Admitting to your S.O.

[BiguyinOC69]

I've been with my GF, Stacy, for almost 5 years now, we met at a swingers party my TG friends took me to.
They were also lovers of mine before I met and started dating Stacy. We still go to swinger parties together where she loves being gang banged, bringing me her cum filled pussy to eat.
Our sex life is the best I've ever had except for one thing, I want to have my TG friends fuck me in front of her while I'm eating or fucking her.
Stacy has no problem with using small toys in my boipussy, my words not hers, while blowing me.

How do I approach this with her without losing her?

 

[BiguyinOC69]

BTW, let me add that we, Stacy and I, have had foursomes with the gurls, Becky and Anna, and I have played with them without Stacy.

 

[BiguyinOC69]

Well, don't have to admit it to my GF, Stacy, as she ran into Becky and Anna yesterday while shopping at VS.
She loves it, and so do I, when I wear panties, especially thongs. While she was picking out some new ones for me, she ran into the gurls who were doing some "black Friday" shopping themselves.
My GF, Stacy, is petite at 5'1", 110lbs while I'm 6'5", 225 lbs. Most of the thongs and Brazilians she had were in my size, not hers.
Anna saw them first and said, I'll bet he looks hot in those. Wish I could see him wearing them again.
Stacy looked at her puzzled when Becky chimed in and said, he used to wear them for us as well. Didn't he tell you we used to be lovers?

 

[meme62626]

Yes, go on?

 

[SCRob95060]

A girlfriend years ago jokingly asked if we had a threesome with another guy, would I touch his cock or not. I think she expected a different response from me. I didn’t hesitate and just said yes. I admitted that I would do more than just touch his cock. She liked that.

 

[kLangleybi]

My wife is well aware that I want to suck cock but, although she accepts that without being grossed out, she doesn't offer her consent. Which is a tad annoying as she is also bi-curious and has my absolute consent to have a lady lover.

 

[NCWSLvr]

Before I dated my wife, I had let her know that I sucked cocks at gloryholes. She was pretty cool about it. When we finally got together, my Christmas present was permission to continue. Being open about your desires is how it should be. As much as I played around, I’ve never considered myself gay or bi, just a pervert who likes lots of types of sex. I accept all my wives desires and she accepts mine. No secrets.

 

[klippert]

I would think this would be the easiest one... You her at a swingers party your shemale friends took you to. She's never asked you about them... or inquired if you were bi...

 

[SPARTAN047]

So it's already happened?

 

[Easypeter]

Sounds like fun to me . Your friends take you in the heat of passion . If she’s mad about the things that took place , you can claim you didn’t want it to happen . Keeping it to yourself that a fantasy has been taken care of .

 

[write_or_wrong]

Before I dated my wife, I had let her know that I sucked cocks at gloryholes. She was pretty cool about it. When we finally got together, my Christmas present was permission to continue. Being open about your desires is how it should be. As much as I played around, I’ve never considered myself gay or bi, just a pervert who likes lots of types of sex. I accept all my wives desires and she accepts mine. No secrets.

I believe you have the right idea. Ditch the ambiguous labels and just concentrate on what you like to do. And, being open about it, which I know isn't always easy, saves so much frustration later. If you're with a non-match, rip off the Band-Aid now. It will hurt more later when you try to remove it millimeter by millimeter.

 

[KarinSoftly]

It was after about 3 years of marriage that my wife saw the hints of my fem desires and I opened up.

 

[muycurioso]

A girlfriend years ago jokingly asked if we had a threesome with another guy, would I touch his cock or not. I think she expected a different response from me. I didn’t hesitate and just said yes. I admitted that I would do more than just touch his cock. She liked that.

I would have answered the same.