Women of Lit: A Safe Place To Share

[SofiaLaFrench]

Hugs the bunny gently with her wings.

Just like me 23 months ago! And look at me now - I'm comfortably little to my Dom, and it's such a relief to be able to do that.

I see a lot of aspects of the relationship I have with my hubs within those threads. I feel a need to share with him. Perhaps he will be open to exploring with me. I DESPERATELY HOPE SO!

 

[SofiaLaFrench]

Daddy's Little Girl. Anyone who feels the need to be taken care of might want to look at the threads 1-3, and to participate in the 4th. (For finding out if being a little, or perhaps a Mommy, resonates with you, the first 3 are the best I think.)

Edit. And that's a safe space especially for littles, too. Too hungry people are chased away.

The first thread was very eye-opening. I felt an immediate kinship with the littles. And the Daddies! Oh goodness, they are so wonderful.

 

[Strixaluco]

I see a lot of aspects of the relationship I have with my hubs within those threads. I feel a need to share with him. Perhaps he will be open to exploring with me. I DESPERATELY HOPE SO!

If you already have some of it, sounds like a bit more could be had.

Remember - there's no single way of doing it. You can do it your own way. And the 4th thread has the ongoing discussion, it can be worthwhile writing there!

 

[Strixaluco]

The first thread was very eye-opening. I felt an immediate kinship with the littles. And the Daddies! Oh goodness, they are so wonderful.

THIS. For me, too. I've collected a few of the memes there...

 

[SofiaLaFrench]

THIS. For me, too. I've collected a few of the memes there...

ME TOO! So many of the memes speak to my heart.

 

[SofiaLaFrench]

THIS. For me, too. I've collected a few of the memes there...

Do you have a DD IRL?

 

[Strixaluco]

Do you have a DD IRL?

I do. Well, he wants to be called just a Dom, but... He's very much a DD. At least for someone like me - little but bit ageplaying, so we match perfectly!

 

[SofiaLaFrench]

I'm so happy for you! The thing I learned from the first thread is that there are so many variations of DD/lg, and it really just comes down to what works for the individuals in the relationship! And that DDs have needs too.

 

[Strixaluco]

I'm so happy for you! The thing I learned from the first thread is that there are so many variations of DD/lg, and it really just comes down to what works for the individuals in the relationship! And that DDs have needs too.

I'd send you a link to one good description of DDlg, but sadly it has disappeared from the Internet...

 

[SofiaLaFrench]

If you already have some of it, sounds like a bit more could be had.

Remember - there's no single way of doing it. You can do it your own way. And the 4th thread has the ongoing discussion, it can be worthwhile writing there!

Yes, I've mentioned him in this thread before, I think. He is a protector by nature, both in his personal and professional lives. He's who I go to when I need comfort, even more so than my female friends. The thing is, we're always in reactive mode as a couple, I have a bad day, I scurry to his arms, he comforts me. Wash, rinse, repeat. I feel the need need for someone who can help me be proactive, and show me how to slay my own dragons. I've met no better dragon-slayer than Him. We strive to be equals in our relationship, but I need someone who will tell me no. No Sofia, stop your stress eating. No Sofia, you can't hide, we are going out. But I also need someone to tell me yes. Yes Sofia, what you did was very good. Yes Sofia, you are brave. Yes Sofia, it's okay to feel that way. He's so focused on being a supporting husband, but I feel the need for what some on the thread have called a caretaker, or mentor, more of a daddy figure. I'm a badass most days, but some days I get stressed and I want someone I can disappear into, give up all control, and know I am safe. And maybe I need some of that in the bedroom too, but I don't identify with the ageplay. If that's what you need then good for you and I will NEVER judge you for it! I also don't want to be punished, I don't react well to that. Long story there that I just want to forget.
Ugh, sorry for the long rant. It makes me feel better, though my bunny brain hurts now.

 

[Strixaluco]

I'm a badass most days, but...

We may be badasses out there, and yet need to curl in his lap at home.

 

[SofiaLaFrench]

If you already have some of it, sounds like a bit more could be had.

Remember - there's no single way of doing it. You can do it your own way. And the 4th thread has the ongoing discussion, it can be worthwhile writing there!

I'm creating a new alt for the forums. I want to keep this separate from my author alt.

 

[Strixaluco]

For the longest time I always wanted to have a Daddy Dom, but honestly it's hard finding one. I've come across so many of them in the past and all of them were so sex focused right off the bat. This is partly the reason why I stopped looking, due to constant disappointment.

It's hard online, so many wannabes around who know nothing about the trust building etc (and who have probably never done anything offline). But I know there are people have found a Daddy inside a guy thinking he's all vanilla. Somewhat like Sofia. Or you may find some Doms actually being pretty much like Daddies, like I did.

Also there are munches. Even munches specifically for Daddies and little specifically, so you may encounter someone face-to-face.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Hello all! This is Sofia. Got my new alt approved this morning. I'll be using this one for the forum so I can keep personal stuff separate from my author page. @v_indigo @Strixaluco @InCNCestBangPie

I await snickerdoodles

 

[Strixaluco]

I await snickerdoodles

I don't have that, but would apple crisp do?

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

Hello all! This is Sofia. Got my new alt approved this morning. I'll be using this one for the forum so I can keep personal stuff separate from my author page. @v_indigo @Strixaluco @InCNCestBangPie

I await snickerdoodles

Bunny!
Come, time for snuggles.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Bunny!
Come, time for snuggles.

Bunny runs to @InCNCestBangPie and hops into her arms!

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

Tell me, how are you feeling today, bunny?
(strokes your beautiful fur)

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Thank you for asking. Bunny's heart has been beating hard all day, but she is happy. HE senses something is up, but he always gives me space. He knows that I will share when I‘m ready.
It feels good in your arms

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

Thank you for asking. Bunny's heart has been beating hard all day, but she is happy. HE senses something is up, but he always gives me space. He knows that I will share when I‘m ready.
It feels good in your arms

Gosh, such a precious thing you are.
I hope you have a lovely evening.
(Taps your nose and gives you a warm hug)

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

You too

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

ATTENTION LADIES!

Watch out for SexyGeorge. I've had this name for less than 24 hours and he's already bothering me.

 

[Strixaluco]

I agree, it's really hard online. In the past I believe I trusted way too easily, but once I got out of my relationship and began healing from Domestic Violence, I'm a lot more weary when it comes to things. I'm still learning and discovering new things about myself. I used to beat myself up anytime I made a small mistake but now I've grown so much. Hopefully I'll find a Daddy one of these days, but I am not going to go seeking for it anymore like I did before. The other day I set up boundaries just because it was very "sex focused" and I felt kinda uncomfortable because I would have liked to talk about other things. Sex isn't the only thing I would want to talk about all the time anyways. I know this is a sex site and such, but there's also respect too. Anytime I come across guys like this online, I just ignore it and delete the messages right away.

You have a tough past, it's good to hear you're on the healing path.

There's indeed so much more than sex in life. Even some dominating people suffer from subs only wanting a sexual relationship and not a partnership. My Dom used to think that's the only thing he can get and was really surprised when I was interested in Him. His hobbies, his past, his life. That I treated as generally as a human being and not just a sex object.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

I agree, it's really hard online. In the past I believe I trusted way too easily, but once I got out of my relationship and began healing from Domestic Violence, I'm a lot more weary when it comes to things

I'm sorry for the confusion this is going to cause but I just made this post using my author alt and I'm really trying to keep things separate. I'll go back and delete that but if you've already see it, this is Sofia.

I hope you someday find what you're looking for. Like you, I've suffered from DV in a past relationship. I didn't even know DD/lg was a thing until Very recently thanks to this thread. Happy for me I've found my DD inside my husband just this week, after being together for 5 and married for 3. He hid it from me because of my past. Our mutual friends who introduced us told him about my past DV relationship before I'd even met him. My need is not so much about the sex, what I need is what I'm learning is a caretaker, someone to make the decisions for me when I just can't, and point me in the direction of the right decision when I'm unsure. Someone to hold me accountable.

Don't give up.

Love and bunny hugs.

 

[queen_keira69]

Thanks for telling me about this group, although I have to say, I haven't had a bad experience with men, except from getting boring dm's, like "hey baby", or so... nothing I could have been able to solve. But as I said, I am more interested in finding women who share my kinks and are alike me, because my real life friends are more vanilla and average than I am. I mean, I have two other girls I can talk to, but it always helps to have more girls who understand my passions and kinks and are happy to have a straight conversation, that might become a lovely online friendship...