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¿Que? Cornelius!
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- Dec 2, 2014
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What does a Dom(me) do? Make you want to submit, sometimes in spite of yourself. Make you feel safe enough to do that.
This is very good. In my particular case, it's the only way I see something "working." If I don't do that for someone, I'm not interested.
A dominant loves in the uniquely best way for the unique submissive in the relationship.
Flexibility and adaption. Every person in and out of relationship frames, whether vanilla, business, freindship or what have you compliments of clashes with all the many facets tbat make up who we are.
This is why you can have a great friend who likes and admires someone you can't stand.
Comes down to chemistry and finding a person who brings out a version of you that you, yourself like.