If my husband knows I am cheating, will it turn him into a cuck?

[808guy]

Curious how do you like cheating. That maybe the thrill and primalness is the cheating

 

[SPARTAN047]

Yes, I suppose he's a cuckold when he doesn't know about it. Not necessarily a willing one.

If he knows about it and puts up with it, he's a wittol. A tame cuckold though maybe unwilling.

 

[Matt3427]

Hi

When I posted in BDSM discussion that how my affair likely have turned me into a sub. Many users suggested I should let my husband know about this.
I am now realizing maybe my worse fear is not he will not accept this. But that 'he will' and he will actively try to either change himself to be dom, a task in which he had tried before and failed. Or he will change himself into a cuck.
I guess that's my worse fear. Because like women in your story, I will not like my husband to know what I am upto. Or what is being done to me. Not only he will feel 'it's not safe' in terms of hardcore, but he will also feel emasculated.
I know he is not alpha man type, but he is still confident at work, still a stable person. Very career oriented. Even though we both earn, he insists on he paying for most of the bills and I save for my parents etc.
Last thing I want that he allocating his mental energy to his wife's exploits.
I think telling my husband would be a lose -lose situation.

I am Indian, married. Living in UK. Doctor by profession.

Related my treads in BDSM discussion

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...en-turned-sub-during-or-after-affair.1613409/

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...-during-or-after-affair.1613409/post-99214538

Everyone reacts differently to this. I am a husband to a wife that sees another man. It was a shock in our 20s when I found out she had cheated. Once we got past that it has become our biggest turn on and has kept our sex life alive.

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

Only in W. VA

 

[lily_wall_]

I think the best outcome for you is if he's into open relationships. Even then it sounds like he'll be worrying for you if he knows the details of your bdsm nights.

None of us know him like you do. So whether you should talk, or ease him into this and see his reaction before confessing, or just keep it secret...will all depend on how you think he'll react. But be careful cause once the cat is out of the bag, there's no putting it back

So all that said... If your only two options are tell him or not to tell him, then I'd suggest not to tell him

 

[likitisplit]

Hi

When I posted in BDSM discussion that how my affair likely have turned me into a sub. Many users suggested I should let my husband know about this.
I am now realizing maybe my worse fear is not he will not accept this. But that 'he will' and he will actively try to either change himself to be dom, a task in which he had tried before and failed. Or he will change himself into a cuck.
I guess that's my worse fear. Because like women in your story, I will not like my husband to know what I am upto. Or what is being done to me. Not only he will feel 'it's not safe' in terms of hardcore, but he will also feel emasculated.
I know he is not alpha man type, but he is still confident at work, still a stable person. Very career oriented. Even though we both earn, he insists on he paying for most of the bills and I save for my parents etc.
Last thing I want that he allocating his mental energy to his wife's exploits.
I think telling my husband would be a lose -lose situation.

I am Indian, married. Living in UK. Doctor by profession.

Related my treads in BDSM discussion

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...en-turned-sub-during-or-after-affair.1613409/

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...-during-or-after-affair.1613409/post-99214538

do you want him to?

 

[Richelieujuniour]

Hi

When I posted in BDSM discussion that how my affair likely have turned me into a sub. Many users suggested I should let my husband know about this.
I am now realizing maybe my worse fear is not he will not accept this. But that 'he will' and he will actively try to either change himself to be dom, a task in which he had tried before and failed. Or he will change himself into a cuck.
I guess that's my worse fear. Because like women in your story, I will not like my husband to know what I am upto. Or what is being done to me. Not only he will feel 'it's not safe' in terms of hardcore, but he will also feel emasculated.
I know he is not alpha man type, but he is still confident at work, still a stable person. Very career oriented. Even though we both earn, he insists on he paying for most of the bills and I save for my parents etc.
Last thing I want that he allocating his mental energy to his wife's exploits.
I think telling my husband would be a lose -lose situation.

I am Indian, married. Living in UK. Doctor by profession.

Related my treads in BDSM discussion

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...en-turned-sub-during-or-after-affair.1613409/

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...-during-or-after-affair.1613409/post-99214538

You’ e already cuckolded him.

Let him respond!

Related issue:

Why do I find so many Indian wives available? Is this new, or have they always been on the prowl for white dick and I’m only just now catching on

 

[lily_wall_]

It might be the interracial thing. Whites craving bbc, asians craving bwc etc. I'm just guessing

 

[robbiewillsucku]

How to turn hubby into a sub sissy-fem cd bimale cuckold in six weeks - September 2024.

Ladies - you should have lots of lovers. You should be able to fuck any cock you want at any time you want then ride hubby face while you share the details. You want a better husband then turn your hubby into a submissive sissy-fem crossdresser bimale cuckold that craves pleasing you. Here is a plan to make this happen:

(1) When you ride his cock - put your finger in his mouth and tell him to suck - soon you will be telling him to suck your finger like a cock. You need to plan to suck his cock 4 to 7 times a week for 6 weeks. Suck his cock and finger his ass (have lube ready) - tell him if he want his cock to be sucked then expect to be fingered. After you suck him off be sure to give him a snowball kiss each time.

Every night - tell him to go get ready cause you want to suck his cock. He will have his cock and balls and ass nice and clean and his ass lubed. Then suck his cock while you finger his ass - talk smut to him - on your ass opens like a pussy - from now-on your ass will be a sissy-pussy. Then always talk about his sissy-pussy.

Make him admit that he likes you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy. Second week you can reach up and play with his tits while you suck his cock and tell him you are going to suck his tits like you suck a cock. Bounce your head on his tit when you suck his tit. Soon you will be telling him to suck your tit like a cock - make him fantasize about sucking your tit like a cock - then sucking a cock cause you told him to suck a cock.

Every night you suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy - very soon you can tell his body will submit to you and his sissy-pussy will open for you - craving you to finger him like a pussy.

(2) snowball kisses: when you suck off his cock and you have cum in your mouth then kiss him and share some cum with him. Tell him if he likes his cock sucked then he better get used to tasting cum. Good training for him to get where he will take cum from you. Someday you may be sucking a cock in front of him and then share a snowball kiss. Good fantasy to make him think about you sucking a cock in front of him - soon he will be sucking a cock with you.

(3) After a week of you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy - his body will be craving you. Craving you to suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy. His sissy-pussy will be responding like a pussy. Open for you - pushing himself to your finger - second week add more lube and add more fingers. Talk smut to him always. Oh you like a second finger in your sissy-pussy. Then add a third finger. Do you want me to use a dildo on your sissy-pussy - make him ask for it. Someday I am going to invite a man here with a big cock and have him fuck your sissy-pussy while I watch. He will agree to anything while you are sucking his cock with three fingers in his sissy-pussy. Yes you can use a toy on him on the third week but make him ask for it.

(4) While you suck his tits - make him talk to you - make him ask you to keep sucking his tits - males will do anything while you are stroking his cock and sucking his cock. I am going to suck your tits and make your tits larger - are you ok with this - just in three weeks your tits are alot larger now. Soon you will be wearing a bra to bed. Fourth week you know you control him - you can use breast pump or use a standard cock pump. Take the rubber off and put the hard plastic tub on his tits and pump up. You can do this on your tits also. You have to keep fingering his sissy-pussy everynight or if you want tease him that are not going to suck his cock tonight if he has not be a good gurl.

(5) By now you know you can control him and he will do most anything you say. Just tell him you laid out clothes on the bed for him to wear - panties bra sundress and 2in heels - need to be wide not to hurt his toes. That you expect him to wear a nitie to bed every night and panties. include bra if you wish. Time to do some make up also. You do like me sucking your cock every night - say it back to me - good gurl.

(6) you keep sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy - soon you will be fucking him with a toy then a larger toy. Oh they have the very thin toys that pump up so it does not hurt at all - then go to be bigger toy. Tell him time to go shopping for a strapon cock cause you want to fuck him like a woman and you want him to feel like a woman being fucked.

(7) his sissy-pussy will respond like a pussy now - give him just a little more than he can handle then let him adjust to the size then push it in a little deeper - do that over and over to make him take more and more toy cock. Then go to a larger toy - make him ask for a larger toy - make him say yes he needs more cock. When you fuck him with a strapon - do you want him to enjoy it or do you want to make him hurt alittle?

(8) a pussy or a sissy-pussy can handle a bigger toy cock then a real cock or a strapon cock - when you are pushing against his body and pushing your strapon cock into his sissy-pussy --- it feels so real and so exciting and so wonderful.

Never just start with a strapon cock - like a woman - always work up to it. After you have fucked him about 30 times then you can tell him -- someday I am going to just bend you over - put some lube on your sissy-pussy and fuck you - make you take my strapon cock and more than you can handle without getting you loosen up -- you want that - make him say it back to you.

(9) it is exciting to think of hubby wearing a bra and panties and sundress and 2in heels to do the housework.

After six weeks of sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy every night -- you will have him so hooked and willing to do anything you want. You can say - get naked and on your knees and lick my pussy till I cum and he will do it.

Let him know you want him to ask and beg to be fingered more and more and to be fucked more and more with a toy. That you want him to ask to be fucked by you with a strapon cock.

Remind him that he agreed to do anything you wanted to him and you promised him more and more sex and that his cock would be happier if he says yes to everything you want.

(10) Once you make him suck a cock and be fucked by a cock - he will want more and more cock but you need to push him to do it more and more --- he will not feel like he can ask for it like he can with you using a toy on him.

Make him feel safe and loved and make him ask for more cock - make him say that he likes sucking cocks and that he likes being fucked like a woman. That he likes cum in his mouth and in his sissy-pussy.

Do you want him to suck cocks for you and take cocks in his sissy-pussy??? Do you want to be able to fuck any cock you want 1on1 or 3way? Then have hubby lick your pussy clean while you share the details with him.

The key wording now is - hubby you understand you need to follow my orders to get your cock sucked.

I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page on fetlife - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail -- I also chat on google-chat.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

My wife told me she needed men and I told her deserves to have sex with whomever she wants. And yes I am a cuck. Was was raised a cuck as I was often on the sofa or other room as my mother had her lovers and guess I just knew that was natural. Just please if you go that route do not stop letting your husband see or taste your vagina or masturbate him on occasion. He deserves that

 

[RoanMtn]

I think telling my husband would be a lose -lose situation.

Everyone responds differently. In my case I would embrace being cuckolded. I would love to wear sexy lingerie and suck your lover's cock to get him nice and hard for you. Afterwards, I would lick his cock clean, and clean your pussy with my tongue and give you another orgasm.

 

[Cuddlycarebear]

My wife told me she needed men and I told her deserves to have sex with whomever she wants. And yes I am a cuck. Was was raised a cuck as I was often on the sofa or other room as my mother had her lovers and guess I just knew that was natural. Just please if you go that route do not stop letting your husband see or taste your vagina or masturbate him on occasion. He deserves that

I have been interested in finding a couple that i could chat and flirt with both. Also would be interested in meeting later on.

 

[TonyF862]

Perhaps we need several different terms for cuckolds. For some men it is just being willing to share or let their wife explore her sexuality. More of an open marriage than a cuckold situation.

This description fits us (wife and I). When we first started exploring swinging, I was not sure how I'd react if she were to get with another guy - even a blowjob or titty fuck. Now, after watching her fuck and suck other guys, I can honestly say I love it and it really turns me on. Not because it is some submissive/cuck thing, but because the thought/visual of my gorgeous lover being pleasured and WANTING to be pleasured is the ultimate turn on. And she has admitted to enjoying watching me fuck other women - but with her she REALLY has to like/trust the woman.

So I'm with you, in that I dont think it all falls into "Cuckold" but is very multi-dimensional/layered.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Perhaps, we also have stag vixen, and the hardly known (archaic) term wittol. That should be the one applied to most 'cuckolds' here and in porn.

 

[Islander55]

This description fits us (wife and I). When we first started exploring swinging, I was not sure how I'd react if she were to get with another guy - even a blowjob or titty fuck. Now, after watching her fuck and suck other guys, I can honestly say I love it and it really turns me on. Not because it is some submissive/cuck thing, but because the thought/visual of my gorgeous lover being pleasured and WANTING to be pleasured is the ultimate turn on. And she has admitted to enjoying watching me fuck other women - but with her she REALLY has to like/trust the woman.

So I'm with you, in that I dont think it all falls into "Cuckold" but is very multi-dimensional/layered.

You do not need to be sexually exclusive to have a loving relationship. Swinging can be a lot of fun if both are into it and add another dimension to marital sex as well.

 

[Playblues2020]

You do not need to be sexually exclusive to have a loving relationship. Swinging can be a lot of fun if both are into it and add another dimension to marital sex as well.

You and hubby into swinging?

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

My wife told me she needed men and I told her deserves to have sex with whomever she wants. And yes I am a cuck. Was was raised a cuck as I was often on the sofa or other room as my mother had her lovers and guess I just knew that was natural. Just please if you go that route do not stop letting your husband see or taste your vagina or masturbate him on occasion. He deserves that

Damn that's hot it's a shame that you couldn't watch your mother get fucked by all those men or suck their cocks to get them good and hard for her.

 

[lil_jenni]

Perhaps we need several different terms for cuckolds. For some men it is just being willing to share or let their wife explore her sexuality. More of an open marriage than a cuckold situation.

My thoughts exactly.

 

[lil_jenni]

The way I think about it is that being a cuckold is a description and being a "cuck" is a fetish. And even so, I think the use of cuckold as a description is archaic and rooted in a sexist past where sexual access to a wife was seen as a husband's to control (and a property interest at common law (English legal tradition)). A wife outside of that control was a social stigma for the husband. This should be nonsense today, of course, except for in a fetish sense.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I think if everyone's willing it's great no matter what terms are used , and there should be more cuckqueans since it's common enough too with how jealous women can also get when another woman looks at her man.

A husband isn't exclusively his wife's property and she isn't his, this would include money and everything else. So if both are agreed on sharing, it's workable whether it goes one way or both.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

You should tell him and see

 

[TonyF862]

The way I think about it is that being a cuckold is a description and being a "cuck" is a fetish. And even so, I think the use of cuckold as a description is archaic and rooted in a sexist past where sexual access to a wife was seen as a husband's to control (and a property interest at common law (English legal tradition)). A wife outside of that control was a social stigma for the husband. This should be nonsense today, of course, except for in a fetish sense.

Agree. For me at least it's about whether or not she enjoys the humiliation. for me that is the diff between a 'cuck' and simply an open relationship

 

[Easypeter]

My wife goes out with girlfriends and screws around . I don’t mind and she denies it . It’s okay as long as she doesn’t push it down my throat . It turns me on but being humiliated by a guy or woman will never work

 

[doctorukwife]

You’ e already cuckolded him.

Let him respond!

Related issue:

Why do I find so many Indian wives available? Is this new, or have they always been on the prowl for white dick and I’m only just now catching on

This sounds bit racist though

 

[amigayorbi]

You’ e already cuckolded him.

Let him respond!

Related issue:

Why do I find so many Indian wives available? Is this new, or have they always been on the prowl for white dick and I’m only just now catching on

It's certainly on the rise! You may be surprised! I always hope my Indian wife would have white dick one day! and others too!