

Well stated.

I do sometimes feel like an outlier among CDs because so many do want to be treated as fem.

 

[Escierto]

I do sometimes feel like an outlier among CDs because so many do want to be treated as fem.

That is very true but it is nice to see a different perspective.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I suppose it's rare to find a sissy who still wants masculine terms, maybe they're usually femboys or TVs? They're traditionally made into women since women are seen as submissive and obedient, more likely to give pleasure instead of take it. And I've no idea why in the first place.

 

[Escierto]

I suppose it's rare to find a sissy who still wants masculine terms, maybe they're usually femboys or TVs? They're traditionally made into women since women are seen as submissive and obedient, more likely to give pleasure instead of take it. And I've no idea why in the first place.

True but someone may be a cross dresser without considering themself to be a sissy? In fact I have a lot of problems with the word sissy since people use it all over the place and there doesn't seem to be any accepted meaning.

 

[SPARTAN047]

True but someone may be a cross dresser without considering themself to be a sissy? In fact I have a lot of problems with the word sissy since people use it all over the place and there doesn't seem to be any accepted meaning.

Of course. There are plenty of MTF cross dressers who still identify as male who I have met. There are the TVs who get pleasure from dressing up, the TSs who feel they were born in the wrong body, etc.

I've noticed that there's no real description of a TS, TV, sissy, or even a femboy or tomgurl now. What I stated were traditional definitions used years ago, people go by what they think suits them. Even tomgurl used by some lovely trans folks here probably isn't a formal term.

 

[Escierto]

Of course. There are plenty of MTF cross dressers who still identify as male who I have met. There are the TVs who get pleasure from dressing up, the TSs who feel they were born in the wrong body, etc.

I've noticed that there's no real description of a TS, TV, sissy, or even a femboy or tomgurl now. What I stated were traditional definitions used years ago, people go by what they think suits them. Even tomgurl used by some lovely trans folks here probably isn't a formal term.

Yes, indeed. All these terms are used in many different ways and there does not seem to be any consistent meaning. I notice that my girlfriend does not use ANY of these words to describe herself. It's always transgender woman with the emphasis on the woman!

 

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