Dunes_et_Soleil
drunk on immorality
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- Nov 19, 2017
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Alas, I really don't agree with that. You are deliberately misrepresenting the facts and on top of that, insulted the poster as well.Your wife has reason to leave you, not because of what happened at the gym or doesn't happen anymore in your marriage, but because you have been spying on her, screening her phone systematically. That's no trusting relationship. And you should be ashamed, not only because you are spying on your wife, but also because you make a fool of yourself by telling everybody here.
First of all, she went to the gym and he didn't force her to do that, he probably paid for it. She decided to hook up with her personal trainer. To make things worse, she planned to have (anal)sex and he has evidence of that.
Second, if she decided to end the marriage, her case would be very weak. If he has kept a record of the messages and videos, she has no case at all.
Third, she made a mistake evidenced by what she started. I don't deny that he secretly took her phone but it pales in comparison with what she was up to.
In my opinion, they would be crazy to think of ending their marriage. Because she realised that this was not what she wanted and nothing substantial has happened. Things will need to be discussed but most of all, if those three kids grow up without a father, their lives will be very much effected.