Sex & Shenanigans

[BrendaBear]

Oh, I know it, and I love the power exchange bit, something that really opened up for me more here on Lit. And I don't have any judgement or negative feelings in any way for those who love that term.

But sort of like Brussels sprouts: just not really for me.

Which part? The power exchange or daddy? Or both?

 

[MindYaBitness]

Oh, I know it, and I love the power exchange bit, something that really opened up for me more here on Lit. And I don't have any judgement or negative feelings in any way for those who love that term.

But sort of like Brussels sprouts: just not really for me.

I'm sorry, you are now in the penalty box with @Mr_bogey . Not liking Brussel Sprouts is a cardinal sin!

 

[UnquietDreams]

it works for me, but its still a mask...im naturally dominant and a nurturer/caregiver, so it works,

I have a lot of the same dynamic. I joke that I am a gentleDom...

 

[TXRafe]

I'm sorry, you are now in the penalty box with @Mr_bogey . Not liking Brussel Sprouts is a cardinal sin!

https://media.tenor.com/ZykHOca_E2AAAAAM/mark-cuban-shark-tank.gif

 

[__Nathan1968]

I like "sir."

I find nothing hotter than having her call me by my name.

 

[TXRafe]

I have a lot of the same dynamic. I joke that I am a gentleDom...

the closest "definition" ive seen is pleasure dom...https://kinkyevents.co.uk/pleasure-dom/

"a style of dominance where the primary role is to focus on providing pleasure to their partner, combining elements of dominance and submission with the main emphasis being consensual pleasure."

 

[LostHorizon]

I find nothing hotter than having her call me by my name.

Exactly

 

[BrendaBear]

I like "sir."

https://media1.tenor.com/m/HmIWzAYhAeYAAAAd/clapping-alexis.gif

 

[UnquietDreams]

Which part? The power exchange or daddy? Or both?

The power exchange. A woman who enjoys having me dressed while she is nude, for example, has become more a turn on for me. I am generally a Dom by nature, but more gentle and service oriented, including using orgasms for correction rather than, say, a paddle.

 

[UnquietDreams]

the closest "definition" ive seen is pleasure dom...https://kinkyevents.co.uk/pleasure-dom/

"a style of dominance where the primary role is to focus on providing pleasure to their partner, combining elements of dominance and submission with the main emphasis being consensual pleasure."

Exactly. "Pleasure Dom" is generally how I describe my dominance preferences.

 

[UnquietDreams]

I find nothing hotter than having her call me by my name.

In general, I agree. In a scene, I don't mind the role play.

 

[MindYaBitness]

the closest "definition" ive seen is pleasure dom...https://kinkyevents.co.uk/pleasure-dom/

"a style of dominance where the primary role is to focus on providing pleasure to their partner, combining elements of dominance and submission with the main emphasis being consensual pleasure."

May I introduce you to my good friend @TigerLilly4U ?

 

[DannieB]

I'm sorry, you are now in the penalty box with @Mr_bogey . Not liking Brussel Sprouts is a cardinal sin!

Just when we were becoming friends!
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[UnquietDreams]

I'm sorry, you are now in the penalty box with @Mr_bogey . Not liking Brussel Sprouts is a cardinal sin!

Well, I do wander from that path as well, if you remember Sprout Quest earlier this year. But I was highly motivated...

 

[LostHorizon]

I have always struggled with the whole dom sub thing. But that pleasure dom dynamic sounds about right

 

[UnquietDreams]

Just when we were becoming friends!
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Come sit with me in the Sin Bin. We can discuss movies some more.

 

[__Nathan1968]

Exactly. "Pleasure Dom" is generally how I describe my dominance preferences.

I’m more of a Dom DeLuise

 

[TXRafe]

May I introduce you to my good friend @TigerLilly4U ?

i have not met her yet

 

[BrendaBear]

https://media1.tenor.com/m/a_F3YJA01ewAAAAd/blowing-kisses-falling-down.gif

 

[UnquietDreams]

I have always struggled with the whole dom sub thing. But that pleasure dom dynamic sounds about right

I am really only dominant in sexual situations (I have a friend who is a Domme is all things) and with the right person. It is a role, I suppose, part of a game or scene, not necessary but enjoyable.

 

[MindYaBitness]

I like "sir."

I find nothing hotter than having her call me by my name.

Exactly

For me, I'm a bit submissive, not in the true sense of the word as it's used here, but it turns me on to turn him on. So, I like to call him whatever the hell he wants to be called. He could tell me to call him Don Pedro the Pooh Bear, and if happily do it

 

[UnquietDreams]

I’m more of a Dom DeLuise

So you switch to Captain Chaos?

 

[LostHorizon]

Just when we were becoming friends!
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PK Subban? Ohhhh he’s a bad boy.

 

[BrendaBear]

For me, I'm a bit submissive, not in the true sense of the word as it's used here, but it turns me on to turn him on. So, I like to call him whatever the hell he wants to be called. He could tell me to call him Don Pedro the Pooh Bear, and if happily do it

Oh… Poo Bear… may I please suck on you?

 

[MindYaBitness]

i have not met her yet

She's rarely here, but you should DM her, if you can get past her general  hatred suspicion of the opposite sex, you'd have a quite a bit to talk about