Trans F Who Top

[CharlieCharlie32]

Hi there

32 bi male here, would love to talk to trans ladies especially about this topic

 

[james2346]

Hi there

32 bi male here, would love to talk to trans ladies especially about this topic

I would like to talk about this as well

 

[Escierto]

My transgender girlfriend is a pure top and it’s the last thing she ever wants to talk about.

 

[FL30]

There was already a thread on this subject. Sometimes you have to go past the first page.

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/trans-ladies-that-like-topping.1586351/

 

[htobeme5]

My transgender girlfriend is a pure top and it’s the last thing she ever wants to talk about.

ever drip pee in your panties after intercoarse??

 

[Missmister]

i would love to e topped by a trans.

 

[jakie69]

ever drip pee in your panties after intercoarse??

Funny you should ask this, I noticed this happened the last time I topped. I don’t top usually, I’m pure bottom but occasionally when I’m at the sauna/bathhouse for tgirl day there’s a beautiful girl who I just need to fuck. The last time it happened we were both wearing lingerie, she fucked me first but I needed to have her, there was just something about her that really turned me on so much, really pushed me over the edge.

 

[htobeme5]

Funny you should ask this, I noticed this happened the last time I topped. I don’t top usually, I’m pure bottom but occasionally when I’m at the sauna/bathhouse for tgirl day there’s a beautiful girl who I just need to fuck. The last time it happened we were both wearing lingerie, she fucked me first but I needed to have her, there was just something about her that really turned me on so much, really pushed me over the edge.

she caused you to lleak after she fucked you or vice versa, i am new to bareback in my ass.

 

[Escierto]

Funny you should ask this, I noticed this happened the last time I topped. I don’t top usually, I’m pure bottom but occasionally when I’m at the sauna/bathhouse for tgirl day there’s a beautiful girl who I just need to fuck. The last time it happened we were both wearing lingerie, she fucked me first but I needed to have her, there was just something about her that really turned me on so much, really pushed me over the edge.

Tgirl day at the bathhouse? What is that all about? You really make me curious!

 

[Missmister]

ever drip pee in your panties after intercoarse??

i drip in my panties a lot, its not pee usually....

 

[jakie69]

Tgirl day at the bathhouse? What is that all about? You really make me curious!

They have themed days at the local saunas/bathouses tgirl days, bears & daddies, nude, twink that kind of thing, they’re usually a lot of fun, let’s people who are looking for certain fetishes explore their desires.

 

[Escierto]

They have themed days at the local saunas/bathouses tgirl days, bears & daddies, nude, twink that kind of thing, they’re usually a lot of fun, let’s people who are looking for certain fetishes explore their desires.

I must have a limited imagination. I never would have thought of this.

 

[htobeme5]

i drip in my panties a lot, its not pee usually....

is it semen? or baby paste?

 

[Missmister]

is it semen? or baby paste?

semen and precum, want some?

 

[CatGirl69]

Hi I'm a trans lady with a likely not exciting answer to how I like "topping" -- I assume in this context you mean, penetrating with a penis? I don't like it at all. The first few times I did it with my wife when I started transitioning, it was .. kinda funny actually. Like, "ha I'm your wife now and I'm fucking you with my wife-dick, lol." It was still enjoyable, it just ... felt maybe a little silly?

Until I started hormone therapy. I started feeling more connected to my true feminine self, and PIV sex started feeling weird. HRT does interesting things to the anatomy too, so the sensations of PIV sex were ... different. And the sensations didn't really map as strongly to my sexual response. It was like ... how it felt when I wore a condom that was too big for me. There's slipping and sliding and all that cool stuff, but like ... it's not making me cum?

Soon after, no kind of stroking or penetrating would even remotely do much for me. Now, vibrators are the only way I can "get there."

I've had an orchiectomy (removal of the testicles), which even further changes how everything works. Pre-orchi, when I'd orgasm, I'd ejaculate some. Not a lot, but a little. Post-orchi, all I get is a small dribble of whatever my prostate produces. It feels (and tastes I think?) like pre-cum, for those curious.

Sorry if that wasn't the kind of hot & sexy answer people are looking for, but that's my honest experience.

 

[Renee1967]

Hi there

32 bi male here, would love to talk to trans ladies especially about this topic

Very uncommon for most of us, but for the right guy, one might get encouraged. Don't believe the pornography videos.

Now we're talking

 

[Renee1967]

Hi there

32 bi male here, would love to talk to trans ladies especially about this topic

very uncommon for most of us, but for the right guy, one might get encouraged

Hi I'm a trans lady with a likely not exciting answer to how I like "topping" -- I assume in this context you mean, penetrating with a penis? I don't like it at all. The first few times I did it with my wife when I started transitioning, it was .. kinda funny actually. Like, "ha I'm your wife now and I'm fucking you with my wife-dick, lol." It was still enjoyable, it just ... felt maybe a little silly?

Until I started hormone therapy. I started feeling more connected to my true feminine self, and PIV sex started feeling weird. HRT does interesting things to the anatomy too, so the sensations of PIV sex were ... different. And the sensations didn't really map as strongly to my sexual response. It was like ... how it felt when I wore a condom that was too big for me. There's slipping and sliding and all that cool stuff, but like ... it's not making me cum?

Soon after, no kind of stroking or penetrating would even remotely do much for me. Now, vibrators are the only way I can "get there."

I've had an orchiectomy (removal of the testicles), which even further changes how everything works. Pre-orchi, when I'd orgasm, I'd ejaculate some. Not a lot, but a little. Post-orchi, all I get is a small dribble of whatever my prostate produces. It feels (and tastes I think?) like pre-cum, for those curious.

Sorry if that wasn't the kind of hot & sexy answer people are looking for, but that's my honest experience.

precum is nice, but as a trans girl, I agree: topping feels abnormal and weird

 

[Renee1967]

My transgender girlfriend is a pure top and it’s the last thing she ever wants to talk about.

there's always the exception that proves the rule; trans girls rarely top

 

[Escierto]

there's always the exception that proves the rule; trans girls rarely top

Very true. I think in my girlfriends case, the fact that she doesn't take hormones and doesn't suffer from dysphoria about her body makes her unique.

 

[CatGirl69]

Very true. I think in my girlfriends case, the fact that she doesn't take hormones and doesn't suffer from dysphoria about her body makes her unique.

Yeah, we're all of us different! And I think that's awesome. Gender and sexuality are sooooooo complex and weird and fascinating and I love it. =D

 

[KinkStevens]

I call BS. There a PLENTY of trans girls who love to top. I know first hand. Don’t let one person’s preference fuck up your fantasy. As a matter of fact I’ve met more that are verse. or like to top, then exclusive bottoms.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I might have to move countries for this because I meet no TSs on HRT or anything.

https://t.ashemaletube.com/images/2013-01/46/50e8054654a91/50e8054654a91-full-10.jpg

Every time I see a sexy top or Domme trans girl, I get so damn horny. I'll be trying for HRT myself.

 

[Escierto]

The images that we see in porn are not representative of real life. Guys want to see trans actresses who top so that's what they get.

When I was searching for my little unicorn I was curious about how many trans women were tops, versatile or bottoms. Some of the dating sites don't contain that information except in a users profile text but some of the dating sites DID collect that information.

From my data queries I found that top trans women were about 5%, versatile were about 55% and bottoms were 40%. I was very surprised at the number of versatile women but in talking with some of the women themselves, I found that many of them were bottoms but they put versatile in the hope of appealing to a wider audience of men.

Interestingly enough when I queried the data on men interested in trans women, I found 5% of them were bottoms while the numbers for versatile and top were 55% and 40% respectively.

So there was about a nice match between the men and women in percentages of top, versatile and bottom.

The other thing I noticed in chatting with literally hundreds of women was how vocal many bottom transgender women were about bottom guys. In their profiles they would routinely say "No bottom guys!" or "Real men only - no bottoms!". Bottom transgender women hate bottom men and they are not too happy with the small percentage of trans women who are tops seeing them as less feminine because they top.

My girlfriend NEVER discloses the fact that she is a top to even her closest gay and trans friends. She does not want to be judged for her orientation and she knows that she would be.

The only people that she shares this fact with are the trans hookers that we have chatted with (they are fun to talk to!). They are non judgmental and some of them even high five her and congratulate her when they discover she is a top. "You go girl!" or "Get it, girl" is a common response.

 

[CatGirl69]

That's so cool, thanks for sharing! I'm still not entirely which side of the coin I am ... I'm still figuring things out, and that's difficult and time consuming (but fun when I get results!). I think I'm leaning towards being a verse? Like, my thingy isn't really much use lately except as a sensory organ, but I'm comfortable taking the initiative and being the "giver" (especially fingers & mouth!). My wife and I are looking forward to trying out the strap-on harness we recently purchased.

[drake meme]
fucking my wife with my penis
fucking my wife with a strap-on

 

[Escierto]

The other thing I remember from my search is the absolute reluctance trans women have about discussing sexual role. They hate talking about it and some of them insisted that it should not matter. Really?

How happy are two bottoms or two tops? Yes, yes, they could work through it and reach some workable compromise but how much easier is it for a couple like me and my girlfriend? Her sexual desires mirror my own desires completely. On to more important matters!

The best profiles were those that took the guesswork or awkward discussion off the table. When my girlfriend had "Active for Passive" as her profile caption, I clearly knew what she was looking for. If only everyone were so direct!