What's something you've always wanted to ask the opposite gender?

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Do you men ever get pedicures? What was the last thing you did for yourself that some women do that you really enjoyed?

!st Q: I've never had one, but I do my own very precisely - a little obsessive about them. I keep emery boards everywhere, and if I feel a nail has a jagged part on it, I'll smooth it out even if I'm driving.

2nd Q: You mean besides a hannie?:D
 
Any man worth his salt is attracted to the whole of a woman. I could give two shits about stretch marks if she is the woman who I'm head over boots with.

That's awesome to hear.

My $0.02?

I don't think of stretch marks, wrinkles or cellulite as imperfections. I see such marks as trophies, proof of a real life. Something earned.

However you or I see them, know that perfect people don't really exist. Between makeup, airbrushing and Photoshop, those images in magazines and movies are just not real. When it comes to erotica, porn, nudes, that sort of thing, I will take real people every time.

A smart man will take a real woman in person over an unobtainable fantasy on a screen every time.

I sure hope so. But I feel like that isn't always the case.
I care about them. Precisely because they ARE an insecurity issue for women. If women did not care about them, then I wouldn't either. But it bothers me (bother is the wrong word), when women make decisions based on and even dwell on them.
"I can't wear this because..."
"You can see..."
"Can you see...?"

I just wish women were more comfortable with who they are. That's why I love Sassy and EY's thread so much. I wish all women could go out... or get undressed... and think to themselves.. "Fuck, I am sexy".

This is an awesome response as well.

Hope no one is feeding me what I want to hear, but these seem like genuine responses!!
 
Question for the guys:

I had a male friend who was thumbing through nudes on his cellphone at lunch one day (group of us that were co-workers were regular lunch dates) and made a face at a picture he saw. We (ladies) asked why the face and he said "That pussy is wrecked. Nothing worse than an ugly pussy". And this was not a teenage/young early 20s man. He was married and in his mid 40s so it wasn't coming from someone who had no experience to speak of.

Is there such a thing to you men? I have always gotten the impression that all shapes/sizes were desired but maybe I'm wrong? Just curious.
 
Question for the guys:

I had a male friend who was thumbing through nudes on his cellphone at lunch one day (group of us that were co-workers were regular lunch dates) and made a face at a picture he saw. We (ladies) asked why the face and he said "That pussy is wrecked. Nothing worse than an ugly pussy". And this was not a teenage/young early 20s man. He was married and in his mid 40s so it wasn't coming from someone who had no experience to speak of.

Is there such a thing to you men? I have always gotten the impression that all shapes/sizes were desired but maybe I'm wrong? Just curious.

I take solace in the fact that you are calling him a friend in the past tense.

It isn't about how it looks, it's about how you can pleasure it with your mouth. ;)
 
Question for the guys:

I had a male friend who was thumbing through nudes on his cellphone at lunch one day (group of us that were co-workers were regular lunch dates) and made a face at a picture he saw. We (ladies) asked why the face and he said "That pussy is wrecked. Nothing worse than an ugly pussy". And this was not a teenage/young early 20s man. He was married and in his mid 40s so it wasn't coming from someone who had no experience to speak of.

Is there such a thing to you men? I have always gotten the impression that all shapes/sizes were desired but maybe I'm wrong? Just curious.

I like this question. I too have wondered about this.
 
I take solace in the fact that you are calling him a friend in the past tense.

It isn't about how it looks, it's about how you can pleasure it with your mouth. ;)

I guess women can say the same about a penis, but... nope, it has to look good too :D
 
I guess women can say the same about a penis, but... nope, it has to look good too :D

:D;)

I like this question. I too have wondered about this.

I was a little shy asking the question but I have always wondered.

I take solace in the fact that you are calling him a friend in the past tense.

I just really felt sorry for his wife. ;)

It isn't about how it looks, it's about how you can pleasure it with your mouth. ;)

noted ;)
 
Question for the guys:

I had a male friend who was thumbing through nudes on his cellphone at lunch one day (group of us that were co-workers were regular lunch dates) and made a face at a picture he saw. We (ladies) asked why the face and he said "That pussy is wrecked. Nothing worse than an ugly pussy". And this was not a teenage/young early 20s man. He was married and in his mid 40s so it wasn't coming from someone who had no experience to speak of.

Is there such a thing to you men? I have always gotten the impression that all shapes/sizes were desired but maybe I'm wrong? Just curious.

I haven't seen one that I didn't want to lick yet .. so, I don't know. I mean, there are some that look nicer than others, but I don't think less of the ones that are less aesthetically pleasing.


JJ, I don't disagree with you about cocks. I like them to look nice too :p they aren't the most attractive body part, that's for sure.
 
Do men care about stretch marks and cellulite on women, particularly on breasts, ass, stomach and thighs? Or is this really a female insecurity issue?

I have known men that were bothered by their stretch marks. Why do you think this is just a female insecurity? I think sometimes it is easier to blame our looks as a reason instead of confronting our deeper fears.
 
I haven't seen one that I didn't want to lick yet .. so, I don't know. I mean, there are some that look nicer than others, but I don't think less of the ones that are less aesthetically pleasing.


JJ, I don't disagree with you about cocks. I like them to look nice too :p they aren't the most attractive body part, that's for sure.
I disagree. They are very aesthetically pleasing :p
I have known men that were bothered by their stretch marks. Why do you think this is just a female insecurity? I think sometimes it is easier to blame our looks as a reason instead of confronting our deeper fears.


Really? I have never been with a man who has had then and didn't walk around like a king and never once mentioned them.
 
I disagree. They are very aesthetically pleasing :p



Really? I have never been with a man who has had then and didn't walk around like a king and never once mentioned them.

Right? I have known some overweight men who walked around butt naked and were king of their world. I envy that confidence so much. Regardless of how they look, they strut!!
 
I haven't seen one that I didn't want to lick yet .. so, I don't know. I mean, there are some that look nicer than others, but I don't think less of the ones that are less aesthetically pleasing.


JJ, I don't disagree with you about cocks. I like them to look nice too :p they aren't the most attractive body part, that's for sure.

Thanks Tolyk for answering and good to know that emotionally mature guys don't have this problem. :)
 
The vag comment - I refer to it as a roast beef vagina, had a long discussion about this on here some months ago. Anyway, I say say no to roast beef. Start a gofundme for labiaplasty or something because that shit just ain’t right. In my opinion.


I always want to know if balls get in your way fellas? Especially the ones with chicken legs and a thigh gap. 🤔
 
One more question... fellas who press down on their pelvic area fat...why do you do this? It annoys the hell out of me, probably even more so than roast beef vaginas. I mean we can tell you’re pressing on fat, I just don’t get it. Why?! We’re smarter than that.
 
Question for the guys:

I had a male friend who was thumbing through nudes on his cellphone at lunch one day (group of us that were co-workers were regular lunch dates) and made a face at a picture he saw. We (ladies) asked why the face and he said "That pussy is wrecked. Nothing worse than an ugly pussy". And this was not a teenage/young early 20s man. He was married and in his mid 40s so it wasn't coming from someone who had no experience to speak of.

Is there such a thing to you men? I have always gotten the impression that all shapes/sizes were desired but maybe I'm wrong? Just curious.

It's easy to say that to a picture. I bet he wouldn't tuck his hard dick back into his pants and say "no thanks" to a willing,naked woman! I don't think I'm alone in this: I have a preference as to the kind of pussy I like, (prominent lips) just like I have a preference for boobs (real), legs (shapely) butts (ditto) and pubic hair(groomed). But I don't think I'd say "no" just because a woman had small lips, or excessive hair. Especially since she'd be naked by the time I discovered this!

My preference is "female, age appropriate".

The vag comment - I refer to it as a roast beef vagina, had a long discussion about this on here some months ago. Anyway, I say say no to roast beef. Start a gofundme for labiaplasty or something because that shit just ain’t right. In my opinion.


I always want to know if balls get in your way fellas? Especially the ones with chicken legs and a thigh gap. 🤔

The boys only get in the way when sleeping naked. But that's always.
 
So is there a peeing range where you can go to practice your aim? :)

Some urinals I have been to have targets drawn on them. I always assumed this was an application of "Nudge Theory" rather than a practise range. :D

Incidentally, I have found that the act of peeing reduces the tumescence of the penis sufficiently to obtain an accurate aim without lying horizontally over the toilet bowl.
 
The vag comment - I refer to it as a roast beef vagina, had a long discussion about this on here some months ago. Anyway, I say say no to roast beef. Start a gofundme for labiaplasty or something because that shit just ain’t right. In my opinion.


I always want to know if balls get in your way fellas? Especially the ones with chicken legs and a thigh gap. 🤔
Yes, but I don't need to man-spread. I have neither chicken legs or a thigh gap.
One more question... fellas who press down on their pelvic area fat...why do you do this? It annoys the hell out of me, probably even more so than roast beef vaginas. I mean we can tell you’re pressing on fat, I just don’t get it. Why?! We’re smarter than that.

I've wondered that too, talked about it with my wife. It just makes you look smaller, because you are trying too hard to look bigger....
 
Do men prefer the ultra fit bodies of a female or ones with a little extr? I know sometimes the fantasy is there of the perfect body, but is that really the desire of men in real life?

What areas do you like on women with a bit extra that we would be surprised about?

What matters to you most? The size of a woman or the ability to adjust to your specific needs or wants if you had to choose and why?
 
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