LizVegas79
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Hello Everyone - I'm hoping those of you who have been to swingers clubs or shared a partner at a swinger's party will join in the discussion on this thread because I can tell my husband and I are going to need some advice.
This past Saturday night and Sunday morning my husband and I spent some quality time with two couples friends of ours openly and freely discussing our sexual bucket lists in regards to both this coronavirus pandemic and the fact that we're all starting to get a little older.
We knew that was the agenda for the party in advance because it all started from a conversation my husband and one of his best friends had at work last week.
It turned out to be a wonderful and amazing eye opening (and eye popping! ) experience for all six of us.
It was not the first time my husband and I looked into the swinger's scene here in Las Vegas. But it was the first time we participated in it.
I can tell already that it has not only changed our relationship with our friends I previously felt we already knew, but that it has and will continue to also change our own relationship as husband and wife.
It's all good. We broke down some barriers (especially a few of his) and I expect we will be breaking down a few more in the coming weeks and months.
It turns out that within our circle of friends more of them have been enjoying each other's company quite a bit more that I previously knew. I guess that old saying is true, "You never really know someone until you sleep with them."
(mmmm, I can still feel that first tentative touch of one of my husband's best friends reaching out and caressing me for the first time )
With all that said, I'm hoping that some of you who have more experience with "the lifestyle" will share your own thoughts and experiences sharing your S.O.'s (significant others) with friends and/or strangers. Because I can tell already that this is going to be a bit of a tricky dance but at the same time I am soooooo looking forward to it!
I guess what I'm most interested in learning about is:
- What are some of the unexpected challenges that can arise within an active group of swingers?
and
- What are some of the things to look out for or discuss with your S.O. in order to keep the lines of communication open?
Thank you all in advance for sharing your wisdom! I can't think of a better way to talk about the joys and challenges of swinging and partner swapping than with a group of other people!
This past Saturday night and Sunday morning my husband and I spent some quality time with two couples friends of ours openly and freely discussing our sexual bucket lists in regards to both this coronavirus pandemic and the fact that we're all starting to get a little older.
We knew that was the agenda for the party in advance because it all started from a conversation my husband and one of his best friends had at work last week.
It turned out to be a wonderful and amazing eye opening (and eye popping! ) experience for all six of us.
It was not the first time my husband and I looked into the swinger's scene here in Las Vegas. But it was the first time we participated in it.
I can tell already that it has not only changed our relationship with our friends I previously felt we already knew, but that it has and will continue to also change our own relationship as husband and wife.
It's all good. We broke down some barriers (especially a few of his) and I expect we will be breaking down a few more in the coming weeks and months.
It turns out that within our circle of friends more of them have been enjoying each other's company quite a bit more that I previously knew. I guess that old saying is true, "You never really know someone until you sleep with them."
(mmmm, I can still feel that first tentative touch of one of my husband's best friends reaching out and caressing me for the first time )
With all that said, I'm hoping that some of you who have more experience with "the lifestyle" will share your own thoughts and experiences sharing your S.O.'s (significant others) with friends and/or strangers. Because I can tell already that this is going to be a bit of a tricky dance but at the same time I am soooooo looking forward to it!
I guess what I'm most interested in learning about is:
- What are some of the unexpected challenges that can arise within an active group of swingers?
and
- What are some of the things to look out for or discuss with your S.O. in order to keep the lines of communication open?
Thank you all in advance for sharing your wisdom! I can't think of a better way to talk about the joys and challenges of swinging and partner swapping than with a group of other people!
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