Trans F Who Top

[J1biboi]

They got to be hiding or incredibly passable!

I've lived here my whole life. so I find it hard to believe too.

 

[2tallpaul]

In the northeast, (and, oddly, in the Midwest) they're visible.

The Midwest has Boystown in the Chicago area. More than you think of a trans population. My girlfriend put several of us together for a support group. Places like Nashville, Ashville etc. 5'10" and easily passable. Built naturally fem to begin with. With HRT there is no thought to topping. Just another human getting by

 

[lovingpantyboy]

Hi I'm a trans lady with a likely not exciting answer to how I like "topping" -- I assume in this context you mean, penetrating with a penis? I don't like it at all. The first few times I did it with my wife when I started transitioning, it was .. kinda funny actually. Like, "ha I'm your wife now and I'm fucking you with my wife-dick, lol." It was still enjoyable, it just ... felt maybe a little silly?

Until I started hormone therapy. I started feeling more connected to my true feminine self, and PIV sex started feeling weird. HRT does interesting things to the anatomy too, so the sensations of PIV sex were ... different. And the sensations didn't really map as strongly to my sexual response. It was like ... how it felt when I wore a condom that was too big for me. There's slipping and sliding and all that cool stuff, but like ... it's not making me cum?

Soon after, no kind of stroking or penetrating would even remotely do much for me. Now, vibrators are the only way I can "get there."

I've had an orchiectomy (removal of the testicles), which even further changes how everything works. Pre-orchi, when I'd orgasm, I'd ejaculate some. Not a lot, but a little. Post-orchi, all I get is a small dribble of whatever my prostate produces. It feels (and tastes I think?) like pre-cum, for those curious.

Sorry if that wasn't the kind of hot & sexy answer people are looking for, but that's my honest experience.

Thanks for an honest answer, it’s informative and explains why other than in porn why most trans women don’t get anything from that type of intercourse

 

[SPARTAN047]

I wish they were at least switch but the HRT can change a lot of things about trans girls. I'll try to update everyone when mine starts.

 

[Escierto]

Thanks for an honest answer, it’s informative and explains why other than in porn why most trans women don’t get anything from that type of intercourse

True. I literally chatted with hundreds of trans women before I found my girlfriend. She is a rare bird but I love her!

 

[richdon03]

In the northeast, (and, oddly, in the Midwest) they're visible.

I recently moved to a very "conservative" state, in the Midwest that BORDERS a super-conservative Midwestern state. In the latter (Indiana), I come across trans women on about 90% of my visits - generally, in retail stores. Most recently, we met a very attractive, young girl, at the local grocery store. My son had even commented on her eyes. She was very, VERY cute (I couldn't take my eyes off of her), and almost imperceptible, but for her height, body-shape and slight bass in her voice. My son was shocked, when I pointed it out. She couldn't have been older than 20. In my neighboring home state, I see them at my local grocery store, and around town, with surprising regulatory. I never saw them, this frequently, in VERY liberal southern New England.

 

[neighbourly]

Flip it about and take turns

 

[Escierto]

I recently moved to a very "conservative" state, in the Midwest that BORDERS a super-conservative Midwestern state. In the latter (Indiana), I come across trans women on about 90% of my visits - generally, in retail stores. Most recently, we met a very attractive, young girl, at the local grocery store. My son had even commented on her eyes. She was very, VERY cute (I couldn't take my eyes off of her), and almost imperceptible, but for her height, body-shape and slight base in her voice. My son was shocked, when I pointed it out. She couldn't have been older than 20. In my neighboring home state, I see them at my local grocery store, and around town, with surprising regulatory. I never saw them, this frequently, in VERY liberal southern New England.

This is truly a mystery. Why wouldn't they go to more progressive states to live? Indiana? Family and support structure?

 

[richdon03]

This is truly a mystery. Why wouldn't they go to more progressive states to live? Indiana? Family and support structure?

I've noticed something odd about the so-called "conservative" states. In almost every "negative" (to a right-winger) aspect, things tend to be far more pronounced, in those states, than in the "blue" states. Crime rates, gun violence (because EVERYBODY is packin'), abortions, divorce, sex crimes, trans visibility. . . you name it. Even drug use. What they have far less of, though, is pan-handlers. Most of them tend to be white men. . . with some sort of substance-abuse problem. As to the statement about Indiana: Who knows? Oklahoma has a few
"loud and proud" trans women, too. Some of them really, REALLY hot. Odd.

 

[Escierto]

I've noticed something odd about the so-called "conservative" states. In almost every "negative" (to a right-winger) aspect, things tend to be far more pronounced, in those states, than in the "blue" states. Crime rates, gun violence (because EVERYBODY is packin'), abortions, divorce, sex crimes, trans visibility. . . you name it. Even drug use. What they have far less of, though, is pan-handlers. Most of them tend to be white men. . . with some sort of substance-abuse problem. As to the statement about Indiana: Who knows? Oklahoma has a few
"loud and proud" trans women, too. Some of them really, REALLY hot. Odd.

Yes, you are right. All the things you named occur much more often in those states.