Jamie_and_Lisa
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What is Incest?
Well, other than the reason there are so many people walking around this planet today.
The genesis of this question was a purge of “incest and incest adjacent” stories “elsewhere" that saw fifteen of our stories deleted. But what is incest? (An even more nebulous question is what is “incest adjacent?” Your neighbors are brother and sister? What if they live two-doors down? Five doors down, but you have lunch together every Thursday?)
Ther “official word” was disingenuous, that it was to “better reflect the expressed tastes of our readers.” Those who dislike the category may be expressive, but actual readers over there -- like here -- read the hell out of incest stories. Read 'em “much more better” than “them others.” To our knowledge, it isn’t an economic decision, the site while poorly designed doesn’t seem to be selling anything.
It was opined by some affected authors that it was a “legal decision,” but legal where? Where the server is located? What if it’s in France, Holland or Brazil where adults can do whatever consensual thing they want or Rhode Island, or in Ohio where siblings can -- but it’s illegal for a former adult college student to have sex with a former teaching assistant six years after graduation?
Or a certain Polynesian island where it is a tradition for a man to marry his paternal aunt but illegal to have sex with or marry any of his maternal relatives (due to inheritance issues)? There probably aren’t any servers relevant to the discussion located in Afganistan so we don’t have to worry about those issues.
Is having sex with your first-cousin incest? What if it’s in New Mexico where you are husband and wife. Or Texas, where it’s legal if you got married before 1985, or after that in another US state -- Sorry, couple married in Canada in 1990 with six kids --? Well as a visitor, but not as a resident if it was after 1985. Or in North Carolina where it’s legal for SOME first-cousins but not others depending on who your grandparents are. Or if you are of Native American descent in Minnesota. “Honey, what percent is that limited to?”
Is it the words we use describing the relationship in a story? Does it matter if it is fiction or non-fiction? What if it really happened but we use pseudonyms rather than our full legal names, then is it fiction? What is fictionalized versus anonymized reality or fiction? What if we are role-playing and only say that it’s real. What if it’s fictional but we say it really happened? What if a golden retriever is typing this? Oops, different rule, “don’t worry -- she was a dog too, a REAL dog if you know what I mean --.”
For the sake of discussion say my birth certificate reads Lisa and my brother’s reads George and our first-cousin’s reads Jamie and our second-cousin’s reads Eva and our third-cousin’s reads Paul. Keeping in mind that nobody is truly unrelated -- i read somewhere that nearly every American descended from immigrants from a single European nation is no more than a fifth cousin. Where is the line drawn? The Catholic church used to say at third cousin, or two with an indulgence, but first-cousins were okay too for a negotiated price.
Lisa and Paul can get married (since 2014 Lisa and Eva can too) is that incest? If all four have fun together is that incest? What if George just watches? What if I write a story about all four getting it on and call George “Hank” then is it?
We know authors who had to go back and edit dialog removing “baby-doll” “baby-girl” “daddy” “oh mama” because of "bad-word" recognition software that thought it was too incest-y, or maybe incest ajacent-y. We have been gigged on “baby” and “child” -- where we grew up a 70-year-old might call a 40-year-old “child.”
Well, other than the reason there are so many people walking around this planet today.
The genesis of this question was a purge of “incest and incest adjacent” stories “elsewhere" that saw fifteen of our stories deleted. But what is incest? (An even more nebulous question is what is “incest adjacent?” Your neighbors are brother and sister? What if they live two-doors down? Five doors down, but you have lunch together every Thursday?)
Ther “official word” was disingenuous, that it was to “better reflect the expressed tastes of our readers.” Those who dislike the category may be expressive, but actual readers over there -- like here -- read the hell out of incest stories. Read 'em “much more better” than “them others.” To our knowledge, it isn’t an economic decision, the site while poorly designed doesn’t seem to be selling anything.
It was opined by some affected authors that it was a “legal decision,” but legal where? Where the server is located? What if it’s in France, Holland or Brazil where adults can do whatever consensual thing they want or Rhode Island, or in Ohio where siblings can -- but it’s illegal for a former adult college student to have sex with a former teaching assistant six years after graduation?
Or a certain Polynesian island where it is a tradition for a man to marry his paternal aunt but illegal to have sex with or marry any of his maternal relatives (due to inheritance issues)? There probably aren’t any servers relevant to the discussion located in Afganistan so we don’t have to worry about those issues.
Is having sex with your first-cousin incest? What if it’s in New Mexico where you are husband and wife. Or Texas, where it’s legal if you got married before 1985, or after that in another US state -- Sorry, couple married in Canada in 1990 with six kids --? Well as a visitor, but not as a resident if it was after 1985. Or in North Carolina where it’s legal for SOME first-cousins but not others depending on who your grandparents are. Or if you are of Native American descent in Minnesota. “Honey, what percent is that limited to?”
Is it the words we use describing the relationship in a story? Does it matter if it is fiction or non-fiction? What if it really happened but we use pseudonyms rather than our full legal names, then is it fiction? What is fictionalized versus anonymized reality or fiction? What if we are role-playing and only say that it’s real. What if it’s fictional but we say it really happened? What if a golden retriever is typing this? Oops, different rule, “don’t worry -- she was a dog too, a REAL dog if you know what I mean --.”
For the sake of discussion say my birth certificate reads Lisa and my brother’s reads George and our first-cousin’s reads Jamie and our second-cousin’s reads Eva and our third-cousin’s reads Paul. Keeping in mind that nobody is truly unrelated -- i read somewhere that nearly every American descended from immigrants from a single European nation is no more than a fifth cousin. Where is the line drawn? The Catholic church used to say at third cousin, or two with an indulgence, but first-cousins were okay too for a negotiated price.
Lisa and Paul can get married (since 2014 Lisa and Eva can too) is that incest? If all four have fun together is that incest? What if George just watches? What if I write a story about all four getting it on and call George “Hank” then is it?
We know authors who had to go back and edit dialog removing “baby-doll” “baby-girl” “daddy” “oh mama” because of "bad-word" recognition software that thought it was too incest-y, or maybe incest ajacent-y. We have been gigged on “baby” and “child” -- where we grew up a 70-year-old might call a 40-year-old “child.”
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