eastern sun
hungry little creature
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It's our ego that feels abandoned as the loosening reminds us of the truth: nothing is fair in a M/s relationship.
When the leash is short they are close to us as their focus is also all on us. So no matter how hard it is, we feel wanted, we feel needed, we feel important.
When the leash is loosened, we are still expected to act the same, sacrifice ourselves the same, but we dont get the reward of feeling wanted and needed and special. We just feel taken for granted.
You're absolutely right.
There is one fair thing in an M/s relationship. . . you do get what you asked for. Question is . . . do you still want it?